Damon & Bonnie Why Damon and Bonnie?

samjhart posted on Oct 27, 2009 at 02:17PM
Considering the majority of fans (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fans are divided on Damon/Bonnie, thought I'd make a forum to welcome Donnie fans (I jus made the name up) and list why exactly you are in love with this ship!

So I'll start. I read about them in the book and tho I thot Delena was sexy and all but I jus couldn't erm LOVE it. Then came the Donnie interaction - fell head over heels. It was jus..WOW. Bonnie brought out a caring, human side to Damon that I was craving to see. He cared about her and she trusted him enough to call him for help when she was in danger. I think she believed in him where even Elena gave up.

In the tv show - they look like incredibly STRONG characters who would not be intimidated by each other in a relationship. Of crz, we've actually got to see a scene with them together yet...

Gonna stop now - getting rantish lol

{The List} NOTE: Please don't copy or steal this idea. You know who you are

- Because somehow in some way they bring out the best in one another
- Because Damon sees himself in Bonnie
- Because somehow Bonnie always saves Damon
- Because Damon HAS saved Bonnie in spite of himself
- Because they're on the slow-burn and are still explosive
- Because when it comes down to it Damon could NEVER hurt Bonnie
- Because Bamon are the LOVE STORY before 'The Vampire Diaries'
- Because Damon has never lied to Bonnie
- Because Damon always can see through Bonnie even if her friends can't see through her lies
- Because Bonnie showed she trusted him with her life
- Because Damon died for her
- Because our heart broke for Bonnie when she saw Damon die - you only cry like that for someone you LOVE
- Because even in serious situations they found time to flirt
- Because Stefan totally ships them XD
- Because he blushed when she kissed him
- Because he gave her a sexy, open-mouthed kiss
- Because he noticed her bra size lol
- Because Damon teased her about the manliness of Jeremy
- Because she saved him from the witches' wrath
- Because the first time Damon saw Bonnie have a vision - he was politely puzzled
- Because Bonnie pulled one over him
- Because she was the first person to touch his true self - his soul
- Because he sees her as a 'good person'
- Because she challenged his emotional self when she saved him from the fire
- Because he did really want to 'protect' her
- Because the little hints of their backstory we've seen on the show seem AMAZING
- Because their chemistry is undeniable
- Because they outrageously flirt no matter who's there
- Because Damon rose his glass as a toast at her
- Because he eyed her up whilst she was doing a spell
- Because he was whistling at her
- Because Damon couldn't help but lick his lips when she went fiesty on his ass
- Because they are so #Married
- Because Damon automatically has no concept of personal space when it comes to Bonnie
- Because they dress in matching colours sometimes
- Because he did his eye-flirt at her
- Because he listens to her
- Because Damon tells jokes more around Bonnie
- Because Bonnie calls him "Older, sexy, danger guy" (Girl's guy radar is ON)
- Because she calls him "gorgeous" in the books
- Because he gave her sexy kiss on her back ;D
- Because he comes for his 'bird'
- Because she is worth "infinity" ordinary girls to him
- Because Bamon is so much more than lovely dovely, their wicked, bad,and not your average couple ;D
- Because we love a forbidden love story
- Because a vampire and a witch - is something to be revered
- Because they are so unpredictable together
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie in Blood Will tell before attempting to bite her
- Because that kiss had us thinking bad things
- Because on the show - he's never held anyone so physically close as he did with 'dead Bonnie'
- Because he nicknamed her
- Because she nicknamed him
- Because Damon was so emotionally affected by Bonnie's death - even though he knew she wasn't really gone
- Because she ONLY loves him!
- Because Damon couldn't slap Bonnie, instead he kiss her to calm her down in The Dinner Disaster
- Because Bonnie in the books love only him and for her he is her first choice and not the second like for Elena and Katherine
- Because they have so much passion
- Because Damon refused to let Klaus take Bonnie - with a firm "No"
- Because they both are great dancers
- Because Damon's instinct is always to protect Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie hurt Damon he never ever seeks revenge in any form
- Because in their first scene together - we love how Damon tried it on with Bonnie and how she shot him down
- Because they see right through each other
- Because in the books: Damon was beside himself with 'terror' when he realised he'd just abandoned Bonnie
- Because he couldn't take the idea of Bonnie being anyone's but his
- Because Bonnie asked Mrs Flowers how to contact the dead - so she could talk to Damon
- Because at the end of Midnight when all other visions cleared away there were only two on his mind : Bonnie's face and name
- Because he sooo checked her out in her dress in 3x09
- Because Bonnie is Damon's "humanity" in the books
- Because Damon is Bonnie's "savior"
- Because we so ship the bad boy and 'sidekick'
- Because Damon called Bonnie "good"
- Because in the Last Dance Bonnie saw real concern in Damon for herself
- Because Bonnie teases Damon
- Because Damon teases Bonnie back
- Because Bonnie is Damon's type in the books and show
- Because Damon is Bonnie's type in the books and show
- Because in After Hours Damon was fantasizing with his eyes wide open for Bonnie
- Because Damon went all poetic for Bonnie in the books
- Because Damon made Bonnie smirk-smile with his goofy dancing
- Because one look is always enough
- Because they deserve to be happy
- Because Elena is jealous of Bonnie. “I’ve also been jealous of Bonnie.” Bonnie’s head shot up, and she stared at Elena with an expression of disbelief. “I was used to being the only human Damon cared about, the only one who he would want to save.” She looked at Bonnie with tear-filled eyes. “I am so, so glad that Bonnie is alive. But I was jealous that Damon cared enough to die for her." i mean if ELENA is jealous there must be something going on! ;)
- Because the Bamily alone are enough for anyone to start shipping them XD
- Because Damon got very guilty when Bonnie mentioned him leaving her for 4 days.(Midnight)
- Because he couldn't help not looking at Bonnie, after he had undressed her. (Nightfall)
- Because Damon met Bonnie, before he met Elena. (After hours)
- Because Bonnie said he could have her anytime:
"You just don't want it to be Damon," said Meredith. "I would think you'd be more worried about him being a psycho killer than a diary thief."
"I don't know; killers are sort of romantic. Imagine your dying with his hands around your throat. He'd strangle the life out of you, and the last thing you'd see would be his face." Putting her own hands to her throat, Bonnie gasped and expired tragically, ending up draped across the bed. "He can have me anytime," she said, eyes still closed.
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie at Alaric Saltzmans party.
- Because Damon got the ability to make Bonnie laugh:
She heard Damon's low ironical voice: "And have you heard that kissing a red-haired girl cures fever blisters?" And then Bonnie's outrageous, flattered laughter.(The Struggle)
- Because they are "cut from the same cloth" aka are SoulMates
- Because Ian admitted he read the Bamon book scenes *squee*
- Because Kat said: "The most profound bond Bonnie has is with Damon"
- Because Ian said Bamon is "Wow!"
- Because Ian said that Bamon "really works"
- Because KG&IS ship them XD
- Because there's never been a couple like them
- Because in his 500 years of existence he's never met anyone like Bonnie (books)
- Because Bonnie's feelings for Damon are very real (books and show)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her (books)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her in the show
- Because Damon avoids manhandling Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie saved Tyler from Damon, he immediately forgot to be mad at her
- Because they do 'mouthing' communication
- Because Damon was listening out for Bonnie even before he got to the house
- Because when Abby told Bonnie to tell her 'friends' of the danger - she called Damon
- Because Damon soooo checked out Bonnie in that dress
- Because in the books Bonnie withstood torture for Damon
- Because Bonnie lied to protect Damon from the kitsune
- Because the 'lady of quality' Damon chose to help him turn back into a vampire reminded him of Bonnie (psychoanalysis alert).
- Because Damon told Bonnie she was a 'lady of quality.'
- Because there aren't 'two like her'
- Because Damon refers to Bonnie as his witch
- Because they keep us waiting which ensures they'll be even more epic when they happen!
- Damon would never accept Bonnie w/ other guy in order to make her happy..
- Because Damon, 'He’d always thought of her as his' (Moonsong)
- Because LJ Smith said that she would have had Bamon together in the woods helping Caroline give birth. And she would FIGHT for the scene to be published

 Considering the majority of fan (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fan are divided on Damon/Bonn
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
test was UBER HARD.
I was totally tired and bitching... XDD No one left me alone
and GAAHHHH and gym my shorts were inside out soo embarrasing and after school dilemeaa.
>.<
Sigh --

Good thing theres no school tomorrow .

And i know! i can picture damon right now crumpling a piece of paper just thinking about ben touching his little witchy
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
tests are always hard tho tbh.
aw I usually find a grumpy face sends ppl running . But I bet if u make a grumpy face, everyone will pull ur cheeks lmao
ur shorts were WHAT?!

No school tomz? lucky thing!

What piece of paper?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Lol, nooo they were just laughing when i made an angry face.
XDDD

But my crush - meann this boyy was actually caring ^_^
Or he was just being sarcastic like he usually is -.-


I NOO!!
and i dunno any piece of paper.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
Aw cutie lol

You have a sarcastic crush? You lucky thing! lmao

I hope ur online then XD
Oh I get it..XD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL

God, all the boys in my schoola are immature, have dry sarcasim, VERYYYYY sick minded- then again, i am too- and idk... They're jerks and arrogant !!!
LOL

and im online- i always usually am.

GAHHH im soo stressed i have a test every day of this week!!!!

Wednesday- chemooo exam
Thursday- social newpaper test and La Exam term 2
Friday- william shakespear exam -.-
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
Well guys are blessed with the maturity of a bleating lamb. Arrogance and jerk-ness comes with the package believe ME. lol its rare to find a nice guy, like Stefan lol Even tho he too is a badass..

OMG are your teachers trying to kill you?!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
tongue
Hey Aly! *hug*

Don't worry if ppl laugh about you... When I was at school, I used to have ballet and once I wore the tights over the bodysuit... Everybody was making fun of me and I was not even aware about the reason... lol

Asma, what kind of tea do you prefer? I don't like coffee. Here in Brazil ppl drink a very strong coffee. I'm not very found of tea either. My favourite drink is milk with chocolate! I'm very childish... I also like juice.

I was thinking, Isabel was 16 when Elena was born. If she were alive she'd be about 33 now. How many years before Alaric said she was killed?

lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
laugh
LOL, i nooo. But i perfer bad boys like damon, makes it much more spontaionous.
But the guys in my school are UGLYY!!!! like im not even exaggrerating.
XDDDDDD

Awwwww, patty they made fun of u cuz u wore tights?
Wtf, i thought they only made fun of boys who wore tights... huh..

I HATE coffee. XDD
Well, elena might be seeing her mom soon because i looked at some site and it stated that alaric's wife is coming back to life .


GARRR, I NOO!!!
downfalls of grade 9 >.<
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
Hmm the usual one..Indian tea. I'm not into herbal My fave is hot chocolate too lol And juice for me XD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
never tried indian tea...
HOT CHOCOLATE <3
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
^yeah sister lol

Aly you are so cruel tho! Ugly boys lol wait until hormones really kick in lol

aw Patty you should've shown threatened them

And I'm not sure about Alaric's wife tbh..my mind was too busy concentrating on Alaric's gorgeous mug
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
link

A lot of ppl hate Bonnie...

Yeah, I was a fool girl until 13...

I've never tried indian tea either... Chai? I imagine I wouldn't like. Here in Brazil we have "mate tea". And I don't like it as well. But my sister loves it.

I'm leaving now, I'm going to my room... I'll talk to you tomorrow! ;)
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
smile
hm.. she's very likeable in the books, though .

BUT SERIOUSLYY U SHOULD MEET THEM!

their attitudes match their faces..

LOL, sorry i have a reason i hate them.
A very GOOD reason.


byee patty !
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
Anyone online?..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
big smile
I am!

*bearhug* Asma!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
mischievous
*bearhug* Patty XD

Thnx Patty for putting the pics up - I knew they were out there but couldn't find them lol

So how are you? Oh btw I voted on the CW poll thingy mwhahaha
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
mischievous
I just shared the link where we can see the pics!

I'm fine. I just have this weird pain in my neck, I think it's some muscular pain. :(

And I have to come back to work... Although I'm still undecided about what to do since I graduated in college...

I saw you voted! It's always fun to vote!

And how are you? Are you in the university right now?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
Yeah I saw and rated lol

Aw hun - I hated when that happens! Just don't make any sudden movements ok? :)

What do you wonna do?

Haha totally. Who did you vote for? lol

no I'm at home. I'm feeling a bit lazy..lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
sad
I'm not sure. The things I love to do the most are writing, photographing and making films, although I am graduated in fashion.

And of course, I need to make money... And I just can inrol in the Masters I want in October. So I have to decide now if I'm going to get a job I don't really like or a Masters I don't really like for now. :(

I don't remember my votes... lol

What are you studing?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
sad
Hmm..why don't you combine them and try an apprenticeship? I don't at a fashion magazine etc. or even fashion photography, are there stuff like that over there?

Yeah Masters does sound a bit scary - why don't you jus try it since it I'll give you a better chance for scoring a job? How long is it anyway?

lol that's ok..

------. I wish I hadn't chosen it now! Even tho I speak Englsih better than my native tongue, its very very difficult. You study a lot of English 'culture' stuff that are still alien to me lol And my spelling has gone worse since I started!
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lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
hmmm
Yeah, I was thinking about it... Of course we have fashion magazines. The thing is I don't have any experience photographing models.

A Masters take 24 months. It's hard to do research in a subject we don't like...

Which one is your native tongue? Where were you born?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
worried
Hmm..but maybe if you showed them your portfolio..

that's true I'm struggling with my course right now

Punjabi. I was born in England though. My family don't speak English in the home
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
smile
Nice! So your family came from India or Pakistan?

It's cool they speak Punjabi at home. So you will never forget.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
Yeah from Pakistan :)

Yeah that's what my parents say but we always manage to annoy them to switching to English lol Its cz we forget a word or something we express in English. And they don't like it. Wbu? What's your mothertongue?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
My mother tongue is Portuguese, I was born here in Brazil. My father's mother came from Austria, but she has not taught him any German. But I like to study languages, I've never been forced.

When I was a kid, I used to stare at the World map and dream of travelling around the world... lol

Are you Muslim?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
That's so cool! I read about Brazil when I was younger and I always had the impression it was a hubub of multi-cultures :)

lol so did - only to the pretty places ;D

Yeah I am :)
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
surprise
ps, wohoooo! 20th page lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
surprise
That's a good impression. Everybody lives in peace here. :)

We treat the foreigns very well and we try to help them even if we can't speak their languages.

Yes, 20th page!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smirk
Cool :) I'l; have to visit sometime lol XD (don't take that as a threat)

My god, we talk alot don't we? I suspect Aly will have to search for us to get to the right page lol I wonder where she is? She said had the day off, but she's not here..hmm..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smirk
Cool :) I'l; have to visit sometime lol XD (don't take that as a threat)

My god, we talk alot don't we? I suspect Aly will have to search for us to get to the right page lol I wonder where she is? She said had the day off, but she's not here..hmm..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
cool
Sure you should come. As long as I'm here I can show you the town. =D
It would be fun.

Yes, It's truth... I think she's going to follow us from where we are now...

lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
lol I'll hold you to that then XD

Oh btw have you ordered your Shadow Souls copy?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
big smile
Sure. :)

Oh, not yet. It takes about 6 weeks to the book get here. But I'm not sure if it's from the release date or the ordering date... But I'll order soon.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
sad
The release date is 15th Feb - don't know if I can wait that long..
the teasers and LJ's interviews are killing me!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
hmmm
Really? In the bookstore I always buy imported books says the release date is 16th March... I think the hardcover is coming earlier, right?

I'm crazy for reading... I think I'm going to order this week.
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Morning to you too XDD

Well i think aly just got up and read then took a shower....
Hmmm, i think she just read everything XDD

shadowed souls release date is feb 15?
doesnt it come out on march?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
tongue
I found out, it's going to be released 15th February in the UK. Well, that means we'll have a PDF version probably two days later... lol
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
big smile
Hiya Aly *hug*

YIPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
worried
Good Afternoon, Aly! I'm going to have lunch just now...

It seems in England they'll read the book Before us...
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
hmmm
see ya later Patty *hug*

I know! Which I mean is not fair with me being a big-mouth and all
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Hiyah too you too *hugs*

Lunch??? Its like 8:33 am here >.<

Im home alone since my sis and my mom are at the hospital


AND LUCKYYYY !!!!
I have to read mine on MARCH!!! Gr..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
:)
OMG are they ok?!

Yeah but Patty said you'll probz have be able to read online as a pdf :)
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL they are ok. My sis is just getting blood samples liek she does every month for her thyroid .

I dont like to read online- wait, no that was a lie. I do, but i want to read the book. XDD
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
laugh
*Phew*
haha Aly you make me laugh so much! lmao
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
XDDD


:) yaaah, i tend to joke alot, im not so much a serious person. If i even try to be firm i start laughing >.< My goodness.


XDDD soo whats up with u twwoo ?
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
worried
lol me too!

Ah nothing. I'm feeling sooo lazy today! I wish TVD was on already!
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
LOL.
Mee tooo!

Grrrr....... in a few hours i have to study for that chemistry test, oh how i hate chemistry .
lebih dari setahun yang lalu samjhart said…
smile
Eugh - chemistery. That is a total nightmare!

Listen Aly gtg I'll talk to later ok? My mum keeps calling and I have to make the tea..
lebih dari setahun yang lalu bamon123 said…
Kkay, hehe... tea.
XDD byee
lebih dari setahun yang lalu pattykirsche said…
wink
Hey!

I'm back!