Damon & Bonnie Why Damon and Bonnie?

samjhart posted on Oct 27, 2009 at 02:17PM
Considering the majority of fans (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fans are divided on Damon/Bonnie, thought I'd make a forum to welcome Donnie fans (I jus made the name up) and list why exactly you are in love with this ship!

So I'll start. I read about them in the book and tho I thot Delena was sexy and all but I jus couldn't erm LOVE it. Then came the Donnie interaction - fell head over heels. It was jus..WOW. Bonnie brought out a caring, human side to Damon that I was craving to see. He cared about her and she trusted him enough to call him for help when she was in danger. I think she believed in him where even Elena gave up.

In the tv show - they look like incredibly STRONG characters who would not be intimidated by each other in a relationship. Of crz, we've actually got to see a scene with them together yet...

Gonna stop now - getting rantish lol

{The List} NOTE: Please don't copy or steal this idea. You know who you are

- Because somehow in some way they bring out the best in one another
- Because Damon sees himself in Bonnie
- Because somehow Bonnie always saves Damon
- Because Damon HAS saved Bonnie in spite of himself
- Because they're on the slow-burn and are still explosive
- Because when it comes down to it Damon could NEVER hurt Bonnie
- Because Bamon are the LOVE STORY before 'The Vampire Diaries'
- Because Damon has never lied to Bonnie
- Because Damon always can see through Bonnie even if her friends can't see through her lies
- Because Bonnie showed she trusted him with her life
- Because Damon died for her
- Because our heart broke for Bonnie when she saw Damon die - you only cry like that for someone you LOVE
- Because even in serious situations they found time to flirt
- Because Stefan totally ships them XD
- Because he blushed when she kissed him
- Because he gave her a sexy, open-mouthed kiss
- Because he noticed her bra size lol
- Because Damon teased her about the manliness of Jeremy
- Because she saved him from the witches' wrath
- Because the first time Damon saw Bonnie have a vision - he was politely puzzled
- Because Bonnie pulled one over him
- Because she was the first person to touch his true self - his soul
- Because he sees her as a 'good person'
- Because she challenged his emotional self when she saved him from the fire
- Because he did really want to 'protect' her
- Because the little hints of their backstory we've seen on the show seem AMAZING
- Because their chemistry is undeniable
- Because they outrageously flirt no matter who's there
- Because Damon rose his glass as a toast at her
- Because he eyed her up whilst she was doing a spell
- Because he was whistling at her
- Because Damon couldn't help but lick his lips when she went fiesty on his ass
- Because they are so #Married
- Because Damon automatically has no concept of personal space when it comes to Bonnie
- Because they dress in matching colours sometimes
- Because he did his eye-flirt at her
- Because he listens to her
- Because Damon tells jokes more around Bonnie
- Because Bonnie calls him "Older, sexy, danger guy" (Girl's guy radar is ON)
- Because she calls him "gorgeous" in the books
- Because he gave her sexy kiss on her back ;D
- Because he comes for his 'bird'
- Because she is worth "infinity" ordinary girls to him
- Because Bamon is so much more than lovely dovely, their wicked, bad,and not your average couple ;D
- Because we love a forbidden love story
- Because a vampire and a witch - is something to be revered
- Because they are so unpredictable together
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie in Blood Will tell before attempting to bite her
- Because that kiss had us thinking bad things
- Because on the show - he's never held anyone so physically close as he did with 'dead Bonnie'
- Because he nicknamed her
- Because she nicknamed him
- Because Damon was so emotionally affected by Bonnie's death - even though he knew she wasn't really gone
- Because she ONLY loves him!
- Because Damon couldn't slap Bonnie, instead he kiss her to calm her down in The Dinner Disaster
- Because Bonnie in the books love only him and for her he is her first choice and not the second like for Elena and Katherine
- Because they have so much passion
- Because Damon refused to let Klaus take Bonnie - with a firm "No"
- Because they both are great dancers
- Because Damon's instinct is always to protect Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie hurt Damon he never ever seeks revenge in any form
- Because in their first scene together - we love how Damon tried it on with Bonnie and how she shot him down
- Because they see right through each other
- Because in the books: Damon was beside himself with 'terror' when he realised he'd just abandoned Bonnie
- Because he couldn't take the idea of Bonnie being anyone's but his
- Because Bonnie asked Mrs Flowers how to contact the dead - so she could talk to Damon
- Because at the end of Midnight when all other visions cleared away there were only two on his mind : Bonnie's face and name
- Because he sooo checked her out in her dress in 3x09
- Because Bonnie is Damon's "humanity" in the books
- Because Damon is Bonnie's "savior"
- Because we so ship the bad boy and 'sidekick'
- Because Damon called Bonnie "good"
- Because in the Last Dance Bonnie saw real concern in Damon for herself
- Because Bonnie teases Damon
- Because Damon teases Bonnie back
- Because Bonnie is Damon's type in the books and show
- Because Damon is Bonnie's type in the books and show
- Because in After Hours Damon was fantasizing with his eyes wide open for Bonnie
- Because Damon went all poetic for Bonnie in the books
- Because Damon made Bonnie smirk-smile with his goofy dancing
- Because one look is always enough
- Because they deserve to be happy
- Because Elena is jealous of Bonnie. “I’ve also been jealous of Bonnie.” Bonnie’s head shot up, and she stared at Elena with an expression of disbelief. “I was used to being the only human Damon cared about, the only one who he would want to save.” She looked at Bonnie with tear-filled eyes. “I am so, so glad that Bonnie is alive. But I was jealous that Damon cared enough to die for her." i mean if ELENA is jealous there must be something going on! ;)
- Because the Bamily alone are enough for anyone to start shipping them XD
- Because Damon got very guilty when Bonnie mentioned him leaving her for 4 days.(Midnight)
- Because he couldn't help not looking at Bonnie, after he had undressed her. (Nightfall)
- Because Damon met Bonnie, before he met Elena. (After hours)
- Because Bonnie said he could have her anytime:
"You just don't want it to be Damon," said Meredith. "I would think you'd be more worried about him being a psycho killer than a diary thief."
"I don't know; killers are sort of romantic. Imagine your dying with his hands around your throat. He'd strangle the life out of you, and the last thing you'd see would be his face." Putting her own hands to her throat, Bonnie gasped and expired tragically, ending up draped across the bed. "He can have me anytime," she said, eyes still closed.
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie at Alaric Saltzmans party.
- Because Damon got the ability to make Bonnie laugh:
She heard Damon's low ironical voice: "And have you heard that kissing a red-haired girl cures fever blisters?" And then Bonnie's outrageous, flattered laughter.(The Struggle)
- Because they are "cut from the same cloth" aka are SoulMates
- Because Ian admitted he read the Bamon book scenes *squee*
- Because Kat said: "The most profound bond Bonnie has is with Damon"
- Because Ian said Bamon is "Wow!"
- Because Ian said that Bamon "really works"
- Because KG&IS ship them XD
- Because there's never been a couple like them
- Because in his 500 years of existence he's never met anyone like Bonnie (books)
- Because Bonnie's feelings for Damon are very real (books and show)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her (books)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her in the show
- Because Damon avoids manhandling Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie saved Tyler from Damon, he immediately forgot to be mad at her
- Because they do 'mouthing' communication
- Because Damon was listening out for Bonnie even before he got to the house
- Because when Abby told Bonnie to tell her 'friends' of the danger - she called Damon
- Because Damon soooo checked out Bonnie in that dress
- Because in the books Bonnie withstood torture for Damon
- Because Bonnie lied to protect Damon from the kitsune
- Because the 'lady of quality' Damon chose to help him turn back into a vampire reminded him of Bonnie (psychoanalysis alert).
- Because Damon told Bonnie she was a 'lady of quality.'
- Because there aren't 'two like her'
- Because Damon refers to Bonnie as his witch
- Because they keep us waiting which ensures they'll be even more epic when they happen!
- Damon would never accept Bonnie w/ other guy in order to make her happy..
- Because Damon, 'He’d always thought of her as his' (Moonsong)
- Because LJ Smith said that she would have had Bamon together in the woods helping Caroline give birth. And she would FIGHT for the scene to be published

 Considering the majority of fan (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fan are divided on Damon/Bonn
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
^yeah I read OMG Patty that's EXACTLY what I was thinking lmao
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Yah, i read it .
YAHHHH LOL previouslyyyyyy

I think damon might've been on top of the car XDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
worried
Yeah, maybe it's just Damon... And he's losing his memory! Oh... He can't forget everything that happened in that bathroom! lol

I think he's going to recover...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
bwhahha lmao

So do I! Or a erm a confused Matt
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Oh, I'll be gone for a while.

I'll be back later!

*hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
ok *hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
OH HE BETTER NOT!

What if he forgets bonnie?
then when he turns human he bonds with her ..
ooh that wud be cuteee
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
He won't forget her Patty stop worrying XD LJ said herself they are gonna grow closer and forge a bond. I think he'll finally realise that Bonnie is his humanity
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
kiss
I'm back!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Omg, i an just picture it right now!!
They're sitting on a benh or sumthing in the moonlight.
They're talking and she just made him laugh. He pauses- and stares at her while her head is bowed down looking at her feet. Relizes, bonnie is more then a maiden- she's his maiden.
He slowly reaches for her chin- shes winces at the sudden touch. Then out of no where matt comes. XDDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
laugh
LOL

Do you think Matt really wants Bonnie?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Nawh, he was just there at the wrong place and the dam wrong time.
He seems to ... grow fond of her, i guess. Well, thats how i determined it.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
And he thinks that Damon just wants to feed on Bonnie and leave her behind.That's why he wants to protect her.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Yeah, undoubtedly, he should understand where damon is coming from. If he were to feed on bonnie, he would've already.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Lmao god Aly only you coul think of that! Are you gonna put that in the script too..?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
surprise
Asma, I know LJS said that, but in the end of Nightfall he had forgoten everything. So I understand that he doesn't remember anything; nor about the massage he made in Elena, nor about seeing Bonnie naked in the bathtub...

And if he's losing more memories, how will he take it back?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LMFOO
Evidently!!!!

Hehe.. matt should like run in briefly and punch damon (which he can actually do, since damon is human again) XDDD

damon falls to the ground, regaining his balance he says " whats the deal... Oh, its you,"

Matt grabs bonnie by the hand and leads her out of the scene.


And isnt that good for bonnie? He forgets about seeing her nude.

But bad for damon D; Losing all these feelings.
Maybe at shin chi.. shi (how the heck do u spell it?)
After he rescues stefan he'll virtually regain his memories.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
I full faith. If you are meant to be with someone and love them - then he will fall in love with her all over again. The thing about the Donnie connection is that Damon loves and cares for her, for who she is, not who she just REPRESENTS to him. Her erratic personality may seem a little silly and weak at times but she has a pure soul - she's trusting, caring, loving and at the same time has Power. She doesn't loose herself when everybody is running about trying to become somebody better. In fact, everybody leans on her to make themselves stronger. And I include Meredith in that. She gives her friends strength to fight because they care for her and there "aren't two like her." She's not perfect but I think Damon is closer to seeing she how she is even with her faults..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Beautifully said.

Ermm, asma im studying william shakespears biography for a exam tommorow, cud i ask u a question?

Whats the difference between a prose and poetry?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
^Aly don't you want a short general definition or a detailed one?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
umm short and simple would be better to understand XDDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
Ok. Prose is basically ordinary written and spoken language (everyday language) which is the opposite to poetry. Poetry is a form literature
Hope that helps!
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
angelic
Tyyyy


Grr, i have to memorize all theseeee facts word for word >.< SCREWWWW THISS WORLD!

LOL .

jkjk.



Hmm.... what shall we talk about?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Oh I forgot to tell literature is basically 'written art'

Hmm how about what you want Shadow Souls to be like? You always have the best scenarios lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
lolololololololol.
Hm.......................................­...­...­. dam it, im having a brain fart. Nothing.
GRRR..
THINKK BRAIN, THINK..
LOLOLOLOLOLOLol this william shakesphere quotes are probing my head, " double, double toil and trouble; fire burn, and cauldron bubble"

Gosh, i can picture bonnie saying that, stirring a wooden spoon in a cauldron.
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD


Hm... lets see, OH MY GOD.

Okay, so like damon passes out shirtless and wakes up next to bonnie LMFAOO

So they are are aimlessly wondering why the fuck they are in bed together. Crap ... the thought went awayy
AWEEEE.. LOL, wbu?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
It's really hard to explain the difference between prose and poetry...

But I had one teacher who told me poetry would bring the writer's feelings. I understand the words and descriptions in poetry are more refined...

There's a brazilian author, Raduan Nassar, whose prose is almost poetry. He tells a story with descriptions so affected...

Well, I think it's all about the way we write and not what we write... lol
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
crying
But it's such a sweet moment the bathtub scene, I wish Damon could remember...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
GOD I NO!

did it actually say that damon forgot about it?

GRRRRR. Stupid fox things ( im not good with names LOLOLOLOL)
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
angry
DIE DEMONS DIE

I think he might be able to get them back somehow..I've got a feeling he will near the end. Another bargain perhaps?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
kiss
I'm going to have dinner!

Bye!

I'll talk to you tomorrow (after watching "Children of the damned")!

BTW,I just updated "The Maiden and the Vampire"

*hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
lol.

You know what wud be cute?

If in shadowed souls those fox demons try to manipulate damon in flesh and bonnie protets him. Them wanting to eradiacate more memories from him, bonnie refusing them to do it and instead of him they would take hers. Damon gets mad at her, but bonnie does it anyway.

That wud bee cutee!!

Did that make sense? LOL
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
kiss
^yippeee! Patty bye *hug*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
heart
What Bonnie does let them take anymore memories? That would be sweet..*sigh*
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
hmmm
lol. That wud be!!

Gosh, fantasies are surreal D;



did u read this huge paragraph on elena and damon kissing on a bed in shadowed souls?

I was so depressed when i read it XDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
heart
Tell me about it

I personally thought it was beautiful..and I'm glad that LJ is actually staying true to the ships. This actually is an indication that his feelings are gonna grow for Bonnie too cz at the end of 'Nightfall' Damon thot he was in love with Elena - and we saw him struggling for his feelings for Bonnie. So now they are gonna be out in the open - the next is gonna be taken for both ships. Personally - I think it'll contrast VERY well with Donnie
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL .

another love triangle...
Bonnie/damon/elena.
Hummmm.
OMG.
What if elena were to walk in on bonnie and damon like snogging- wow, snogging sounds disturbing.... how about kissing? yes, kissing will do- and then she is in despair and run off somewhere and finds herself in trouble when she faces more evil characters.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
kiss
^Your mind has gone into overdrive again Aly lol But actually its a possibility XD lol (Bonnie+Damon kissing = HEAVEN)

Listen I've gotta go. Night over here. I'll talk to you tomz - good luck on the exam and REVISE!!!!!!!!!!!!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LMFAOOOOO, but its a suggestion.


Kayyy, NIGGHHT!
Thanks .
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Hey Asma!

Are you there?

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
hey I'm here Patty
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
crying
Oh, Asma! *bearhug*

Did you like 1x13? I cried in the end... Everything was so sad...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
Hey Patty *bearhug* :)

I liked it.. :S I didn't get to watch the ending what happened?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
crying
Yes it was so sad.Damon felt so betrayed by Stefan and Elena but how that bitch played both him and Stefan.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
angry
You talking about Katherine..cz yeah I did hate her..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
crying
Oh, but everything about the vampires getting caught was so sad... The girl crying because of her mother... Poor Pearl... It was sad the way things happened.

And it was Katherine's fault, because the should have left the town before, the way Pearl had warned her. But she wanted to keep the boys...

I don't agree it was Stefan's fault. He didn't tell the truth. His father was too smart.
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
big smile
And this guy on fire on the promo? Do you think Bonnie is burning Ben?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
^ I hope it was but somehow don't think so lol

Katherine is a b***h (part of the reason I love her) but yeah she managed to rip a family apart - forced two brothers against each other cz she was selfish

What did you think of the Delena moments?..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
sad
Yes it was very sad what happened whit Pearl.:(And Stefan shouldn't have told anything his father.What was he thinking?!He lost Damon's trust twice now.What did I think about the Delena moments.To be honest I know that Elena wanted to protect the people she loved but it made me really mad that she looked in Damon's eyes and lied to him.Maybe it's just me but the way he looked at her it was so hopeful,like he wanted to trust Stefan but didn't knew if he could.I don't know if Elena realiese how much Damon still loves Stefan and wants to trust him and he was putting his faith in her and she screwed it up.That to me was the ultimate betrayel because she didn't even know what happened in the past between Damon and Stefan and why Damon don't trust Stefan and even after she knew the truth she took Stefan's side.
On another topic isn't only me or wasn't anyone creeped out that Damon enjoyed Kathrine killing the man at the starts of the episode?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
sad
But Damon didn't enjoy... He was really scared. It was funny to see... ha ha

I think Damon has not been a nice guy. Our actions have consequences. No one knows what's going to happen when Katherine is by his side again. And what if she wants to kill everyone?

I believe Elena doesn't trust him, and she's right about that. But of course, Damon is absolutely crazy for Stefan and he's incredibly hurt. He was happy, thinking that he might not be alone anymore, that he had friends.

But I don't believe he really ment it when he said he hope she dies...

And Stefan was too neive. But still it was not his fault. And he should tell Damon how it really happened.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu Isabellas_girl said…
surprise
Damon's neivete really killed me.It was really fun but yes I agree that Stefan should tell Damon how it really happened.And Kathrine by his side I think that Damon will be worst than before.And I felt really bad for Damon when he undesrtood that Stefan betrayed him again(from his POV).But is Damon so blind of love for Kathrine that he can't see what a manipulative bitch she is and how many people will die if that tomb gets opened.