Damon & Bonnie Why Damon and Bonnie?

samjhart posted on Oct 27, 2009 at 02:17PM
Considering the majority of fans (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fans are divided on Damon/Bonnie, thought I'd make a forum to welcome Donnie fans (I jus made the name up) and list why exactly you are in love with this ship!

So I'll start. I read about them in the book and tho I thot Delena was sexy and all but I jus couldn't erm LOVE it. Then came the Donnie interaction - fell head over heels. It was jus..WOW. Bonnie brought out a caring, human side to Damon that I was craving to see. He cared about her and she trusted him enough to call him for help when she was in danger. I think she believed in him where even Elena gave up.

In the tv show - they look like incredibly STRONG characters who would not be intimidated by each other in a relationship. Of crz, we've actually got to see a scene with them together yet...

Gonna stop now - getting rantish lol

{The List} NOTE: Please don't copy or steal this idea. You know who you are

- Because somehow in some way they bring out the best in one another
- Because Damon sees himself in Bonnie
- Because somehow Bonnie always saves Damon
- Because Damon HAS saved Bonnie in spite of himself
- Because they're on the slow-burn and are still explosive
- Because when it comes down to it Damon could NEVER hurt Bonnie
- Because Bamon are the LOVE STORY before 'The Vampire Diaries'
- Because Damon has never lied to Bonnie
- Because Damon always can see through Bonnie even if her friends can't see through her lies
- Because Bonnie showed she trusted him with her life
- Because Damon died for her
- Because our heart broke for Bonnie when she saw Damon die - you only cry like that for someone you LOVE
- Because even in serious situations they found time to flirt
- Because Stefan totally ships them XD
- Because he blushed when she kissed him
- Because he gave her a sexy, open-mouthed kiss
- Because he noticed her bra size lol
- Because Damon teased her about the manliness of Jeremy
- Because she saved him from the witches' wrath
- Because the first time Damon saw Bonnie have a vision - he was politely puzzled
- Because Bonnie pulled one over him
- Because she was the first person to touch his true self - his soul
- Because he sees her as a 'good person'
- Because she challenged his emotional self when she saved him from the fire
- Because he did really want to 'protect' her
- Because the little hints of their backstory we've seen on the show seem AMAZING
- Because their chemistry is undeniable
- Because they outrageously flirt no matter who's there
- Because Damon rose his glass as a toast at her
- Because he eyed her up whilst she was doing a spell
- Because he was whistling at her
- Because Damon couldn't help but lick his lips when she went fiesty on his ass
- Because they are so #Married
- Because Damon automatically has no concept of personal space when it comes to Bonnie
- Because they dress in matching colours sometimes
- Because he did his eye-flirt at her
- Because he listens to her
- Because Damon tells jokes more around Bonnie
- Because Bonnie calls him "Older, sexy, danger guy" (Girl's guy radar is ON)
- Because she calls him "gorgeous" in the books
- Because he gave her sexy kiss on her back ;D
- Because he comes for his 'bird'
- Because she is worth "infinity" ordinary girls to him
- Because Bamon is so much more than lovely dovely, their wicked, bad,and not your average couple ;D
- Because we love a forbidden love story
- Because a vampire and a witch - is something to be revered
- Because they are so unpredictable together
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie in Blood Will tell before attempting to bite her
- Because that kiss had us thinking bad things
- Because on the show - he's never held anyone so physically close as he did with 'dead Bonnie'
- Because he nicknamed her
- Because she nicknamed him
- Because Damon was so emotionally affected by Bonnie's death - even though he knew she wasn't really gone
- Because she ONLY loves him!
- Because Damon couldn't slap Bonnie, instead he kiss her to calm her down in The Dinner Disaster
- Because Bonnie in the books love only him and for her he is her first choice and not the second like for Elena and Katherine
- Because they have so much passion
- Because Damon refused to let Klaus take Bonnie - with a firm "No"
- Because they both are great dancers
- Because Damon's instinct is always to protect Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie hurt Damon he never ever seeks revenge in any form
- Because in their first scene together - we love how Damon tried it on with Bonnie and how she shot him down
- Because they see right through each other
- Because in the books: Damon was beside himself with 'terror' when he realised he'd just abandoned Bonnie
- Because he couldn't take the idea of Bonnie being anyone's but his
- Because Bonnie asked Mrs Flowers how to contact the dead - so she could talk to Damon
- Because at the end of Midnight when all other visions cleared away there were only two on his mind : Bonnie's face and name
- Because he sooo checked her out in her dress in 3x09
- Because Bonnie is Damon's "humanity" in the books
- Because Damon is Bonnie's "savior"
- Because we so ship the bad boy and 'sidekick'
- Because Damon called Bonnie "good"
- Because in the Last Dance Bonnie saw real concern in Damon for herself
- Because Bonnie teases Damon
- Because Damon teases Bonnie back
- Because Bonnie is Damon's type in the books and show
- Because Damon is Bonnie's type in the books and show
- Because in After Hours Damon was fantasizing with his eyes wide open for Bonnie
- Because Damon went all poetic for Bonnie in the books
- Because Damon made Bonnie smirk-smile with his goofy dancing
- Because one look is always enough
- Because they deserve to be happy
- Because Elena is jealous of Bonnie. “I’ve also been jealous of Bonnie.” Bonnie’s head shot up, and she stared at Elena with an expression of disbelief. “I was used to being the only human Damon cared about, the only one who he would want to save.” She looked at Bonnie with tear-filled eyes. “I am so, so glad that Bonnie is alive. But I was jealous that Damon cared enough to die for her." i mean if ELENA is jealous there must be something going on! ;)
- Because the Bamily alone are enough for anyone to start shipping them XD
- Because Damon got very guilty when Bonnie mentioned him leaving her for 4 days.(Midnight)
- Because he couldn't help not looking at Bonnie, after he had undressed her. (Nightfall)
- Because Damon met Bonnie, before he met Elena. (After hours)
- Because Bonnie said he could have her anytime:
"You just don't want it to be Damon," said Meredith. "I would think you'd be more worried about him being a psycho killer than a diary thief."
"I don't know; killers are sort of romantic. Imagine your dying with his hands around your throat. He'd strangle the life out of you, and the last thing you'd see would be his face." Putting her own hands to her throat, Bonnie gasped and expired tragically, ending up draped across the bed. "He can have me anytime," she said, eyes still closed.
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie at Alaric Saltzmans party.
- Because Damon got the ability to make Bonnie laugh:
She heard Damon's low ironical voice: "And have you heard that kissing a red-haired girl cures fever blisters?" And then Bonnie's outrageous, flattered laughter.(The Struggle)
- Because they are "cut from the same cloth" aka are SoulMates
- Because Ian admitted he read the Bamon book scenes *squee*
- Because Kat said: "The most profound bond Bonnie has is with Damon"
- Because Ian said Bamon is "Wow!"
- Because Ian said that Bamon "really works"
- Because KG&IS ship them XD
- Because there's never been a couple like them
- Because in his 500 years of existence he's never met anyone like Bonnie (books)
- Because Bonnie's feelings for Damon are very real (books and show)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her (books)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her in the show
- Because Damon avoids manhandling Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie saved Tyler from Damon, he immediately forgot to be mad at her
- Because they do 'mouthing' communication
- Because Damon was listening out for Bonnie even before he got to the house
- Because when Abby told Bonnie to tell her 'friends' of the danger - she called Damon
- Because Damon soooo checked out Bonnie in that dress
- Because in the books Bonnie withstood torture for Damon
- Because Bonnie lied to protect Damon from the kitsune
- Because the 'lady of quality' Damon chose to help him turn back into a vampire reminded him of Bonnie (psychoanalysis alert).
- Because Damon told Bonnie she was a 'lady of quality.'
- Because there aren't 'two like her'
- Because Damon refers to Bonnie as his witch
- Because they keep us waiting which ensures they'll be even more epic when they happen!
- Damon would never accept Bonnie w/ other guy in order to make her happy..
- Because Damon, 'He’d always thought of her as his' (Moonsong)
- Because LJ Smith said that she would have had Bamon together in the woods helping Caroline give birth. And she would FIGHT for the scene to be published

 Considering the majority of fan (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fan are divided on Damon/Bonn
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
Thanks gals, I knew I wasn't the only one who thought the whole thing was weird. Someone over the Cw board said that someone else had wrote the episode, so that's probably why everything seemed so choppy.

That explains alot *rolls eyes* it was a Delena fan lmao
seriously tho - what were they thinking?!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
They're trying to force us to swallow that Elena suddenly cares so much about Damon. This is weird. He was not even worried about her once he was inside the tomb. He just left her behind with a lot of dry vampires.

He had a blood bag to bargain with the vamps for Elena
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
meh
But the blood bag was for Katherine. When Elena screamed he hasn't even listened, for he was looking for Katherine.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^It was a joke Patty *hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
laugh
I understood! *hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
tongue
I guess the real question is, what happens now? LOL I mean we have to wait for more than a month. What will happen next? And I don't understand the frequent breaks.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
lol *phew*

but seriosuly? I hope they start Donnie soon..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
I agree that Kat's perormance was great tonight.I felt so bad for her but didn't yousee the similarities.Bonnie was heartbroken and Elena comforted her and Damon was heartbroken and Stefan comforted him (sort of),they are deffinatlly connected.But what I absolutelly hate was the Delena scenes in the episode.They were so forced to me.Elena was acting like she knew Damon so well and she didn't even went worried about Stefan beeing in thetomb and he was willing to stay there so she can be ok.Seriously?!Seriously?!It'just ughhh.Elena caring about Damon and than for Stefan is like Damon beeing procupied if Elena was ok in ''Bloodliness''.I hate triangele and I absoultelly hate forced trainegles which are S/E/D for me.

We have 201.We rock.:)
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
Kat was the strongest female actress apart from Jasmine (Grams). And why the heck is Elena acting like all 'I'll helpU?' Has she forgotten that he is abusive, a killer..and don't give the excuse he's in love. Love doesn't make u evil..Idk. Elena seemed a tad delusional in this episode. I get that she's attracted to him and all that but why would you hug smbdy who obviously has hurt so many ppl she loves and cares about? It was OOC. And yeah if Elena is such a caring person - she could've at least hugged her brother, Stefan and perhaps Bonnie for helping her..?

Yeah we rock..lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
To be honest, I don't think I want it to happen too soon. I don't want to make it as some kind of "I'm in pain, so I'm going to use you to get rid of it" kind of thing. I want them to have more interaction most definitely. I want their feelings for each other to grow, through understanding and tolerance. I want them to learn from each either. But most importantly I want that slow simmer to make even ME have butterflies in my stomach. But with both of them in the state they're in now, I think I just want them to forgive each other at least. To help each other through it. As for a full on relationship? Well, certainly not with Elena going back and forth in between brothers like a ping pong ball lol. And when Bamon happens, I want Damon to completely forget about Katherine and her annoying little Doppleganger. Unfortunately, I don't think that's going to happen this season.

OT: How do you guys italicize what others say, because right now it just looks like I'm out of the loop rofl.
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
crying
Delena spot has got 419 fans... I don't understand how come so many people don't care about Stefan's feelings...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
@Patty

They're the same kind of people that agree with a woman hopping from brother to brother, so you shouldn't be surprised that they don't care lol.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
italic = the word between i and /i inside brackets


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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
tongue
You're right, D... I shouldn't be so surprised...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
smirk
italic = the word between i and /i inside brackets

Let's see if this works...WOOT Thank you!!!
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
haha I laughed so hard at D's last sentence..I want Damon to completely forget about Katherine and her annoying little Doppleganger.

Well Delena is being promoted..
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
hmmm
Anytime, D!

Well... It looks like everyone is disappointed here...

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
sad
^too right..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
laugh
I'm not too disappointed, just annoyed. LOL I mean they gotta throw us something. I mean last night was just too freaking weird for words. I'm hoping there's some dialogue on the episode back from break. I don't care if it's just Bonnie threatening Damon, but they gotta give us something....

If they don't...

Well I'm not going to think about the "If they don't" haha.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
IA with D tho. I don't want Donnie to end up like Delena..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
worried
Yeah, things were too confused in the end. Like there was too much to be explained and not enough time. Did you guys feel that too?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
crying
Oh god, D don't say that..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
sad
Yeah, things were too confused in the end. Like there was too much to be explained and not enough time. Did you guys feel that too?

I wish the episode was longer..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
IA with D tho. I don't want Donnie to end up like Delena..

Exactly. And you know things are bad when even some Delena fans are saying it was rushed. And yes, I'm sorry for saying "if they don't" rofl. I'm positive they will, I mean they kind of have to. It's not like Bonnie is leaving anytime soon, so I'm sure we'll get some Bamon!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
Exactly. And you know things are bad when even some Delena fans are saying it was rushed.

Two words. When? Where?

It's not like Bonnie is leaving anytime soon, so I'm sure we'll get some Bamon!

I feel better already! lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu CrazedBamonFan said…
cool
Two words. When? Where?

Cw board, a topic was made about the Delena chemistry feeling forced. Alot of them stuck up for them, don't get me wrong, but even a few of them said that it felt rushed.

And I'm glad I could make you feel better lol. I even tried a pick up speech in the official Bamon thread there too haha. I figure we all need a big motivational speech lol.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
That is sad. I mean I do feel bad for them..Delena's attraction should've been gradual

LOl. We do. I feel so bummed about both Bonnie and Damon..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
angry
This is a relief. Not even Delena fans want to be forced to swallow this nonsense.
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
^They should NEVER have guest writers. Or better yet, get LJ to ghost-write or write some of the episodes. That would rock!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
worried
I agree... How, how? How could Elena lie to Damon and be all about "I'll stick with Stefan" one episode and in the other she doesn't even care about him? She went inside the tomb to get Damon back? What was that?

I'm sorry, I don't get it...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
^Its kind of a jump the shark
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
sad
I don't mean I totally hated the Delena scenes. It was kind of cute when she took off the necklace. And I really wanted to see Stefan hugging Damon, so it was nice to see Elena giving him some confort. Stefan's eyes filled with tears when he knew Damon wouldn't leave the tomb was really sweet.

But it was suddenly too much. The tomb scene was confused. Things were changing too quickly, and Elena was caring too much about Damon... And Bonnie was not caring a little about Damon, she decided to help when Stefan went in... I don't know...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
I don't mean I totally hated the Delena scenes. It was kind of cute when she took off the necklace. And I really wanted to see Stefan hugging Damon, so it was nice to see Elena giving him some confort. Stefan's eyes filled with tears when he knew Damon wouldn't leave the tomb was really sweet.

But it was suddenly too much. The tomb scene was confused. Things were changing too quickly, and Elena was caring too much about Damon... And Bonnie was not caring a little about Damon, she decided to help when Stefan went in... I don't know...


I swear to God - the only things that did make sense were Anna. You could see the point of what she was doing at different parts of the episode..Yeah Elena/Damon I mean WTH? has someone erased her memory of actually all the bad stuff he's done? I get pitying the guy but showing such affection so fast? Why doesn't she feel sorry for Stefan - who is feeling guilty an watching his brother be hurt all over again? Seems to me..she doesn't think very much..

And Bonnie not interacting very much with the Salvatores? What is up with that? Bonnie is a symbol of the Bennett/Salvatore alliance. She was MORE important than Elena. She should've had more scenes with BOTH of them. meh..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
meh
meh...

And where's Aly? I've been missing her these last two days...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
worried
^no idea. I miss her too! She always knows how to make me laugh!

Hope she's ok..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
No, im really not ok.

I HATED THE DELENA SCENES AND WEEE HAD THIS STUPIIDDDD VALENTINES DANCEE AND UGHHHH!!!!

GOSSHHHHHHH, the only part i actually liked in the episode was the fact that jeremey and anna kissed.
Everything else wow, i did not like.
Bonnie and stefan?
wtf!!

lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
link

andd omg at 0;19 is that damon and bonnie??? or am i just seeing things? the girl with the whiteeeee corset thing and the guy that looks like damon holding herr???
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
kiss
^Aly! *knocks Aly over with hug*

Aw hun - why was the dance bad?

Yep - Delena scenes were weird..
aw i hope they do get together. It would be hypocritical of Elena to stop them..
What about Bonnie and Stefan? lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
worried
^No that's not Bonnie :(
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
kiss
Hey Aly! *hug*

I missed you, sweetheart!

I know, it was weird... Confused... Strange...

What bothers me the most is the way Damon has been Katherine's puppet for all these years. They shouldn't have done it with the character. It was a violence.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
No, Bonnie and Stefan is wrong, it's a disrespect that should never cross the writers' mind!

No, unfortunately is not Bonnie. Maybe it's her cousin... Damon has a crush on witches...

I don't really care actually. I'm dying to read "Shadow Souls", to feel the real TVD vibe. I've already ordered, but I'll get it in early April...

What was so bad about the dance?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
surprise
Oh... Did your friend really betray you? Are you sure she knew?

And does he know how you feel about him?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
It seems Jeremy is remembering something. I think he's going to remember what happened to Vickie.

I don't know about Anna. It seems she's leaving the town with her mother...But I felt some kind of feeling when she kissed him.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
I know, and all of a sudden he goes and types vampires on google..

And i felt something, too when they kissed.
Cuz it was slow, then douchee ben had to ruin it.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
angry
This Ben was disgusting! He said Bonnie was desperate!

I loved when Stefan killed him, but I wanted so much to see Bonnie burning him. She needs water to set fire?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
angry
^I think she can't create fire out of nothing just yet..

And yeah I wanted to smack Ben.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
I NOO!
i was like, exuse me, asshole?


Yeah, i too wanted to see bonnie burn him.
And water? i know, i was like.. well thats a new one...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
surprise
Ass hole!

Poor Bonnie...

Do you guys think she's going to feel guilty for her grams' death or she's going to blame Damon?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Both.
XDD
and blame it on elena, damon and stefan.


Well, face it damon and bonnie can now share their sorrow together
;)


Stefan is going to feel sorry for bonnie and be all : ohhh im soo sorry, uh, its all my fault, kiss me!

XDDDD
Sorry, i couldnt resist.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^lmao Aly