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I need help...

Okay. I am a bisexual girl. Right now, I'm in cinta with another girl. The girl I like is straight, so I know I can never be with her, but I'm not the kinda person that can just get over people easily. Especially not when I cinta someone as much as I cinta her.

The girl and I are friends, but we don't talk much and never hang out. I try to talk to her and be near her as much as I can, so hopefully we could become better friends, but now she seems to think I'm stalking her. Especially since she caught me staring at her today. Now I'm scared that she thinks I'm a creepy stalker and she's gonna avoid me now. She hasn't berkata anything to me yet, but I think she berkata something about it to one of her friends.

If I liked a guy, if he caught me staring at him he might assume I liked him. But since we're both girls, anda wouldn't normally assume that. Now I feel like the only way I could get her to understand is to tell her how I feel. But I'm way too shy, not to mention is is VERY rare when we get to be alone together. Plus I have no idea how she would react, and I'm worried it could make things even lebih awkward between us.

What should I do?

Serious jawaban only please, if any of anda are homophobes anda can gtfo now.

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botchfromhell said:

Approach her telling her that anda swear anda aren't stalking her and anda just wanted to become better friends with her. It coild blossom into something more. I doubt anda are really in cinta with her. I think anda might think anda cinta her but it's just a crush i am not going to say anda are going through a faze like some people do, which is stupid. The only reason i am saying this is because anda don't know her well enough from what i am reading. Hope i helped

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RobinFan360 said:

Say "Girl, I'm bi. And I like you. Now lets go eat pineapples."

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lolz

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JaseKS said:

Well, I have a bisexual friend who once admitted to having a crush on me, and we both knew I was as straight as a symmetry-freak's drawing. I didn't really freak out, because this girl was my best friend, and just cause anda like someone, doesn't mean you're going to rape them, so I just went on with my life.

Well, at any rate, disregarding my personal life, I believe that anda should try to talk to her about it. It may be awkward at first, but since she's your friend, explain things to her. Just say anda have a crush on her, but also mention that anda hope it won't have any affect on the friendship. Some girls may think "Oh God, this is going to be awkward now." But if anda explain it to her, I'm certain she'll understand. Take some time to mentally prep yourself for the confrontation. There may be consequences, but if anda really cinta her, it will only make things lebih awkward if anda DON'T say anything, for anda especially.

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IoYoI said:

I understand where you're coming from.
I'm a lesbian, and right now I'm majorly crushing on a straight girl.
Except for we hang out a lot. Just because we have the same group of friends. I catch myself staring at her a lot as well. *sigh* damn straight girl hotness..
Right now I'm just planning on riding it out, until I feel like I need to tell her.

diberikan that, I can't really help anda other than when anda tell her, don't be too worried. It will all work out. :)

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