The main problem that guys face when trying to ciuman a girl is knowing if they are ready to ciuman them. Get the timing wrong, and things will turn really awkward. Get it right, and well... anda will know. Here's how anda can increase your odds. But, if anda know they are ready then things will go well
1)Make her comfortable oleh making a joke, and don't laugh too loudly at your own jokes atau anda will look like a tool and might turn her off, girls don't always respond sexually to confidence, but an outgoing girl will - humor is an attractive quality. For instance, it's probably a good time to ciuman that girl when you're watching a movie where the mad moments are happening. It'll ease the tension and you'll be able to laugh it off after, but only if she likes the movie.
2) Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first ciuman is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle perahu at a friends pond at night, atau a private camp fire. Usually early dawn atau midnight scenes can be considered lovely. But anda don't have to. Just make sure anda are sincere in what anda are doing.
3) Be bold. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Lean in slowly!! Don't be too fast about it. While anda get closer, slowly close your eyes and stop leaning about half an inch away from your girl's lips. If she's ready, she'll lean in and ciuman you! Try a peck for your first kiss, then pindah on to longer, lebih passionate kisses when you're ready for it. Say sweet things in between kisses, it also allows anda time to breathe.
4) Use the other hand to stroke her hair atau neck. But leave your hand on the back of her neck atau hold her in place, girls may feel loved and cared for and like it. For them, it tingles a bit and makes them feel warm inside.
5) Find what anda were talking about before and keep going if you're not ciuman her anymore. Don't act strange, she might get the wrong impression. She remembers anda how anda were before the kiss, and anda want that not to change too much.
6) Remain just a little touchy-feely after the kiss. anda don't want to leave her not wanting more, atau she might think anda dislike her atau even want to break up. Stroke her back, her cheek, the back of her neck. Comb through her hair a bit.
7) Girls do a lot of talking about the first kiss. Where will it be? What kind of ciuman will it be? If anda are young, and the girl is hyper, then anda don't want to disappoint her with just a ciuman on the cheek. ciuman her on the lips. Draw back, smile at her. If she is responding positively, then go in again, this time using the mouth, opening the lips, and maybe adding some tongue action. Make sure the first ciuman is in a special place - never in the film (this may depend on the person). On a hill, on the stage in a deserted theatre, oleh a air mancur in a secluded park.
8) If she doesn't talk about the first ciuman a ton, she might be waiting for the right time. Most guys never know the right time, so here's the hints:
She will lean towards you, maybe even lay her head on your shoulder.
She won't pull away when anda hold her hand.
She'll smile when anda say her name in a loving and compasionate tone.
She'll ask to meet anda places.
She might seem a bit clingy at times.
She won't make anda go away when she's upset with you. If anything, she'll want to hear anda say "I cinta you," atau "I'm so sorry," atau "Can anda forgive me?"
She will start conversations, make a joke, do things that guys do but like a girl.
9) Don't be afraid to catch it. Sometimes, anda just never know when it's the right time. Girls can be very closed at times, so she may not be giving anda all the warning signs that she wants to be kissed. Sometimes, signals that usually mean she isn't open to physical contact (such as crossed arms, looking away, etc.) may mean that she is just nervous (especially if she's never kissed a guy, atau maybe not kissed many guys, so she is inexperienced) and isn't sure what to do, atau how to make the first move. If this is what she is doing, anda will simply have to rely on your instincts. If she is doing any of the following, then anda will simply have to use your male instincts, and be the hunter. If she is doing any of the signs below, then go in for the kill!
Glancing at you, and quickly looking away when anda see her
Blushing when anda talk to her
If she is biting her lip
10) If this this doesn't work, and she seems surprised atau embarrased that anda kissed her (in an uncomfortable way) then don't freak out. Everyone messes up, and it's not the end of the world if this one girl doesn't like you. It gave anda some experience on dealing with shy girls. anda shouldn't feel bad, atau ashamed of yourself for ciuman her. Instead, feel proud that anda braved up to a shy girl and tried your best! There's always lebih ikan in the sea. If she is unusally mean atau rude and rants on to all of her friends about how anda "kissed her" and laughs as anda walk by, look her straight in the eye, roll your eyes and say "Grow up". anda don't want to be with someone like that anyway. In 9 out of 10 cases however, she will simply pindah on. She may like it (if she was nervous) and anda can ask her out again on another night! Good luck!
1)Make her comfortable oleh making a joke, and don't laugh too loudly at your own jokes atau anda will look like a tool and might turn her off, girls don't always respond sexually to confidence, but an outgoing girl will - humor is an attractive quality. For instance, it's probably a good time to ciuman that girl when you're watching a movie where the mad moments are happening. It'll ease the tension and you'll be able to laugh it off after, but only if she likes the movie.
2) Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first ciuman is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle perahu at a friends pond at night, atau a private camp fire. Usually early dawn atau midnight scenes can be considered lovely. But anda don't have to. Just make sure anda are sincere in what anda are doing.
3) Be bold. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Lean in slowly!! Don't be too fast about it. While anda get closer, slowly close your eyes and stop leaning about half an inch away from your girl's lips. If she's ready, she'll lean in and ciuman you! Try a peck for your first kiss, then pindah on to longer, lebih passionate kisses when you're ready for it. Say sweet things in between kisses, it also allows anda time to breathe.
4) Use the other hand to stroke her hair atau neck. But leave your hand on the back of her neck atau hold her in place, girls may feel loved and cared for and like it. For them, it tingles a bit and makes them feel warm inside.
5) Find what anda were talking about before and keep going if you're not ciuman her anymore. Don't act strange, she might get the wrong impression. She remembers anda how anda were before the kiss, and anda want that not to change too much.
6) Remain just a little touchy-feely after the kiss. anda don't want to leave her not wanting more, atau she might think anda dislike her atau even want to break up. Stroke her back, her cheek, the back of her neck. Comb through her hair a bit.
7) Girls do a lot of talking about the first kiss. Where will it be? What kind of ciuman will it be? If anda are young, and the girl is hyper, then anda don't want to disappoint her with just a ciuman on the cheek. ciuman her on the lips. Draw back, smile at her. If she is responding positively, then go in again, this time using the mouth, opening the lips, and maybe adding some tongue action. Make sure the first ciuman is in a special place - never in the film (this may depend on the person). On a hill, on the stage in a deserted theatre, oleh a air mancur in a secluded park.
8) If she doesn't talk about the first ciuman a ton, she might be waiting for the right time. Most guys never know the right time, so here's the hints:
She will lean towards you, maybe even lay her head on your shoulder.
She won't pull away when anda hold her hand.
She'll smile when anda say her name in a loving and compasionate tone.
She'll ask to meet anda places.
She might seem a bit clingy at times.
She won't make anda go away when she's upset with you. If anything, she'll want to hear anda say "I cinta you," atau "I'm so sorry," atau "Can anda forgive me?"
She will start conversations, make a joke, do things that guys do but like a girl.
9) Don't be afraid to catch it. Sometimes, anda just never know when it's the right time. Girls can be very closed at times, so she may not be giving anda all the warning signs that she wants to be kissed. Sometimes, signals that usually mean she isn't open to physical contact (such as crossed arms, looking away, etc.) may mean that she is just nervous (especially if she's never kissed a guy, atau maybe not kissed many guys, so she is inexperienced) and isn't sure what to do, atau how to make the first move. If this is what she is doing, anda will simply have to rely on your instincts. If she is doing any of the following, then anda will simply have to use your male instincts, and be the hunter. If she is doing any of the signs below, then go in for the kill!
Glancing at you, and quickly looking away when anda see her
Blushing when anda talk to her
If she is biting her lip
10) If this this doesn't work, and she seems surprised atau embarrased that anda kissed her (in an uncomfortable way) then don't freak out. Everyone messes up, and it's not the end of the world if this one girl doesn't like you. It gave anda some experience on dealing with shy girls. anda shouldn't feel bad, atau ashamed of yourself for ciuman her. Instead, feel proud that anda braved up to a shy girl and tried your best! There's always lebih ikan in the sea. If she is unusally mean atau rude and rants on to all of her friends about how anda "kissed her" and laughs as anda walk by, look her straight in the eye, roll your eyes and say "Grow up". anda don't want to be with someone like that anyway. In 9 out of 10 cases however, she will simply pindah on. She may like it (if she was nervous) and anda can ask her out again on another night! Good luck!
