Has your boyfriend been unfaithful to you? Infidelity can leave couples feeling insecure, hurt and can make it difficult to trust each other again. Sometimes, the damage can carry into a new relationship if a break up occurs. Handle a cheating boyfriend oleh following these steps.:
1-Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
2-Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that anda can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
3-Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What saran would anda give to your friend?.
4-Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do anda believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?.
5-Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how anda feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
6-If anda feel anda need to know why he cheated on anda to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean anda condone, agree with atau accept his behavior.
7-Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology atau promises never to cheat on anda again. Be realistic. Do anda honestly believe this was a one-time event, atau do your instincts tell anda that he'll probably cheat on anda again in the future?.
8-Ask yourself if anda would be better off with him atau without him. Can anda continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
9-Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
10-Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether anda stay with him atau not, forgive him for his actions so anda can heal and move on with your life.
1-Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
2-Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that anda can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
3-Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What saran would anda give to your friend?.
4-Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do anda believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?.
5-Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how anda feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
6-If anda feel anda need to know why he cheated on anda to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean anda condone, agree with atau accept his behavior.
7-Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology atau promises never to cheat on anda again. Be realistic. Do anda honestly believe this was a one-time event, atau do your instincts tell anda that he'll probably cheat on anda again in the future?.
8-Ask yourself if anda would be better off with him atau without him. Can anda continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
9-Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
10-Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether anda stay with him atau not, forgive him for his actions so anda can heal and move on with your life.