Damon & Bonnie Why Damon and Bonnie?

samjhart posted on Oct 27, 2009 at 02:17PM
Considering the majority of fans (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fans are divided on Damon/Bonnie, thought I'd make a forum to welcome Donnie fans (I jus made the name up) and list why exactly you are in love with this ship!

So I'll start. I read about them in the book and tho I thot Delena was sexy and all but I jus couldn't erm LOVE it. Then came the Donnie interaction - fell head over heels. It was jus..WOW. Bonnie brought out a caring, human side to Damon that I was craving to see. He cared about her and she trusted him enough to call him for help when she was in danger. I think she believed in him where even Elena gave up.

In the tv show - they look like incredibly STRONG characters who would not be intimidated by each other in a relationship. Of crz, we've actually got to see a scene with them together yet...

Gonna stop now - getting rantish lol

{The List} NOTE: Please don't copy or steal this idea. You know who you are

- Because somehow in some way they bring out the best in one another
- Because Damon sees himself in Bonnie
- Because somehow Bonnie always saves Damon
- Because Damon HAS saved Bonnie in spite of himself
- Because they're on the slow-burn and are still explosive
- Because when it comes down to it Damon could NEVER hurt Bonnie
- Because Bamon are the LOVE STORY before 'The Vampire Diaries'
- Because Damon has never lied to Bonnie
- Because Damon always can see through Bonnie even if her friends can't see through her lies
- Because Bonnie showed she trusted him with her life
- Because Damon died for her
- Because our heart broke for Bonnie when she saw Damon die - you only cry like that for someone you LOVE
- Because even in serious situations they found time to flirt
- Because Stefan totally ships them XD
- Because he blushed when she kissed him
- Because he gave her a sexy, open-mouthed kiss
- Because he noticed her bra size lol
- Because Damon teased her about the manliness of Jeremy
- Because she saved him from the witches' wrath
- Because the first time Damon saw Bonnie have a vision - he was politely puzzled
- Because Bonnie pulled one over him
- Because she was the first person to touch his true self - his soul
- Because he sees her as a 'good person'
- Because she challenged his emotional self when she saved him from the fire
- Because he did really want to 'protect' her
- Because the little hints of their backstory we've seen on the show seem AMAZING
- Because their chemistry is undeniable
- Because they outrageously flirt no matter who's there
- Because Damon rose his glass as a toast at her
- Because he eyed her up whilst she was doing a spell
- Because he was whistling at her
- Because Damon couldn't help but lick his lips when she went fiesty on his ass
- Because they are so #Married
- Because Damon automatically has no concept of personal space when it comes to Bonnie
- Because they dress in matching colours sometimes
- Because he did his eye-flirt at her
- Because he listens to her
- Because Damon tells jokes more around Bonnie
- Because Bonnie calls him "Older, sexy, danger guy" (Girl's guy radar is ON)
- Because she calls him "gorgeous" in the books
- Because he gave her sexy kiss on her back ;D
- Because he comes for his 'bird'
- Because she is worth "infinity" ordinary girls to him
- Because Bamon is so much more than lovely dovely, their wicked, bad,and not your average couple ;D
- Because we love a forbidden love story
- Because a vampire and a witch - is something to be revered
- Because they are so unpredictable together
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie in Blood Will tell before attempting to bite her
- Because that kiss had us thinking bad things
- Because on the show - he's never held anyone so physically close as he did with 'dead Bonnie'
- Because he nicknamed her
- Because she nicknamed him
- Because Damon was so emotionally affected by Bonnie's death - even though he knew she wasn't really gone
- Because she ONLY loves him!
- Because Damon couldn't slap Bonnie, instead he kiss her to calm her down in The Dinner Disaster
- Because Bonnie in the books love only him and for her he is her first choice and not the second like for Elena and Katherine
- Because they have so much passion
- Because Damon refused to let Klaus take Bonnie - with a firm "No"
- Because they both are great dancers
- Because Damon's instinct is always to protect Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie hurt Damon he never ever seeks revenge in any form
- Because in their first scene together - we love how Damon tried it on with Bonnie and how she shot him down
- Because they see right through each other
- Because in the books: Damon was beside himself with 'terror' when he realised he'd just abandoned Bonnie
- Because he couldn't take the idea of Bonnie being anyone's but his
- Because Bonnie asked Mrs Flowers how to contact the dead - so she could talk to Damon
- Because at the end of Midnight when all other visions cleared away there were only two on his mind : Bonnie's face and name
- Because he sooo checked her out in her dress in 3x09
- Because Bonnie is Damon's "humanity" in the books
- Because Damon is Bonnie's "savior"
- Because we so ship the bad boy and 'sidekick'
- Because Damon called Bonnie "good"
- Because in the Last Dance Bonnie saw real concern in Damon for herself
- Because Bonnie teases Damon
- Because Damon teases Bonnie back
- Because Bonnie is Damon's type in the books and show
- Because Damon is Bonnie's type in the books and show
- Because in After Hours Damon was fantasizing with his eyes wide open for Bonnie
- Because Damon went all poetic for Bonnie in the books
- Because Damon made Bonnie smirk-smile with his goofy dancing
- Because one look is always enough
- Because they deserve to be happy
- Because Elena is jealous of Bonnie. “I’ve also been jealous of Bonnie.” Bonnie’s head shot up, and she stared at Elena with an expression of disbelief. “I was used to being the only human Damon cared about, the only one who he would want to save.” She looked at Bonnie with tear-filled eyes. “I am so, so glad that Bonnie is alive. But I was jealous that Damon cared enough to die for her." i mean if ELENA is jealous there must be something going on! ;)
- Because the Bamily alone are enough for anyone to start shipping them XD
- Because Damon got very guilty when Bonnie mentioned him leaving her for 4 days.(Midnight)
- Because he couldn't help not looking at Bonnie, after he had undressed her. (Nightfall)
- Because Damon met Bonnie, before he met Elena. (After hours)
- Because Bonnie said he could have her anytime:
"You just don't want it to be Damon," said Meredith. "I would think you'd be more worried about him being a psycho killer than a diary thief."
"I don't know; killers are sort of romantic. Imagine your dying with his hands around your throat. He'd strangle the life out of you, and the last thing you'd see would be his face." Putting her own hands to her throat, Bonnie gasped and expired tragically, ending up draped across the bed. "He can have me anytime," she said, eyes still closed.
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie at Alaric Saltzmans party.
- Because Damon got the ability to make Bonnie laugh:
She heard Damon's low ironical voice: "And have you heard that kissing a red-haired girl cures fever blisters?" And then Bonnie's outrageous, flattered laughter.(The Struggle)
- Because they are "cut from the same cloth" aka are SoulMates
- Because Ian admitted he read the Bamon book scenes *squee*
- Because Kat said: "The most profound bond Bonnie has is with Damon"
- Because Ian said Bamon is "Wow!"
- Because Ian said that Bamon "really works"
- Because KG&IS ship them XD
- Because there's never been a couple like them
- Because in his 500 years of existence he's never met anyone like Bonnie (books)
- Because Bonnie's feelings for Damon are very real (books and show)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her (books)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her in the show
- Because Damon avoids manhandling Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie saved Tyler from Damon, he immediately forgot to be mad at her
- Because they do 'mouthing' communication
- Because Damon was listening out for Bonnie even before he got to the house
- Because when Abby told Bonnie to tell her 'friends' of the danger - she called Damon
- Because Damon soooo checked out Bonnie in that dress
- Because in the books Bonnie withstood torture for Damon
- Because Bonnie lied to protect Damon from the kitsune
- Because the 'lady of quality' Damon chose to help him turn back into a vampire reminded him of Bonnie (psychoanalysis alert).
- Because Damon told Bonnie she was a 'lady of quality.'
- Because there aren't 'two like her'
- Because Damon refers to Bonnie as his witch
- Because they keep us waiting which ensures they'll be even more epic when they happen!
- Damon would never accept Bonnie w/ other guy in order to make her happy..
- Because Damon, 'He’d always thought of her as his' (Moonsong)
- Because LJ Smith said that she would have had Bamon together in the woods helping Caroline give birth. And she would FIGHT for the scene to be published

 Considering the majority of fan (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fan are divided on Damon/Bonn
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
mischievous
Hey Aly, you're 5 hours behind me. We're in daylight saving time now.

And I think we're going to read "Shadow Souls" in PDF.I really don't think I can wait...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
So its like 3:51 there? XDD

RLLY???

and grrr i dont waant to wait .
Im a very ... impatient person XDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
sad
hey guys! I'm logging back on, even tho I'll have to go in a bit..

question guys. should I do the pick today (for the new banner to be selected) or after 1x13?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
oh btw Aly you should do the character game with us on the Bonnie spot. so far we've killed tanner, klaus, katherine, we're after tyler next lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL !

send me a link.

Uhmmmm, maybe after 1x13 ... butt isnt 13 flashbacks?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
here you go..

link

Yeah - majority. But how long are we gonna have to wait?..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Ty

Gr..... maybe after episode 14? then another hiatus comes..
Then you'll have time to :)

Omg i just had a cute thought, but it might not happen- actually pretty sure it wont happen .

BUUUUTTT ok on the 14th episode before it ends matt and jeremey find out vikki is dead and damon kisses bonnie, anddd , and, and, the tomb opens and all the vampires are set free ^_^ Katherine attacks elena and the rest are all vague ..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^ROFLAMO

I can jus imagine them kissing passionately in the woods with Stefan knocked out and Elena screaming in the bg *goes misty-eyed*
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO well not passionately, just damon giving her a little peck and releasing the kiss slowly. And bonnie's all wide-eyed like XDDD

And basically thats what stefan and elena are doing. XDDDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^LMAO
Aly you are evil. And I also wish you were writing the scripts lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LMFAOOOO

that wud be interesting
XDDDDDD
then there will occurances from the book (ALOT OF THEM)
ooh and alot of deaths ...........
and twists
and s- i meann... other things ;)
and ill let u and patty help me with scripts .
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
haha I am honoured. And yay for the books lol
But let me guess. You'd kill Elena off right?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Lol, no.

Maybe caroline tho
and add a mederith
XDDDD
wait, then aunt jenna wont have anybody... ill, find a guy to get aunt jenna pregooo.

Vikki or lexi shud come back to life.
i Like lexi and tyler lockwood together.
LOL

uhmmmm, i wud stick to the books, and maybe make damon a little more nicer..... actually, no- scratch that ill keep him the way he is.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Lmao

Not Caroline! Not before she does the Donnie prophecy lmao
yeah - I would like to see Meredith so Bonnie could become more of a free spirit!
You wonna knock Jeanna up? OMG. But I like her with Alaric!

Lexi - defo But her and tyler = NO WAY. Her own bf is well buff lol

No Damon is still gonna be nasty lol

What about Matt?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
yah, yah. Ill kill her off in the 4th season or sumthing. I love to see her chanting `bonnie and damon sitting in a tree k.i.s.s.i.n.g............

omg lexi and tyler look so good together tho!!!

Matt, ill keep him with caroline. I dont know, i want to kill him off, but at the same time i dont.
What else should happenÉÉ
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
lol
hmmm..oh Katherine/Damon - HOT SEX before he stabs her through the heart
and Klaus should defo come and stay for longer!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
oh god yes .

I need klaus to actually do stuff XDDDDDDDDD
like when bonnie was talking to him he did nothing XDDD
Klaus should like attack her or sumthing.

season 4 damon shud start fallin for bonnie like in the books.
XDDD . Matt and caroline break up ( not for long tho)

O-O i just had a wierd thought bonnie dating jeremy..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
Klaus - mwhahaha ~ what have you got planned?
Have u thot about Grams?
s4? so late? Aw..
thnk God - they are so cute!

But he's like a little brother..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL I no..

Hmm.. klaus
OMG
When hes about to kill damon bonnie pushes him out of the way. Klaus hardly moves and stands there watching bonnie. He then bites her infront of damon. Damon weakily gets up and attacks klaus.
OOH... what a nice violtile picture in my head..

maybe season 3 then..... to provoke the idea in every1`s head.
Like damon starts to successfully flirt with her in season 2. XDDD

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
OMG I nearly died at the point. How can anyone call Bonnie weak after reading that?!
Haha that'll go down well lol

yeah give Donnie as much banter as Delena
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LMFAOOOO. oh weee will ;)

XDDDDDDDDDDDDDD


And and and the bathtub scene!!! OMGGGGGGG
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Aly! Don't have palpitations plz! Cz well that's what happens to me every time I imagine it lmao
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Haha, okay ill try not tooo

XDDDDD
sooo what shall we do?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
^about what? it looks like you've planned everything out..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL .
Dunno. OMG ........... if u had a chance to write 1 whole chapter in the vampire diaries book what wud it be about?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
Damon and Bonnie lol seriously Stelena or Damon. I feel that Stelena haven't been explored yet, properly

btw I've gtg - I'll talk to you later ok? *hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
sad
lol. OKeeeyyy, byeee
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
cool
I'm back!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smirk
The bathtub scene has to be there!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
You there Patty?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
Yes, I'm still here.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Hello~~~~


Gahh, i hate studying, so boring.

And theres 55 vocab words im suppose to be jotting down.
im on a verge of dyeing !!! XDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
zzz
Hey Aly, you're probably sleeping now...

I hope you've studied enough to handle the test!

Hey Asma, are you there?

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
^You guys there..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
I'm here!
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
yippeeeeee! how are you?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
I'm fine. I'm writing a little... ;)

And you?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Haha the same lol

this is seriously freaky!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
mischievous
Haha!

Are you excited about "Children of the Damned"? It seems we'll have the chance to know about the reason why the brothers had this fight.

And have you seen the new episode of Lost? I thought Ian was too much Damon there... *smirk*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
mischievous
lmao

I am! I think I prefer Nina as Katherine tbh..a certain twinkle in her eye and her chemistery seems better lol I think well I've got a feeling as to why they fought..

No I've given up Lost ages ago. LOl he probably thought 'WTH lets spice Boone up' plus they probz told him to act like that
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smirk
I think it's easier to play the villain. I'm not going to say it aloud for Ian not to get jealous (ha ha), but I believe it's harder for Paul to play Stefan.

So Nina must feel more intense. Because the evil is something we hide inside ourselves, I guess. When we play a character, we have an opportunity to let it flow.

Yes, I guess since TVD is a huge sucess, they told him to play Damon instead of Boone... lol But it must be really hard after all these years to come back and play this character...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
Yeah its harder to play a character that is always at war with themselves, always trying to hide themselves even from ppl they love..Its a difficult idea and harder to play. I mean Damon hasn't reached the stage yet in the show..

Yeah - you kinda let loose lol

Hmm I think Ian might be doing it unconciously too, I mean he was flown in jus hours between the 2 shoots its jard to switch Damon off lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
surprise
Because Stefan's voice is always so low, he's so cold and restrained... Even when he's being ruthless, like when he locked Damon on the basement, his voice is emotionless. Or when Logan threatened him, he was pretty scary!

Damon always manages to laugh, even when he's in trouble. When Stefan was torturing that vampire, he was having fun. I loved that scene, btw... But Stefan is so hard to understand, I don't know...

And I agree, how would Ian come back to Boone if he was away from Lost for more than three years and playing Damon now? It's really hard. His character died in the first season!
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Yeah I have to agree. He's as a complex character as Damon but sadly everybody is hung up on Damon's humour lol Tho I'm glad they are starting to do the whole funny brother routine its hilarious. I think its scary how much Damon & Stefan get each he other cz I think they are essentially becoming the same..

Yeah Stefan really *ahem* was loving the torture thing, lol at Damon tho:

he looks at Noah with a look saying: 'that's my bro, u little punk'
he looked at Stefan : 'I knew you weren't a goody-two shoes'
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
laugh
Exactly! There's no way for me to choose one of them, simply because they're two sides of the same coin. I love them together. Yes, it's like they're the same person divided between two bodies. Damon will become gentler and Stefan will become more dangerous.

That's exactly what we see in the books. Stefan has his evil moments, specially when he rejects his brother or tortures some bad guy. It's easier to see how much Damon loves Stefan, because Damon is more intense, more love-hate. I'd love to see Stefan saving Damon... But saving him from death, not just from getting hurt like 1x09.

lol, Damon was really proud of his little brother. When Noah said they'd have to kill him, Damon's face was hilarious...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Me too *SQUEE* that's why I don't approve of the love triangle..it pulls them apart all over gain :( Exactly. They balance each other out. Its just natural to them lol

ITA. I wish Stefan saves Damon and Damon saves him. I think that personally when it comes to saving each other even Elena doesn't even take priority. Both Damon and Stefan know it but they are stubborn..

lol yeah. I love the nod Damon gave Stefan. They were Team Kickass lol 'finish the thing of..' You coul tell it was almost a mercy killing..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
cool
*squee* This fight over the same girl is getting older. Doing the same thing twice is boring, even for an old vampire. lol

I don't remember we had the chance to see Stefan saving Damon. But Damon saving Stefan we did, although on the show it was not so emotional as in the book. They should show more moments the love between the brothers winning the bitterness. And they're both stubborn, they never give up their pride. I wish we could see they apologizing for the past... :)

Team kickass is just too funny!
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
Me too..I hope they really do put the emotional brother stuff in. Remember when he saved Stefan from Klaus with 'get away from my brother' OMG I nearly died

lol *bow* thank you
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Sure, that's one of the most moving moments... When I first read I was really surprised and touched. In "Lost Girls" he saved Stefan from Logan, but it was not so touching... Maybe because it was so easy to kill Logan.

What scenes from the books you'd love to see on the show?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
mischievous
Yeah - I think its cz we knew Logan wasn't much a erm threat. He wasn't exactly evil or powerful either = less impact

The bathroom scene lol, I would also like to see Damon turn into a wolf lol also erm.. Bonnie saving Damon, and Stefan, Elena pulling out that erm thingy with Bonnie's name <333 The brother scenes would be awesome tho