Damon & Bonnie Why Damon and Bonnie?

samjhart posted on Oct 27, 2009 at 02:17PM
Considering the majority of fans (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fans are divided on Damon/Bonnie, thought I'd make a forum to welcome Donnie fans (I jus made the name up) and list why exactly you are in love with this ship!

So I'll start. I read about them in the book and tho I thot Delena was sexy and all but I jus couldn't erm LOVE it. Then came the Donnie interaction - fell head over heels. It was jus..WOW. Bonnie brought out a caring, human side to Damon that I was craving to see. He cared about her and she trusted him enough to call him for help when she was in danger. I think she believed in him where even Elena gave up.

In the tv show - they look like incredibly STRONG characters who would not be intimidated by each other in a relationship. Of crz, we've actually got to see a scene with them together yet...

Gonna stop now - getting rantish lol

{The List} NOTE: Please don't copy or steal this idea. You know who you are

- Because somehow in some way they bring out the best in one another
- Because Damon sees himself in Bonnie
- Because somehow Bonnie always saves Damon
- Because Damon HAS saved Bonnie in spite of himself
- Because they're on the slow-burn and are still explosive
- Because when it comes down to it Damon could NEVER hurt Bonnie
- Because Bamon are the LOVE STORY before 'The Vampire Diaries'
- Because Damon has never lied to Bonnie
- Because Damon always can see through Bonnie even if her friends can't see through her lies
- Because Bonnie showed she trusted him with her life
- Because Damon died for her
- Because our heart broke for Bonnie when she saw Damon die - you only cry like that for someone you LOVE
- Because even in serious situations they found time to flirt
- Because Stefan totally ships them XD
- Because he blushed when she kissed him
- Because he gave her a sexy, open-mouthed kiss
- Because he noticed her bra size lol
- Because Damon teased her about the manliness of Jeremy
- Because she saved him from the witches' wrath
- Because the first time Damon saw Bonnie have a vision - he was politely puzzled
- Because Bonnie pulled one over him
- Because she was the first person to touch his true self - his soul
- Because he sees her as a 'good person'
- Because she challenged his emotional self when she saved him from the fire
- Because he did really want to 'protect' her
- Because the little hints of their backstory we've seen on the show seem AMAZING
- Because their chemistry is undeniable
- Because they outrageously flirt no matter who's there
- Because Damon rose his glass as a toast at her
- Because he eyed her up whilst she was doing a spell
- Because he was whistling at her
- Because Damon couldn't help but lick his lips when she went fiesty on his ass
- Because they are so #Married
- Because Damon automatically has no concept of personal space when it comes to Bonnie
- Because they dress in matching colours sometimes
- Because he did his eye-flirt at her
- Because he listens to her
- Because Damon tells jokes more around Bonnie
- Because Bonnie calls him "Older, sexy, danger guy" (Girl's guy radar is ON)
- Because she calls him "gorgeous" in the books
- Because he gave her sexy kiss on her back ;D
- Because he comes for his 'bird'
- Because she is worth "infinity" ordinary girls to him
- Because Bamon is so much more than lovely dovely, their wicked, bad,and not your average couple ;D
- Because we love a forbidden love story
- Because a vampire and a witch - is something to be revered
- Because they are so unpredictable together
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie in Blood Will tell before attempting to bite her
- Because that kiss had us thinking bad things
- Because on the show - he's never held anyone so physically close as he did with 'dead Bonnie'
- Because he nicknamed her
- Because she nicknamed him
- Because Damon was so emotionally affected by Bonnie's death - even though he knew she wasn't really gone
- Because she ONLY loves him!
- Because Damon couldn't slap Bonnie, instead he kiss her to calm her down in The Dinner Disaster
- Because Bonnie in the books love only him and for her he is her first choice and not the second like for Elena and Katherine
- Because they have so much passion
- Because Damon refused to let Klaus take Bonnie - with a firm "No"
- Because they both are great dancers
- Because Damon's instinct is always to protect Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie hurt Damon he never ever seeks revenge in any form
- Because in their first scene together - we love how Damon tried it on with Bonnie and how she shot him down
- Because they see right through each other
- Because in the books: Damon was beside himself with 'terror' when he realised he'd just abandoned Bonnie
- Because he couldn't take the idea of Bonnie being anyone's but his
- Because Bonnie asked Mrs Flowers how to contact the dead - so she could talk to Damon
- Because at the end of Midnight when all other visions cleared away there were only two on his mind : Bonnie's face and name
- Because he sooo checked her out in her dress in 3x09
- Because Bonnie is Damon's "humanity" in the books
- Because Damon is Bonnie's "savior"
- Because we so ship the bad boy and 'sidekick'
- Because Damon called Bonnie "good"
- Because in the Last Dance Bonnie saw real concern in Damon for herself
- Because Bonnie teases Damon
- Because Damon teases Bonnie back
- Because Bonnie is Damon's type in the books and show
- Because Damon is Bonnie's type in the books and show
- Because in After Hours Damon was fantasizing with his eyes wide open for Bonnie
- Because Damon went all poetic for Bonnie in the books
- Because Damon made Bonnie smirk-smile with his goofy dancing
- Because one look is always enough
- Because they deserve to be happy
- Because Elena is jealous of Bonnie. “I’ve also been jealous of Bonnie.” Bonnie’s head shot up, and she stared at Elena with an expression of disbelief. “I was used to being the only human Damon cared about, the only one who he would want to save.” She looked at Bonnie with tear-filled eyes. “I am so, so glad that Bonnie is alive. But I was jealous that Damon cared enough to die for her." i mean if ELENA is jealous there must be something going on! ;)
- Because the Bamily alone are enough for anyone to start shipping them XD
- Because Damon got very guilty when Bonnie mentioned him leaving her for 4 days.(Midnight)
- Because he couldn't help not looking at Bonnie, after he had undressed her. (Nightfall)
- Because Damon met Bonnie, before he met Elena. (After hours)
- Because Bonnie said he could have her anytime:
"You just don't want it to be Damon," said Meredith. "I would think you'd be more worried about him being a psycho killer than a diary thief."
"I don't know; killers are sort of romantic. Imagine your dying with his hands around your throat. He'd strangle the life out of you, and the last thing you'd see would be his face." Putting her own hands to her throat, Bonnie gasped and expired tragically, ending up draped across the bed. "He can have me anytime," she said, eyes still closed.
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie at Alaric Saltzmans party.
- Because Damon got the ability to make Bonnie laugh:
She heard Damon's low ironical voice: "And have you heard that kissing a red-haired girl cures fever blisters?" And then Bonnie's outrageous, flattered laughter.(The Struggle)
- Because they are "cut from the same cloth" aka are SoulMates
- Because Ian admitted he read the Bamon book scenes *squee*
- Because Kat said: "The most profound bond Bonnie has is with Damon"
- Because Ian said Bamon is "Wow!"
- Because Ian said that Bamon "really works"
- Because KG&IS ship them XD
- Because there's never been a couple like them
- Because in his 500 years of existence he's never met anyone like Bonnie (books)
- Because Bonnie's feelings for Damon are very real (books and show)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her (books)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her in the show
- Because Damon avoids manhandling Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie saved Tyler from Damon, he immediately forgot to be mad at her
- Because they do 'mouthing' communication
- Because Damon was listening out for Bonnie even before he got to the house
- Because when Abby told Bonnie to tell her 'friends' of the danger - she called Damon
- Because Damon soooo checked out Bonnie in that dress
- Because in the books Bonnie withstood torture for Damon
- Because Bonnie lied to protect Damon from the kitsune
- Because the 'lady of quality' Damon chose to help him turn back into a vampire reminded him of Bonnie (psychoanalysis alert).
- Because Damon told Bonnie she was a 'lady of quality.'
- Because there aren't 'two like her'
- Because Damon refers to Bonnie as his witch
- Because they keep us waiting which ensures they'll be even more epic when they happen!
- Damon would never accept Bonnie w/ other guy in order to make her happy..
- Because Damon, 'He’d always thought of her as his' (Moonsong)
- Because LJ Smith said that she would have had Bamon together in the woods helping Caroline give birth. And she would FIGHT for the scene to be published

 Considering the majority of fan (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fan are divided on Damon/Bonn
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
cake
Yeah, 230!

Let's celebrate!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
laugh
@Patty. *Hugs* I hate fights too. I usually use music as my therapy session. Find something you like to do, and then it'll wash the pain away. And no I haven't read the first 8 chapters, I'm kind of afraid to. I'd be reading out of order anyway, and I hate that cuz I don't know what is going on.

@samjhart WOOOOOOOO We're getting there! Total World-Bamonation roflllllll

@Aly I might do that as well rofl. I don't know quite yet if I want to read SS, because like I said to Patty, I'd be reading out of order.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
sad
Thank you, D... *hugs*
I'm feeling better talking to you guys...

Why are you reading out of order? The Delena moments are not so bad...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
@patty - what should we do? *bits lip*

@D: roflmao - you are one scary Bamonater
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
@Patty No, I mean I haven't read all the books. So I'd be reading out of order lol.

@sam it's only because I'm suffering from TVD withdrawals rofl When the show comes back on I'll be fine.
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
hmmm
@Asma - you mean, to celebrate? But you want to celebrate 230? Shouldn't we expect until 250?

@D - Oh, you read until which book?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
@Patty - I think you are right Patty! as usual! lol XD

@D - call me Asma :) and the TVD withdrawls understandable!

Is anybody here right now, loving the books more than the show..?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
@Patty, I'm going to say the third book, but to be honest I can't even remember what happened in it. I started to read the series when I was a preteen rofl. I might buy them later on, but right now I don't like reading and watching at the same time. I don't know, I'm picky like that.

@Asma and you know it's sad when its only been a week. Just wait until it hits March. I'm going to be bouncing off the wall.
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
I've always loved the books more than the show. How could the show be better than the books if the books came first? But now this feeling is getting stronger. After 1x13, I guess.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
@D, I'm reading everything again... I love them so much... I'm finishing the first.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Aub35 said…
@Asma- I think i love the books a litle more than the show....but the show is still amazing! Oh and im glad you like my name because i like yours too :)
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
@D - I'm gonna put in an order for a special padded room for you..when TVD comes back on

@Patty - I'm loving the books so much more right cz of the disrespect and rip-off on the show *GGRR*

@auburn - aw *blush*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
sad
@Aub- I'm sort of disappointed with the show for the lack of Bonnie...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
btw hu made the TVD books spot?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
laugh
@Asma that's okay as long as I have my tv on, then I'll be fine. Maybe bring me a bite to eat every once and awhile xD

@Patty I think everyone is.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
angry
@Asma - I know they have to change because TV series need to have episodes and seasons... But they've changed the essence of the characters too much...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Aub35 said…
@Patty- Yeah thats one of my main reasons why i like the books better.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
hmmm
@Asma - you're asking me? No, it was not me...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
meh
^I mean my biggest compliment is the lack of Donnie happy time lol seriously why is Elena Damon's humanity again?

@D - lmao we are good to go
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
@Asma I know the reason why and her name is Julie rofl
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
angelic
^we must be rid of this Julie mwhahha

seriously - somebody shake the woman
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
SCHOOL?
boring

tomorrow i get to go to highschoool!!
well, for the shadowing program..
BUTT STILL, HIGHSCHOOL!!

im soo excited!
especially for the cafeteria, i never had one before.


and i read- partially skimmed over the 8 chapters.
XDDD partially because of the damon elena scenes.
God i swore for a few moments he was going to spare that rose for bonnie .
(folds and arms and sits on bum)
D;

Caroline is crazy...

>.< Grr, any thoughts of when bonnie will come?
And did damon forget her ?
Cuzzzzz if he did GODDD

omg, but if he did and he say her.
Perculiar feeling will stir up in his system as his gaze lingers on her frame and more particular, her face.

That wud be soo cute.

I felt a sense of jelously between caroline and bonnie about he uprisen topic about matt kissing her.
D;
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
meh
@Asma yeah she ships Delena like no other. And it sucks because she has the power to ruin our total world bamonation. However, Kevin has stated that Stefan and Elena are soul mates, which is only a glimmer of hope because he said that about Dawson and Joey, and look how that turned out.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
angry
^has she even read the books? I mean I like Delena in the books esp. in SS but in what way does the Delena on the show represent them? they're a pale shadow of the hot, forbidden, crazy and downright terrifying version in the books. If she's such a big fan then she should realise that Delena works as forbidden love cz of the characters. Delena is the 'typical' forbidden love - it has to be. It needs strong characters to carry it. And Elena is weak in the show. She can't stand up up to Damon she jus falls way.

The chase - was a MAJOR part of Delena. Its what made it crazy. And wrong but fun to read...

Someday should forcefeed her the books. She's turned everything on its head..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
@Asma I know I know, but like they said, the show is loosely based off the books. They'll just repeatedly bring up that argument whenever someone confronts them about it lol.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
pfffth, if only all of us were the producer/screen writer peoples. The show wud probb bee much more interesting
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^haha lmao ESPECIALLY you Aly
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Aub35 said…
hmmm
@Azma- Yeah i completely agree with you. They are making Delena in the show so much different then the delena in the books. Even though i dont really like her that much anyway, i prefer elena in the books.

But i do like how bonnie stands up to damon in the show. But i think she should be more flirty like in the books
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
^ITA. Even tho I think the love/hate thing is hot etc etc - I miss the little moments when Bonnie would realise that Damon isn't as evil as he tries to make out. He's jus hurting a lot. And I miss the parts where Bonnie amuses Damon. Not bcz she's silly but cz that's the way she is. She manages to make a space in his heart without meaning to..

lebih dari setahun yang lalu Aub35 said…
Yeah i miss baby bird bonnie a lot hehe
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
^with the metal ruler...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
i really think bonnie should've been the one who would talk to little damon and break his barriers.
That would've been so much cuterrrrrr
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
^I know and so much more unexpected..still they had to give Elena smthng to do..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
!!!!!!!!!!! I found something. I don't know if it's real or not, but it's about Lucy Bennett.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Aub35 said…
Yeah....hey in nightfall didnt bonnie like cause damons barriers to fall sort of? When she woke up in the bathtub he held her to him and it said that cracks were falling from inside him and it was letting the damon from inside out?
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
@D - what?! what?
@Auburn - yeah she did. It was the 1st time thro a selfless act that he felt he could let himself out. He wanted to be more 'human' with her and honest.. :( so sad
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
@Asma, it looks like a script. I don't know, but the only reason why I looked her up because someone said that Damon was going to pester Bonnie again for her powers. Then I turned around looked up Who is Lucy Bennett and the casting call came up. With a script o_O. But she was supposed to be in episode 14 so maybe we'll get her on 15?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
what? wait? are you talking about a episode 14 script?
If she was supposed to be in 1x14 then she's likely to be in 1x15. There is a rumour going around that her cousin is coming. so..it makes sense. I wonder if she'll be anything like Meredith..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
laugh
Here I wonder if I can post the link. link


What I want to know is, why does Damon need a witch again? What's he up to now????
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
Maybe he jus Bonnie *wink wink*
Didn't Stefan say that witches can track ppl?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
heart
Oh yes, that's true. He's probably going to want a Locater spell to try and find Katherine, but heyyyyyyyy BAMON ACTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOOOOOO!!!!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
^For Katherine *gasp* and is that heart for me? lmao

Lucy seems like a colder version of Meredith..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
But Donnie scene FTW!!!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
heart
Well, from the likes of it, it seems that Bonnie is giving Damon the No go, for finding Katherine. And if we know Damon he's going to keep pestering her until she gives in! That means Bamon scenes. And the heart was for them having scenes, but I'll give you this one haha.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Aub35 said…
smile
Yay Donnie scenes!!! Do you guys think that the writers even know about how big the bonnie/damon fanbase is?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
:)
But now he forgot it .
DAM IT.
I want elena to bring up bonnie
and for damon to feel something at the mention of her name, like kstop the car and ask who?


Elena : Bonnie. You know, red hair, brown eyes-
Damon : Bonnie..................
Elena : ( well its for the best for him not to remeber her )
Damon : ( Has vague flashbacks of the bathroom scene and shakes his head)
Elena : r u alright?
Damon : im fine
Elena: anyway, are we near the gates, so i can have proper sex with ur brother?
Damon : excuse me?


XDDDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
@D- Yeah if Damon isn't careful he'll get a slap lmao
Aw D - you shouldn't have lol

@A - I think the do..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
laugh
@Auburn They probably didn't know before the show started, but they should have some clue by now. If not, then we better keep them up to date!!!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
OMG Aly lmao...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
BAMONATE, D. BAMONATE!