Damon & Bonnie Why Damon and Bonnie?

samjhart posted on Oct 27, 2009 at 02:17PM
Considering the majority of fans (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fans are divided on Damon/Bonnie, thought I'd make a forum to welcome Donnie fans (I jus made the name up) and list why exactly you are in love with this ship!

So I'll start. I read about them in the book and tho I thot Delena was sexy and all but I jus couldn't erm LOVE it. Then came the Donnie interaction - fell head over heels. It was jus..WOW. Bonnie brought out a caring, human side to Damon that I was craving to see. He cared about her and she trusted him enough to call him for help when she was in danger. I think she believed in him where even Elena gave up.

In the tv show - they look like incredibly STRONG characters who would not be intimidated by each other in a relationship. Of crz, we've actually got to see a scene with them together yet...

Gonna stop now - getting rantish lol

{The List} NOTE: Please don't copy or steal this idea. You know who you are

- Because somehow in some way they bring out the best in one another
- Because Damon sees himself in Bonnie
- Because somehow Bonnie always saves Damon
- Because Damon HAS saved Bonnie in spite of himself
- Because they're on the slow-burn and are still explosive
- Because when it comes down to it Damon could NEVER hurt Bonnie
- Because Bamon are the LOVE STORY before 'The Vampire Diaries'
- Because Damon has never lied to Bonnie
- Because Damon always can see through Bonnie even if her friends can't see through her lies
- Because Bonnie showed she trusted him with her life
- Because Damon died for her
- Because our heart broke for Bonnie when she saw Damon die - you only cry like that for someone you LOVE
- Because even in serious situations they found time to flirt
- Because Stefan totally ships them XD
- Because he blushed when she kissed him
- Because he gave her a sexy, open-mouthed kiss
- Because he noticed her bra size lol
- Because Damon teased her about the manliness of Jeremy
- Because she saved him from the witches' wrath
- Because the first time Damon saw Bonnie have a vision - he was politely puzzled
- Because Bonnie pulled one over him
- Because she was the first person to touch his true self - his soul
- Because he sees her as a 'good person'
- Because she challenged his emotional self when she saved him from the fire
- Because he did really want to 'protect' her
- Because the little hints of their backstory we've seen on the show seem AMAZING
- Because their chemistry is undeniable
- Because they outrageously flirt no matter who's there
- Because Damon rose his glass as a toast at her
- Because he eyed her up whilst she was doing a spell
- Because he was whistling at her
- Because Damon couldn't help but lick his lips when she went fiesty on his ass
- Because they are so #Married
- Because Damon automatically has no concept of personal space when it comes to Bonnie
- Because they dress in matching colours sometimes
- Because he did his eye-flirt at her
- Because he listens to her
- Because Damon tells jokes more around Bonnie
- Because Bonnie calls him "Older, sexy, danger guy" (Girl's guy radar is ON)
- Because she calls him "gorgeous" in the books
- Because he gave her sexy kiss on her back ;D
- Because he comes for his 'bird'
- Because she is worth "infinity" ordinary girls to him
- Because Bamon is so much more than lovely dovely, their wicked, bad,and not your average couple ;D
- Because we love a forbidden love story
- Because a vampire and a witch - is something to be revered
- Because they are so unpredictable together
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie in Blood Will tell before attempting to bite her
- Because that kiss had us thinking bad things
- Because on the show - he's never held anyone so physically close as he did with 'dead Bonnie'
- Because he nicknamed her
- Because she nicknamed him
- Because Damon was so emotionally affected by Bonnie's death - even though he knew she wasn't really gone
- Because she ONLY loves him!
- Because Damon couldn't slap Bonnie, instead he kiss her to calm her down in The Dinner Disaster
- Because Bonnie in the books love only him and for her he is her first choice and not the second like for Elena and Katherine
- Because they have so much passion
- Because Damon refused to let Klaus take Bonnie - with a firm "No"
- Because they both are great dancers
- Because Damon's instinct is always to protect Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie hurt Damon he never ever seeks revenge in any form
- Because in their first scene together - we love how Damon tried it on with Bonnie and how she shot him down
- Because they see right through each other
- Because in the books: Damon was beside himself with 'terror' when he realised he'd just abandoned Bonnie
- Because he couldn't take the idea of Bonnie being anyone's but his
- Because Bonnie asked Mrs Flowers how to contact the dead - so she could talk to Damon
- Because at the end of Midnight when all other visions cleared away there were only two on his mind : Bonnie's face and name
- Because he sooo checked her out in her dress in 3x09
- Because Bonnie is Damon's "humanity" in the books
- Because Damon is Bonnie's "savior"
- Because we so ship the bad boy and 'sidekick'
- Because Damon called Bonnie "good"
- Because in the Last Dance Bonnie saw real concern in Damon for herself
- Because Bonnie teases Damon
- Because Damon teases Bonnie back
- Because Bonnie is Damon's type in the books and show
- Because Damon is Bonnie's type in the books and show
- Because in After Hours Damon was fantasizing with his eyes wide open for Bonnie
- Because Damon went all poetic for Bonnie in the books
- Because Damon made Bonnie smirk-smile with his goofy dancing
- Because one look is always enough
- Because they deserve to be happy
- Because Elena is jealous of Bonnie. “I’ve also been jealous of Bonnie.” Bonnie’s head shot up, and she stared at Elena with an expression of disbelief. “I was used to being the only human Damon cared about, the only one who he would want to save.” She looked at Bonnie with tear-filled eyes. “I am so, so glad that Bonnie is alive. But I was jealous that Damon cared enough to die for her." i mean if ELENA is jealous there must be something going on! ;)
- Because the Bamily alone are enough for anyone to start shipping them XD
- Because Damon got very guilty when Bonnie mentioned him leaving her for 4 days.(Midnight)
- Because he couldn't help not looking at Bonnie, after he had undressed her. (Nightfall)
- Because Damon met Bonnie, before he met Elena. (After hours)
- Because Bonnie said he could have her anytime:
"You just don't want it to be Damon," said Meredith. "I would think you'd be more worried about him being a psycho killer than a diary thief."
"I don't know; killers are sort of romantic. Imagine your dying with his hands around your throat. He'd strangle the life out of you, and the last thing you'd see would be his face." Putting her own hands to her throat, Bonnie gasped and expired tragically, ending up draped across the bed. "He can have me anytime," she said, eyes still closed.
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie at Alaric Saltzmans party.
- Because Damon got the ability to make Bonnie laugh:
She heard Damon's low ironical voice: "And have you heard that kissing a red-haired girl cures fever blisters?" And then Bonnie's outrageous, flattered laughter.(The Struggle)
- Because they are "cut from the same cloth" aka are SoulMates
- Because Ian admitted he read the Bamon book scenes *squee*
- Because Kat said: "The most profound bond Bonnie has is with Damon"
- Because Ian said Bamon is "Wow!"
- Because Ian said that Bamon "really works"
- Because KG&IS ship them XD
- Because there's never been a couple like them
- Because in his 500 years of existence he's never met anyone like Bonnie (books)
- Because Bonnie's feelings for Damon are very real (books and show)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her (books)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her in the show
- Because Damon avoids manhandling Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie saved Tyler from Damon, he immediately forgot to be mad at her
- Because they do 'mouthing' communication
- Because Damon was listening out for Bonnie even before he got to the house
- Because when Abby told Bonnie to tell her 'friends' of the danger - she called Damon
- Because Damon soooo checked out Bonnie in that dress
- Because in the books Bonnie withstood torture for Damon
- Because Bonnie lied to protect Damon from the kitsune
- Because the 'lady of quality' Damon chose to help him turn back into a vampire reminded him of Bonnie (psychoanalysis alert).
- Because Damon told Bonnie she was a 'lady of quality.'
- Because there aren't 'two like her'
- Because Damon refers to Bonnie as his witch
- Because they keep us waiting which ensures they'll be even more epic when they happen!
- Damon would never accept Bonnie w/ other guy in order to make her happy..
- Because Damon, 'He’d always thought of her as his' (Moonsong)
- Because LJ Smith said that she would have had Bamon together in the woods helping Caroline give birth. And she would FIGHT for the scene to be published

 Considering the majority of fan (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fan are divided on Damon/Bonn
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
mischievous
I told ya, I'm going for total world Bamonation they should fear me lmao jk jk or am I? xDDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^lmao stop it! I'm getting a stitch
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
laugh
Breathe, Asma, Breathe! My day is just getting started, so I'm full of hyperness haha. Prepare for later xD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
^heavens help us lol

Ok I have an idea. For the award ceremony thingy. We have caterogries & everyone has a no. of days to get their enteries in. Once we do that..we can get everybody to read/watch/look at them. And then vote. The entry with the greatest no. of votes at the end wins - at gets a prop from everybody who participatd or voted! How does that sound?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
mischievous
@Asma- Okay, a prop sounds good... But everybody has to join...

@D- Let's refine our diabolic plan! lmao
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
angry
Guys, have you heard some Delena fans are rooting for Ian and Nina date? I couldn't think of anything more stupid than that...

I'm sorry I'm blunt, but I cannot understand how people mix actors and characters like this...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
@Patty Some people are delusional that way rofl

And looky at what I have now, thanks to Asma <------------
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
big smile
@D Your avatar? It's great!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
big smile
Yep! And Thank you!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
cool
236 fans!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
u welcome D XD

237 fans!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smirk
Hey Asma!

238 fans!

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
hey hun yeah - 238 fans!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
hey hun yeah - 238 fans!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
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So many people joining us!

I found out that some ppl prefer Delena, but doesn't mind if Damon is with Bonnie.

Let's hope Damon keep on looking for reasons to harass Bonnie. It'll come a moment when he'll harass her because he loves her, but he's not even aware about it. He'll be just looking for excuses.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^yeah he can't away. Especially himself. He always finds an excuse for physical contact
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
zzz
That's right, Damon = womanizer!

I've got to go now, but tomorrow after I leave I'll come here. :)

*hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
bye hun *hug* i'm gonna go too..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
NOOOO DONTT LEAVEE.
i just cam eback from highschool!!

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
ok - I'll be here for a bit for u Aly *hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
YAYYYY (HUGS)

Omg, at that highschool there was SOO MANY ASIANS!!!

90% of the school were asians.
Cant wait till i get there next year , tho.
Omg math ib looked soo HARD LOL
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
^I lol when u said that the asians lmao we are everywhere!

Maths+me = nightmares

seriously - eugh
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
I NOOO
Omg i had no i dea what they were talking about

there was this thingyy that was like a squiggly -> ( < sumthing like that but squiggly.

Everything else i cud understand.
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

Asians >.<<<<
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Hey Aly!

Oh, I studied statistics in college before I study fashion. I had a lot of maths, calculus...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
haha aw Aly *hug*

cheer up hun - you are gonna be like a storm they won't know what hit them lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
WOOT FASHION
XDD
Omg, choral was horrible >.<


It was like lisetning to a church choir
XDD and there was 1 guy in the class, but he was an ugly asian
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^haha lmao ALy you are sooooooooo cruel!

Behave lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
tongue
Aly, you don't have to date an asian... rofl

You can date any cute guy...

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
mischievous
exactly! I think somebody's hormones are a little jumpy
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
mischievous
lmao...

Poor Aly...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
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Guys, I have to go...

Aly, I'm going to the beach tomorrow, I'll be back at Monday. I'll miss you a lot. *hugs* Good luck at school and behave... lmao

Bye Asma! *hugs*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
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^Patty gonna miss ya loads *bearhug* have a great time and try your best to laugh ;D

*hug and a kiss*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL



there were atleast 3 hpt white guys

-.-



I NEED HELP!


my friend got rejected form this guy she liked and no she keeps saying that she loved her.

AND i know for a fact that it wasnt love. How do i tell her to get over him and that it wasnt love?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
worried
hmm..try and break it to her gently. I mean she's talked herself into believing it. I think. Tell her that she deserves better and if she still has feelings for him that they are wasted. I think u're friend might be fantasising on some level. And if it is love - then tell her to become a nun.

seriously. love at 14? come on! why is she trying to tie herself to a guy that has said 'No'. Frankly, he's insulted her. And if she was my friend I'd knock the guy's block off
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL.

I told her that but shes all : NO, I CANT LOVE NO OTHER.
GOD.
She even said he even loved me, my friends said so.

LOL NUN.
thats what we all need.
O-O this is why they made ugly guys- so that every girl wont get pregoo.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
Ally if she isn't able to realize it or she doesn't want to realize it than you can't help her.Maybe when she has another relationship whit a boy that truly loves her than maybe she will accept that what the other guy felt for her wasn't love.Your friend is still very young and she has all the time in the world to experience waht a true relationship is all about.
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
First of all - Aly how anyone not love you lmao you are totally cool

Sounds like ur friend has swallowed the Twilightsaga lmao

Its what's underneath the 'ugliness' that counts ;D sme guys not so hot but = amazing guys XD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
kiss
Sisi! *knocks over Sisi with hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
Asma.*hug*
Also Aly your friend is at an age where it's easy confuess crush/infatuation whit love.
I have a qestion if SS is released in UK and France than why isn't the book available on the internet?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
^ I have no idea. Its also out-of-stock here tho. I do not know what they are doing..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
@d, yahhh, hopefully she'll give him up-.-
@ asma LOL i no, im awesome.
XDDDDD ZOMGGG
at highschool tehir was this one... uhhh clicheee nerd guy. He was funny. But then i said i liked his voice and all of a sudden hes insulted.
D; And when i saID HI TO HIM The end of school he was all : ur the one who insulted me..

I liked his voice, it was the same voices as gayy guys .
I like that D;
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
kiss
^you naughty naughty girl lmao

ok guys gtg its REALLY late here! love ya both mwahX
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL .

BYEEEE ASMAA D;
dont let damon bite.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
kiss
Good morning!

We're 240 fans! I think when I come back we'll be more than 250... Someone wants to bet? lol

Asma, Aly, D, Sisi, Aub *bearhug*

I'll be back at Monday hopefuly with lots of pictures from the beach I'll publish on LJ. I'll miss you all.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
kiss
*bearhug* Patty

have a great time hun
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
crying
BYEE PATTYY!!!

BRING US WITH U!
i wanna see a beach D;
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
kiss
^aw Aly she's gonna take loads of pics for you..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO
WOOT PICS.

SO hows ur morning?
er, wait its like lunch there, right?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
its nearly 4.00 over here
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
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Wow, morning all! I can't believe how fast we're picking up fans, it's wonderful! Seeeeee CW!!! We're not totally out of our minds, make Bamon happen! Our fanbase is growing ever so steadily!