Damon & Bonnie Why Damon and Bonnie?

samjhart posted on Oct 27, 2009 at 02:17PM
Considering the majority of fans (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fans are divided on Damon/Bonnie, thought I'd make a forum to welcome Donnie fans (I jus made the name up) and list why exactly you are in love with this ship!

So I'll start. I read about them in the book and tho I thot Delena was sexy and all but I jus couldn't erm LOVE it. Then came the Donnie interaction - fell head over heels. It was jus..WOW. Bonnie brought out a caring, human side to Damon that I was craving to see. He cared about her and she trusted him enough to call him for help when she was in danger. I think she believed in him where even Elena gave up.

In the tv show - they look like incredibly STRONG characters who would not be intimidated by each other in a relationship. Of crz, we've actually got to see a scene with them together yet...

Gonna stop now - getting rantish lol

{The List} NOTE: Please don't copy or steal this idea. You know who you are

- Because somehow in some way they bring out the best in one another
- Because Damon sees himself in Bonnie
- Because somehow Bonnie always saves Damon
- Because Damon HAS saved Bonnie in spite of himself
- Because they're on the slow-burn and are still explosive
- Because when it comes down to it Damon could NEVER hurt Bonnie
- Because Bamon are the LOVE STORY before 'The Vampire Diaries'
- Because Damon has never lied to Bonnie
- Because Damon always can see through Bonnie even if her friends can't see through her lies
- Because Bonnie showed she trusted him with her life
- Because Damon died for her
- Because our heart broke for Bonnie when she saw Damon die - you only cry like that for someone you LOVE
- Because even in serious situations they found time to flirt
- Because Stefan totally ships them XD
- Because he blushed when she kissed him
- Because he gave her a sexy, open-mouthed kiss
- Because he noticed her bra size lol
- Because Damon teased her about the manliness of Jeremy
- Because she saved him from the witches' wrath
- Because the first time Damon saw Bonnie have a vision - he was politely puzzled
- Because Bonnie pulled one over him
- Because she was the first person to touch his true self - his soul
- Because he sees her as a 'good person'
- Because she challenged his emotional self when she saved him from the fire
- Because he did really want to 'protect' her
- Because the little hints of their backstory we've seen on the show seem AMAZING
- Because their chemistry is undeniable
- Because they outrageously flirt no matter who's there
- Because Damon rose his glass as a toast at her
- Because he eyed her up whilst she was doing a spell
- Because he was whistling at her
- Because Damon couldn't help but lick his lips when she went fiesty on his ass
- Because they are so #Married
- Because Damon automatically has no concept of personal space when it comes to Bonnie
- Because they dress in matching colours sometimes
- Because he did his eye-flirt at her
- Because he listens to her
- Because Damon tells jokes more around Bonnie
- Because Bonnie calls him "Older, sexy, danger guy" (Girl's guy radar is ON)
- Because she calls him "gorgeous" in the books
- Because he gave her sexy kiss on her back ;D
- Because he comes for his 'bird'
- Because she is worth "infinity" ordinary girls to him
- Because Bamon is so much more than lovely dovely, their wicked, bad,and not your average couple ;D
- Because we love a forbidden love story
- Because a vampire and a witch - is something to be revered
- Because they are so unpredictable together
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie in Blood Will tell before attempting to bite her
- Because that kiss had us thinking bad things
- Because on the show - he's never held anyone so physically close as he did with 'dead Bonnie'
- Because he nicknamed her
- Because she nicknamed him
- Because Damon was so emotionally affected by Bonnie's death - even though he knew she wasn't really gone
- Because she ONLY loves him!
- Because Damon couldn't slap Bonnie, instead he kiss her to calm her down in The Dinner Disaster
- Because Bonnie in the books love only him and for her he is her first choice and not the second like for Elena and Katherine
- Because they have so much passion
- Because Damon refused to let Klaus take Bonnie - with a firm "No"
- Because they both are great dancers
- Because Damon's instinct is always to protect Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie hurt Damon he never ever seeks revenge in any form
- Because in their first scene together - we love how Damon tried it on with Bonnie and how she shot him down
- Because they see right through each other
- Because in the books: Damon was beside himself with 'terror' when he realised he'd just abandoned Bonnie
- Because he couldn't take the idea of Bonnie being anyone's but his
- Because Bonnie asked Mrs Flowers how to contact the dead - so she could talk to Damon
- Because at the end of Midnight when all other visions cleared away there were only two on his mind : Bonnie's face and name
- Because he sooo checked her out in her dress in 3x09
- Because Bonnie is Damon's "humanity" in the books
- Because Damon is Bonnie's "savior"
- Because we so ship the bad boy and 'sidekick'
- Because Damon called Bonnie "good"
- Because in the Last Dance Bonnie saw real concern in Damon for herself
- Because Bonnie teases Damon
- Because Damon teases Bonnie back
- Because Bonnie is Damon's type in the books and show
- Because Damon is Bonnie's type in the books and show
- Because in After Hours Damon was fantasizing with his eyes wide open for Bonnie
- Because Damon went all poetic for Bonnie in the books
- Because Damon made Bonnie smirk-smile with his goofy dancing
- Because one look is always enough
- Because they deserve to be happy
- Because Elena is jealous of Bonnie. “I’ve also been jealous of Bonnie.” Bonnie’s head shot up, and she stared at Elena with an expression of disbelief. “I was used to being the only human Damon cared about, the only one who he would want to save.” She looked at Bonnie with tear-filled eyes. “I am so, so glad that Bonnie is alive. But I was jealous that Damon cared enough to die for her." i mean if ELENA is jealous there must be something going on! ;)
- Because the Bamily alone are enough for anyone to start shipping them XD
- Because Damon got very guilty when Bonnie mentioned him leaving her for 4 days.(Midnight)
- Because he couldn't help not looking at Bonnie, after he had undressed her. (Nightfall)
- Because Damon met Bonnie, before he met Elena. (After hours)
- Because Bonnie said he could have her anytime:
"You just don't want it to be Damon," said Meredith. "I would think you'd be more worried about him being a psycho killer than a diary thief."
"I don't know; killers are sort of romantic. Imagine your dying with his hands around your throat. He'd strangle the life out of you, and the last thing you'd see would be his face." Putting her own hands to her throat, Bonnie gasped and expired tragically, ending up draped across the bed. "He can have me anytime," she said, eyes still closed.
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie at Alaric Saltzmans party.
- Because Damon got the ability to make Bonnie laugh:
She heard Damon's low ironical voice: "And have you heard that kissing a red-haired girl cures fever blisters?" And then Bonnie's outrageous, flattered laughter.(The Struggle)
- Because they are "cut from the same cloth" aka are SoulMates
- Because Ian admitted he read the Bamon book scenes *squee*
- Because Kat said: "The most profound bond Bonnie has is with Damon"
- Because Ian said Bamon is "Wow!"
- Because Ian said that Bamon "really works"
- Because KG&IS ship them XD
- Because there's never been a couple like them
- Because in his 500 years of existence he's never met anyone like Bonnie (books)
- Because Bonnie's feelings for Damon are very real (books and show)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her (books)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her in the show
- Because Damon avoids manhandling Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie saved Tyler from Damon, he immediately forgot to be mad at her
- Because they do 'mouthing' communication
- Because Damon was listening out for Bonnie even before he got to the house
- Because when Abby told Bonnie to tell her 'friends' of the danger - she called Damon
- Because Damon soooo checked out Bonnie in that dress
- Because in the books Bonnie withstood torture for Damon
- Because Bonnie lied to protect Damon from the kitsune
- Because the 'lady of quality' Damon chose to help him turn back into a vampire reminded him of Bonnie (psychoanalysis alert).
- Because Damon told Bonnie she was a 'lady of quality.'
- Because there aren't 'two like her'
- Because Damon refers to Bonnie as his witch
- Because they keep us waiting which ensures they'll be even more epic when they happen!
- Damon would never accept Bonnie w/ other guy in order to make her happy..
- Because Damon, 'He’d always thought of her as his' (Moonsong)
- Because LJ Smith said that she would have had Bamon together in the woods helping Caroline give birth. And she would FIGHT for the scene to be published

 Considering the majority of fan (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fan are divided on Damon/Bonn
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
sad
Hey Sisi!

Thanks for the support. It's really not fair they erased the guestion. I added again, and if they erase again I'll have to do something. Leave a note, maybe.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
smile
For nothing Patty.If they erase the questiuon again I will erase a Delena question for you.:)(kidding but if they don't stop I will get mad and when I get mad...)I have two questions.The first one is what do you hate the most they changed in book Delena and in book Bamon that is not in the show and the second one is do you think Damon will save Elena instead of Bonnie so that more people can be hooked up in the triangele?( I know in the synopsis it says that Stefan saves Elena but they can put some twis it's The Vampire Diaries after all)?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
^Here's to hoping! XD I seriously hope Damon jumps in..lol XD

Oh btw hey Patty, Sisi *hug*
miss me? lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Hihi.


OOH, yesterday i read sumthing about elena and bonnie are going to start fighting on the show, which wud be quite entertaining.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
^hi hun *hug*

Its cz Bonnie is not cool about vamps yet..lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
XDD hiiiiiiiii

Oh, i was hoping bonnie and elena fight about sumething and end up being friendemies since shes spending too much time with the vamps.
Or damon spending some time with bonnie and elena gets mad XDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^lmao I bet you were hoping for the last part..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
lmao Stay clear of the Cw board, it's a warzone.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
^why what happened?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
Let's just say," Apparently all Bamon fans are immature and stupid because we want to post in the Anti threads". >_>
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
meh
^OMG. Ok, wait. What anti-threads?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
Anti Delena was what I was in. Then a Delena fan came in calling us immature just because we were posting in the thread lol. And rude.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
God. But what did you say? I think that's hypocritical of them since they pretty much gate-crashed every Donnie thread :S
I personally find it funny that they act like we're no threat but then..they always try to put us down..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
That's the funny thing. I was just defending the right to people's opinions. I didn't even say A WORD about Bamon or Delena or anything rofl. Apparently every thought I have is about Bamon...which is kind of weird seeing as I went 21 years without them lol.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
I do :)
And delena fans are delusional, dont mind them.
They just want damon to lay elena -.-
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
^ You go - D. Ignore them then. Lol at ur last sentence
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
^OMG Aly - SCANDAL
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
huh? scandal?
What did i do?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
let me refresh.. damon jus wants to lay elena..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
zzz
Hey guys! *hug*

I've been gone the entire day... I'm so tired...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
zzz
hey *hug*

i'm tired too..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Hey Sisi...

I doubt you're still up, but...

I think book Delena had that obsession that I can't find in the show. That's why I don't agree we have any triangle there. Damon wanted Elena's blood so much in the books and didn't care about Katherine.

Bamon book is lovely. Damon cares about Bonnie since the beggining he has no problem in showing it. That's what I miss the most in the show. I'd like to see Damon's feelings towards Bonnie.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Hey Asma! *bearhug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
*bearhug back*

OMG - patty. My heart melted at ur explanation of Donnie in the books! And I agree with the Delena part too..Book-Delena was great to read as you get to see how Damon's feelings are changing towards Elena. WTH are they gonna do on the show? UST for a few seasons, WHAM! sex - THE END. My god, they better have smthng gud planned..

Yeah and Damon better show his feelings soon or I'll be VERY ANGRY *GRR*

btw how's the FF coming along?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
big smile
You mean the celebration ff? I have the idea but I couldn't work today. I'll star tomorrow.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
i was being sarcasticc

and thats prob what they want to happen.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
kiss
Hey Aly, how are you?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
I've got ot go now...

*hugs*

I'll talk to you guys tomorrow!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
im good.
Awww kayy!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
zzz
Good night!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
angry
Guys I found spoilers for the upcoming episode so be aweare:
It seems that Kathrine was never in the tomb and she never cared about telling Damon that.
Stefan saves Bonnie(and Elena) AGAIN
Grams dies.
And oh,tehre is a hug between Delena after it is revealed about Kathrine.

I'm tired of the forced triangele and the forced moments between Delena.I really am.And I agree about the book Delena vs book Bamon.I think damon deffinatlly got to respect Elena as the books goes but I've always thought that it is more of an obbsession really.And book Bamon are so sweet.I don't think Damon ever felt annoyed from Bonnie.I think she fasinated him.The first time they met in ''After Hours''Bonnie was all whit her ''Ohhhs'' but instead of beeing annoyed Damon tried to make her relax.It was so cute from his part.I just think they are ripping to much from book Bamon and making it Delena moments in the show.Now whit all that comforting from Elena's part and Bamon growing close in the next books it will seem like very alike.Whay are they trying in the show to make Elena,Damon's humanity so much?
On a side note is it me or are book Delena and Damon/Kathrine in the show sort of have some similarites whit Spike and Drusilla from BTS?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
yah im watching it right now..

waiting for grams to die..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
ok, this episode was sad.
but i hated the delena scnes.
LIKE WTF?
stealing another bamonnn fucking emotion!!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
angry
I know.Elena was acting like she knew Damon and than Damon saying he can trust her again but he can't trust his brother who apologized to him.WTF?Oh the converstaion Elena and Damon were having about how she wasn't sorry that she lied to him and the people in the town were like a family to her I'm reminded of Bonnie telling Damon that she would do everything she can to protect the people in Fells Church because they were like a fimly to her in Blood Will Tell.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
cake
200 fans!
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
cake
^yay 200 fans! XD
ok, now I have to watch the episode..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
worried
Ok..I watched it..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
worried
And so did I...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
worried
What do you think..?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
sad
It was not so bad as I was expecting... It's sweet Elena and Damon as friends. He needs a hug and someone has to be brave enough to give him.

And I knew Katherine had not been locked there. Because she's too smart. And I so hope she comes back to kill Elena and torture the brothers... This should be the end of the season...

I liked to see Stefan piting Damon in the end, trying to get close. He's already apologized, I hope the relationship between them gets better.

But... Where are Bonnie's powers? I want to see the witch kicking some ass... And, won't she ever get close to Damon? I hope Damon decide to move on now...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smirk
Oh, and Damon has to say: "Katherine, go to hell."
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
laugh
I actually posted the following on a different forum, where we were talking about TVD:


What can I say about "Fool me once?"

Well I can say that i cried like a bish when Grams died. They didn't even send her off in a heroic way, they let her come home safe and sound, and die in bed. That seriously messed with my head. Then Katerina/Bonnie's reaction, had me bawling like a little girl again. Poor girl. I have a bad feeling that she's going to go nuts and blame herself. I mean after all, she's the one who insisted on saving Stefan and Damon, and unsealing the tomb. I really hope she can recover from this with minimal damage, but I have a feeling it's not going to be that easy.


I don't get why we even saw Matt and Caroline? I mean I don't hate the couple, but it was a little weird, don't you think? I mean they didn't have anything to do with...well anything.

I absolutely loved when Grams went toe to toe with Damon. I hope Bonnie becomes even more stronger than her, so she can knock him down a few pegs. I love him so, but he does need to be knocked down a few lol.

As for Damon, well Ian rocked that performance tonight. I'm not going to say I feel entirely sorry for Damon, but I do feel a little something. I mean, he's been fooled not once, but twice. He thought that Katherine cared so much for him back in the day, and now he should realize that she didn't give two shits about him like he does so much for her. I hope he can move on and grow, instead of worrying too much about her.


Which brings me to the dreaded Elena. Man, what in the world was with this girl tonight? I mean I don't like her normally, but tonight I absolutely wanted to bash her head in. First of all, Stefan saves both her and Bonnie and it didn't even seem like she cared. Then she's all for Team Damon at the drop of a hat being his cheerleader? Getting all close and personal with him in front of Stefan? I mean, what is that? Then when Grams and Bonnie explain the situation with the Seal, instead of telling Stefan to hurry up and get out, she runs in and screams for Damon to hurry up? Well if Damon wanted to die, as sad as I'd feel, I'd definitely tell my man to get out first then I'd tried to appeal to the emo vampire in the corner. And if all that didn't top the cake, Elena's brother Jeremy, who was kidnapped by a damn vampire...doesn't even get a hug from his sister. No, Elena tonight reserved her hugs for Damon.


Yeah, I'm all for this show and all, but Elena is getting on my nerves like crazy. Even though I know the show is about the triangle, I don't like how it's being shoved down my throat and I'm supposed to swallow it. There are other people around mystic falls, other people who have been hurt, that need to be attended to.


So basically, although I did like this episode, I'm kind of sketchy about the second half of the season. I'm hoping my girl Bonnie gets her strength back, channels her grandmother, and tell everyone what the deal really is. I hope she finds the bad girl within (definitely not the horrible Willow encounter) and hands everyone's butt to them on a silver platter. Because if it wasn't for Elena dealing with the Salvatore brothers, alot of people would be still be alive.

I get Bonnie didn't have to help them, but with people kidnapping you every chance they get she really didn't have a choice. And I'm hoping that Bonnie/ Katerina can channel that defiance on screen. That is if they give her the damn chance to, and not make it about another gag worthy triangle.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
crying
I'll be honest - I bawled like a baby, for Stefan, Bonnie and Damon. Stefan was looking at Elena in the tomb - the thought of loosing her..Damon cz he was heartbroken. That Katherine was a real bitch..my God :'( and OMG. Kat has to be the strongest actor on the show apart from Ian and Paul. She nailed it. I couldn't stop crying :'( poor poor Grams *sob*

I kinda felt that Delena was overdone. There were too many scenes dedicated to them which took a lot of time away from the other characters :S the hug was cute and props for Stefan for not acting like the possessive bf

but has anyone realised that whenever Damon was heartbroken so is Bonnie..? I'm telling you they are connected..

And I really hope Damon tells Katherine to go to hell...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
Hey sisi *hug* you really nailed it..with what was wrong with the episode..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu 064021 said…
That was right on point I hope bonnie becomes a bad sexy girl witch and starts putting everybody in there place
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
hmmm
Hey Sisi! *hug*

Which brings me to the dreaded Elena. Man, what in the world was with this girl tonight? I mean I don't like her normally, but tonight I absolutely wanted to bash her head in. First of all, Stefan saves both her and Bonnie and it didn't even seem like she cared. Then she's all for Team Damon at the drop of a hat being his cheerleader? Getting all close and personal with him in front of Stefan? I mean, what is that? Then when Grams and Bonnie explain the situation with the Seal, instead of telling Stefan to hurry up and get out, she runs in and screams for Damon to hurry up? Well if Damon wanted to die, as sad as I'd feel, I'd definitely tell my man to get out first then I'd tried to appeal to the emo vampire in the corner. And if all that didn't top the cake, Elena's brother Jeremy, who was kidnapped by a damn vampire...doesn't even get a hug from his sister. No, Elena tonight reserved her hugs for Damon.

I agree, that was weird. It was not consistent at all...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Welcome Jenny!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
worried
Thanks gals, I knew I wasn't the only one who thought the whole thing was weird. Someone over the Cw board said that someone else had wrote the episode, so that's probably why everything seemed so choppy.

All I'm going to say is, I KNOW BAMON WILL HAPPEN! But god, it's like pulling my own teeth when I have to watch yet another television triangle.

And to be honest, I think Stefan deserves someone alot better than Elena at the moment. Poor guy.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
^hey jenny :)

Which brings me to the dreaded Elena. Man, what in the world was with this girl tonight? I mean I don't like her normally, but tonight I absolutely wanted to bash her head in. First of all, Stefan saves both her and Bonnie and it didn't even seem like she cared. Then she's all for Team Damon at the drop of a hat being his cheerleader? Getting all close and personal with him in front of Stefan? I mean, what is that? Then when Grams and Bonnie explain the situation with the Seal, instead of telling Stefan to hurry up and get out, she runs in and screams for Damon to hurry up? Well if Damon wanted to die, as sad as I'd feel, I'd definitely tell my man to get out first then I'd tried to appeal to the emo vampire in the corner. And if all that didn't top the cake, Elena's brother Jeremy, who was kidnapped by a damn vampire...doesn't even get a hug from his sister. No, Elena tonight reserved her hugs for Damon.

IA. That' why I think the Delena scenes didn't add up to much..

Bonnie - better kick some ass
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
hmmm
Hello D!

They're trying to force us to swallow that Elena suddenly cares so much about Damon. This is weird. He was not even worried about her once he was inside the tomb. He just left her behind with a lot of dry vampires.

I hope Damon can move on now and Bonnie can forgive him. Is that too much to ask?