Damon & Bonnie Why Damon and Bonnie?

samjhart posted on Oct 27, 2009 at 02:17PM
Considering the majority of fans (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fans are divided on Damon/Bonnie, thought I'd make a forum to welcome Donnie fans (I jus made the name up) and list why exactly you are in love with this ship!

So I'll start. I read about them in the book and tho I thot Delena was sexy and all but I jus couldn't erm LOVE it. Then came the Donnie interaction - fell head over heels. It was jus..WOW. Bonnie brought out a caring, human side to Damon that I was craving to see. He cared about her and she trusted him enough to call him for help when she was in danger. I think she believed in him where even Elena gave up.

In the tv show - they look like incredibly STRONG characters who would not be intimidated by each other in a relationship. Of crz, we've actually got to see a scene with them together yet...

Gonna stop now - getting rantish lol

{The List} NOTE: Please don't copy or steal this idea. You know who you are

- Because somehow in some way they bring out the best in one another
- Because Damon sees himself in Bonnie
- Because somehow Bonnie always saves Damon
- Because Damon HAS saved Bonnie in spite of himself
- Because they're on the slow-burn and are still explosive
- Because when it comes down to it Damon could NEVER hurt Bonnie
- Because Bamon are the LOVE STORY before 'The Vampire Diaries'
- Because Damon has never lied to Bonnie
- Because Damon always can see through Bonnie even if her friends can't see through her lies
- Because Bonnie showed she trusted him with her life
- Because Damon died for her
- Because our heart broke for Bonnie when she saw Damon die - you only cry like that for someone you LOVE
- Because even in serious situations they found time to flirt
- Because Stefan totally ships them XD
- Because he blushed when she kissed him
- Because he gave her a sexy, open-mouthed kiss
- Because he noticed her bra size lol
- Because Damon teased her about the manliness of Jeremy
- Because she saved him from the witches' wrath
- Because the first time Damon saw Bonnie have a vision - he was politely puzzled
- Because Bonnie pulled one over him
- Because she was the first person to touch his true self - his soul
- Because he sees her as a 'good person'
- Because she challenged his emotional self when she saved him from the fire
- Because he did really want to 'protect' her
- Because the little hints of their backstory we've seen on the show seem AMAZING
- Because their chemistry is undeniable
- Because they outrageously flirt no matter who's there
- Because Damon rose his glass as a toast at her
- Because he eyed her up whilst she was doing a spell
- Because he was whistling at her
- Because Damon couldn't help but lick his lips when she went fiesty on his ass
- Because they are so #Married
- Because Damon automatically has no concept of personal space when it comes to Bonnie
- Because they dress in matching colours sometimes
- Because he did his eye-flirt at her
- Because he listens to her
- Because Damon tells jokes more around Bonnie
- Because Bonnie calls him "Older, sexy, danger guy" (Girl's guy radar is ON)
- Because she calls him "gorgeous" in the books
- Because he gave her sexy kiss on her back ;D
- Because he comes for his 'bird'
- Because she is worth "infinity" ordinary girls to him
- Because Bamon is so much more than lovely dovely, their wicked, bad,and not your average couple ;D
- Because we love a forbidden love story
- Because a vampire and a witch - is something to be revered
- Because they are so unpredictable together
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie in Blood Will tell before attempting to bite her
- Because that kiss had us thinking bad things
- Because on the show - he's never held anyone so physically close as he did with 'dead Bonnie'
- Because he nicknamed her
- Because she nicknamed him
- Because Damon was so emotionally affected by Bonnie's death - even though he knew she wasn't really gone
- Because she ONLY loves him!
- Because Damon couldn't slap Bonnie, instead he kiss her to calm her down in The Dinner Disaster
- Because Bonnie in the books love only him and for her he is her first choice and not the second like for Elena and Katherine
- Because they have so much passion
- Because Damon refused to let Klaus take Bonnie - with a firm "No"
- Because they both are great dancers
- Because Damon's instinct is always to protect Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie hurt Damon he never ever seeks revenge in any form
- Because in their first scene together - we love how Damon tried it on with Bonnie and how she shot him down
- Because they see right through each other
- Because in the books: Damon was beside himself with 'terror' when he realised he'd just abandoned Bonnie
- Because he couldn't take the idea of Bonnie being anyone's but his
- Because Bonnie asked Mrs Flowers how to contact the dead - so she could talk to Damon
- Because at the end of Midnight when all other visions cleared away there were only two on his mind : Bonnie's face and name
- Because he sooo checked her out in her dress in 3x09
- Because Bonnie is Damon's "humanity" in the books
- Because Damon is Bonnie's "savior"
- Because we so ship the bad boy and 'sidekick'
- Because Damon called Bonnie "good"
- Because in the Last Dance Bonnie saw real concern in Damon for herself
- Because Bonnie teases Damon
- Because Damon teases Bonnie back
- Because Bonnie is Damon's type in the books and show
- Because Damon is Bonnie's type in the books and show
- Because in After Hours Damon was fantasizing with his eyes wide open for Bonnie
- Because Damon went all poetic for Bonnie in the books
- Because Damon made Bonnie smirk-smile with his goofy dancing
- Because one look is always enough
- Because they deserve to be happy
- Because Elena is jealous of Bonnie. “I’ve also been jealous of Bonnie.” Bonnie’s head shot up, and she stared at Elena with an expression of disbelief. “I was used to being the only human Damon cared about, the only one who he would want to save.” She looked at Bonnie with tear-filled eyes. “I am so, so glad that Bonnie is alive. But I was jealous that Damon cared enough to die for her." i mean if ELENA is jealous there must be something going on! ;)
- Because the Bamily alone are enough for anyone to start shipping them XD
- Because Damon got very guilty when Bonnie mentioned him leaving her for 4 days.(Midnight)
- Because he couldn't help not looking at Bonnie, after he had undressed her. (Nightfall)
- Because Damon met Bonnie, before he met Elena. (After hours)
- Because Bonnie said he could have her anytime:
"You just don't want it to be Damon," said Meredith. "I would think you'd be more worried about him being a psycho killer than a diary thief."
"I don't know; killers are sort of romantic. Imagine your dying with his hands around your throat. He'd strangle the life out of you, and the last thing you'd see would be his face." Putting her own hands to her throat, Bonnie gasped and expired tragically, ending up draped across the bed. "He can have me anytime," she said, eyes still closed.
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie at Alaric Saltzmans party.
- Because Damon got the ability to make Bonnie laugh:
She heard Damon's low ironical voice: "And have you heard that kissing a red-haired girl cures fever blisters?" And then Bonnie's outrageous, flattered laughter.(The Struggle)
- Because they are "cut from the same cloth" aka are SoulMates
- Because Ian admitted he read the Bamon book scenes *squee*
- Because Kat said: "The most profound bond Bonnie has is with Damon"
- Because Ian said Bamon is "Wow!"
- Because Ian said that Bamon "really works"
- Because KG&IS ship them XD
- Because there's never been a couple like them
- Because in his 500 years of existence he's never met anyone like Bonnie (books)
- Because Bonnie's feelings for Damon are very real (books and show)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her (books)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her in the show
- Because Damon avoids manhandling Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie saved Tyler from Damon, he immediately forgot to be mad at her
- Because they do 'mouthing' communication
- Because Damon was listening out for Bonnie even before he got to the house
- Because when Abby told Bonnie to tell her 'friends' of the danger - she called Damon
- Because Damon soooo checked out Bonnie in that dress
- Because in the books Bonnie withstood torture for Damon
- Because Bonnie lied to protect Damon from the kitsune
- Because the 'lady of quality' Damon chose to help him turn back into a vampire reminded him of Bonnie (psychoanalysis alert).
- Because Damon told Bonnie she was a 'lady of quality.'
- Because there aren't 'two like her'
- Because Damon refers to Bonnie as his witch
- Because they keep us waiting which ensures they'll be even more epic when they happen!
- Damon would never accept Bonnie w/ other guy in order to make her happy..
- Because Damon, 'He’d always thought of her as his' (Moonsong)
- Because LJ Smith said that she would have had Bamon together in the woods helping Caroline give birth. And she would FIGHT for the scene to be published

 Considering the majority of fan (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fan are divided on Damon/Bonn
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu bibsd21 said…
big smile
I really think they make such a cute couple. I feel like its sooo focused on stelena that damon needs sum lovin too. I really want damon and bonnie to hook up on the show because they look like they have more chemistry than stelena honestly
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
^ITA. Even in the books they have been before any other couple for me and in the show its the same. Stelena are cute and the triangle +Katherine is taking up WAAYY too much screentime!

btw welcome to our humble forum bibsd21 :) do you have a nickname I can use..without typing out your username? lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Ohhh

"Hey bonnie, wanna dance? "

Or when he says "please give me another chance"
XDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Mwhahaha

That was classic XD He got pawned so bad he forgot to insult Caroline
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL I NO.
Gosh, i wish bamon had more screen time
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
zzz
^so do I! I'm gonna go now. Its way past midnight. Night hun XD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Bamon4life said…
Hey guys just joined. I think Bonnie and Damon should defintley have more screentime. I mean they have so much chemistry and they would be like the most awesomenest couple!

Yeah that scene was just too funny! Love the part when she tells him she can burn him with her eyes!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
I no, eh?
Hey, bamon4life whats ur name?
For short .
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
big smile
Welcome bibsd21 and Bamon4life!

Do you have any nickname?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Asma, Aly! *bearhug*

I'm here now, I can help with the props!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
big smile
(hugs)

Morning!!!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
big smile
Hey Aly! *hugs*

Are you there?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
Godd morning(or good evening by my time).About the spoiler for the next episode.I knew that Stefan would be the one to save Bonnie and not Damon and like I said in previous posts it irritates me to no end.It's just getting so boring that everytime Bonnie is in danger Stefan saves her.He saved her from Damon biting her,he saved her from the tomb and now this.I'm sick of it now.There are fans which ship Stefan and Bonnie now.it's just irritating how they give Bamon moments to Delena and hiw they make Stefan Bonnie's savior instead of Damon.Honestlly I know that they don't go by the books but if LJS wanted us to ship Stefan and Bonnie she would have had Stefan saving Bonnie so many times.Those writers are just so damn afraid that if they have Damon saving Bonnie their fanbase will grow more not that it isn't growing now.And I'm sick of them promoting the triangele and of Damon's obssesion over Kathrine too.It's so painfully dull.I wonder if will they have Stelena and Bamon end uo together in the show if they do end up together in the books.

I think we should use the quote where Damon says Bonnie is breaking the stone in his heart but the quote where Bonnie says she isn't afraid of him and is there when he is in his most vulnerable is great too.It just shows how strong their connection is.I can't wait untill Damon becomes human and him and Bonnie bond more.:)
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
In the end im pretty sure damon will pick bonnie.
He will probably realize that elena is more than capable of handling herself, she's strong and bold and doesnt need his protection. Bonnie needs protecting, dont get me wrong, bonnie is a strong person and she continues to grow and grow, but she needs that protection. And i think damon will realize it too.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
angry
Hi Sisi!

I know... I can't even think about Stefan & Bonnie. Bonnie swore over her own blood she'd never touch Stefan. Stefan is like a brother. Any romantic interest between them would be a disrespect for LJS work.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Where do you live, Sisi?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
angry
Evening sisi, Aly, Patty *hugs all*

hope you guys are ok.

Yeah I get what Patty and Sisi are saying absolutley. And it makes me angry. Donnie, and even are the characters are getting sacrificed cz the producers are turning this into True Blood 2.0. You know like Bill always rescued everybody in the beginning..and he does whilst he is slowly turning darker. Sound familiar? And oh the bad boy is starting to redeem himself by showing up the 'good' guy. If I wanted to watch TB again I'd wait for the new season or watch the re-runs *GRRR*

I think ppl are starting to ship Sonnie on the show cz well Stefan is acting like Bonnie's saviour. Why are they being so disrespectful to us?

PS, the lack of Donnie scenes last ep - I think has made us rabid lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
angry
Patty I live in Bulgaria.Right now it's 10.15 PM.:)
I absolutelly agree.They are sacrafising chracter's perosnalities and the triangele seems so rushed.The last epsiode really WTF was ahppening whit Damon trusting Elena.It's so fucking stupid.Book-Damon would be smarter than that but I'm not aurprised because they had made him more visious than he was in the books.And yes they are starting to ship Sonnie because Stefan always saves her.WTF is this?If they keep doing this it will be much worst.Can you imagine if Bamom get together and Sonne hook up tigether in the show if they will have Delena hooking up.It will be so disrpespetfull.Now probably they will have Damon saving Elena.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
angry
^Cool :) You live in Bulgaria!

ITA. I get that the producers are trying to give some to Delena and even Stelena fans but Sonnie? LJ pretty much killed that completeley in 'Nightfall.' So why are they force-feeding us? I don't the producers understood the characters or LJ's work. Her books were written so everybody could ship what they wanted - as much as possible. It was ambigious. There would be Delena moments in the middle of Donnie ones and vice versa. I don't think that the producers care tbh. All they want is for us to swallow another triangle. It makes me so angry! If they stopped telling us that Elena is Damon's humanity (which I don't get cz with normal HUMAN relationships, trying to open up to up ur brother's gf is weird esp if you 'hate' the guy). How can she be his humanity if he's still underneath it all - thinking like a vampire? thinking like he did all them centuries ago? Humanity changes you internally.

She has managed to make him realise how lucky Stefan is, bcz she seemed so tolerant of him (for Stefan's sake I might add) so he open up. I don't know. Damon IS very old and as some ep.s prove paranoid and suspicious. It didn't occur to him that Elena would stick with the guy she loves? & they need to get the damn tomb OPEN! Its doing my head in now..
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
sad
Oh, I love Bulgaria! Which city?

Disrespect is the word we have to use on the CW board. They're being disrespectful towards the fans and the author.

Asma, I agree with the TB theory. They changed the story from the books so ppl could feel simpathy for Bill. Now they're trying to make something like that for Stefan. Even the sex scenes are more and more hot. Too much violence...

But Stefan doesn't need that. He's an amazing character, he's sweet, he loves Elena...

I was hoping maybe next episode Stefan would get hurt facing Noah and Anna and Damon came to rescue him.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Gosh.
Stefan and bonnie?
SCREW THAT.
IT'LLL NEVERRR EVERR EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVERVER REVEVEVERVERVEVVEVVEVEV HAPPEN!!
EVER!
XDDDD

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
angry
^Andd I fear more and more ppl are gonna be turned off by that. They should've played it by the books if anything - sent him to that place, brought him back DARKER and a little more kickass. Cz they can't risk upstaging Damon - but that's what they get paid for! They should use their damn imaginations..

OMG totally. And I hope its a sweet moment..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
worried
OMG Aly are you angry?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
smile
I live in Yambol.It;s a small town but at least it's peacifull there.:)
I agree.People can ship whoever they want but the writers just want to promote that damn triangele.And I;m afraid that there will be more Sonnie fans as Stefan keeps saving Bonnie.There is even a Sonnie spot.I can't believe it it;s just too much.
In the books do you think there is a chance for Delena to end up together because LJS said there will be a twist.Personally I think it will be stupid for Delena to end up together.Even if Elena starts to loveDamon as much as Stefan I think it Stelena belong together.How many books had LJS read about Stelena's etenal love for each other.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
I thought the twist was that damon turned back into a human?
>.< If the twist is that she loves damon........ god i wud bee pissed~!

And asma, a little bit..
XDDD BUUTTTT! as u said before, we have to be patient for bamon.
In alot of tv shows i watch the couples i usually like end up together like in a few seasons ;)

But stefan wouldn't go out with bonnie, im sure of it.

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
sad
Hmm..I think alot of fans would be be pissed if Sonnie happened. The Donnie & the Stelena ones for starters (and probz the Monnie ones hehe) If it does happen then they'll jus wreck Bonnie up. She's a great friend - she'd never do that. She's selfless in the books and show so it would be OOC..

Hmm I really hope Delena don't end up together in the books! It would be such a disappointment..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
my god i know.
Do u think vampire diaries books will end after the 7th book?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
mischievous
^probably..I got the feeling that all LJ has to do now really, is resolve the SQUARE
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
the square?
U mean stefan bonnie damon and elena?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^yep
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Lol.
I dont think she'll invest time on bonnie/stefan
i dont think she ever had O-O
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
^me too.
They are more like siblings in the books. Stefan sees her as a little sister he's protective over and a defender of Elena.

Do you think they will sneak in a Donnie scene next week?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Um, honestly no .
D;
as much as teh fans WISHHHHH THEYY WOULD, they virtually wont .
D;
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Yeah but Bonnie could smthng like -

"Fires.Mind.Vampires" then tap her temple
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
Aly gtg. Talk to you later hun *hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
hmmm
D; i dont think so.


Heres what is probably going to happen :

Stefan saves bonnie ( yet again) and elena.
Bonnie says ty. Blahblahblah.
Then anna wants them to open the tomb or she'll kill elena, bonnie and stefan help.
Damon comes in becuz he feels for elena and wants cathrine -.-

They open the tomb kathrine and all the vampires attack them.

THE END.

5 WEEKS LATER)

XDD

Damon and elena are miraculously together
yay........................ -.-
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
OMg I think that is exactlly what's going to happened or maybe Damon will save Elena.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Yah i know D;

Very depressng..

OMG, U KNOW WHAT?
They should have like 1 episode that fans could like direct and write a script for !
:3 that wud be one heck of an episode
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Hey Sisi! You live next to Turkey!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
tongue
Oh Aly... But if the Delena fans direct... Then it will suck!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^somehow I knew you were gonna say that Patty lmao
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
oh god..

Ok, well then it should be so that " NO DELENA FANS CAN ENTER "

:) XDDDD

Then we will have our own personalized episode, MWHAHAHHHHHAHAHAH (ChokeS)
O-O
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^lmao *thumps Aly on the back*
You ok, hun? :S
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
XDDDDDD yes.

Hmmmmm, so what shall we rant on next?


Omg..
What are your guys' thoughts on anna and jeremy?

I absolutely adore them together, but she sort of scares me..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
mischievous
^haha they are kinda cute. maybe she'll hook up with him now that Bonnie burns Ben.

But seriously? Out of the side couples, I'm really diggin' Jeanna&Alaric - they are AMAZING together
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Bonnie burns ben?

OOhh thats the body who got burnt, i was wondering for some time...


I NO!! But i love mederith and alaric .>.<
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
Of course I was going to say that. lol

I want Damon to save Stefan! And I want Bonnie to forgive Damon!

I've got ot go... I'll talk to you tomorrow.

*hugs*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
mischievous
That's what I figured from the promo..well Patty did. Right now I'm choosing to believe it lol

Meredith/Alaric are cool but we can't have them so J/A - I hope they get together. they're like Will/Emma from Glee
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Byee patty.

She is most likely to forgive him, though.
Cuz honestly if she hates him through the entire show that wud be pointless..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
^Bye Patty *hug*

But when?!