Why does cinta hurt? Can anda be hurt and still love?

Real cinta doesn’t hurt, kiddo. Real cinta is what makes all the bad crap in your life seem that much lebih bearable. cinta is intoxicating, irrational, overwhelming, illogical... It sets your senses on api and makes anda do things anda would’ve never done was it not for that other person. cinta blinds anda and makes anda see the whole world in a new clear, beautiful way at the same time.

It’s the absence of cinta that hurts; it’s the falling out of cinta atau not having cinta atau not having reciprocal cinta that hurts.


Hopefully this isn’t for you, but I have to add this because some people might need to hear it over and over again:

"I've berkata before, cinta doesn't hurt, and if a man hits anda once, he will hit anda again." ~ Oprah Winfrey

There are lots of reasons why cinta hurts. Maybe anda just broke up with someone and anda still cinta them, atau maybe anda haven't seen the one anda cinta in so long that your just pining for them. (Me at the moment) But yes anda can be hurt and still be in love. It's possible. Very possible. cinta will hurt at some points, but it's wourth it! It may not seem like it while your hurting, but once anda find that special someone you'll always know that it was wourth it! ;)

all the dang time.

I know cinta hurts and I know what it feels like.
I was in cinta with this guy whom I did cinta but he let lust ruin it and in a way he did abuse me slighty. I've felt worthless ever since and every time I look at him atau someone mentions him it opens up old wounds and I have to hold it together atau else i'd break down to the floor holding myself for support. Even though I'm with someone whom I want to spend the rest of my days with I still feel what I felt before and I dont think anything will ever change that. SO when anda cinta expect pain.

so many guys lyk me...........but the guy i lyk,doesnt even bother to look at me atau even say hi.....if i smile at him, he makes a face.
it was when he kissed another girl, dat i found out he was already in luv with sum1 else ;(
i almost cry every night beacause of this.
did i HAVE to see them kiss? ;(

cinta hurts cause anda can cinta someone and they will ignor u.

i dont know why but cinta hurts and anda still can cinta and hurt, it may not be always true that cinta hurts but i'm speaking on experience cinta can hurt if it gets the chance.

cinta isnt cinta without hurt.

cinta is like magic because anda are able to experience every emotion; happiness, frustration, pleasure and hurt. with out feeling pain, how do anda no there is pain to feel. pain lets us know we have a reason for sorrow, a reason for life and , A REASON FOR LOVE

a person can break your jantung but anda can still cinta them and its almost imposible to fogive and forget especialy for girls

anda can be hurt and still love
i asked this guy out but never got and answer
this girl whos supposed 2 be 1 on of my best friends got dunped and 2 weeks later asked the guy i just asked out
and he berkata yes
:'(

If I like someone and they hurt me i don't forgive them because if they break my jantung it still hurts but only if i really liked them...

Loving people hurts because anda cinta them

cinta hurts cuz u use ur jantung to feel and theres noway to bounce back from a broken heart

cinta hurts because when it doesnt hurt, its the best feeling in the world...so there has to be something to even out all that good :)

ugh!sometimes i hate love!really hurts.
once i started to cry cause my boyfreind
kissed another girl...:(

i know cinta dose hurt and yes u can be still in love

Sometimes cinta can hurt because anda feel bad
things and anda cinta the person so much, anda don't
understand how to deal atau control the things you
feel for them.
Of course anda can still cinta even when you're
hurt. If anda really cinta the person, anda can live
and get through really tough times anda experience
and still love.

cinta hurts. Period. But cinta can happen anyway, that's what makes it wonderful.

Yes anda can still cinta and hurt at the same time. But get the hurt out of you, because it is not good 4 u. oleh your problem, something serious is keeping u from living. But their's always hope and u will cinta again.

There're so many reasons why cinta hurts. First of all: When anda cinta someone and he/she dosen't cinta anda back.
The detik most painful thing in cinta when your lover goes with an other boy/girl and lies about it.
The third is the break-up. When anda don't think anyone but him/her and cries very much.

I was in cinta but I didn't feel any of these options.

cinta hurts when anda cinta someone but they can not atau will not cinta anda back.

anyone can do anything but it is hard to cinta again after anda have been hurt

cinta is a mixture of alot of things and one of them is hurt and pain if u want to expirence cinta then u have to go trough the pain cinta gives u............ yes u can be in pain and still cinta that is only called true cinta if u forget ur cinta becoz its too painfull then u cant call it love...

cinta does hurt and u feel that pain in ur jantung until u find someone new

Of course anda can hurt and be hurt and still Love. (example: My family: time & time again have hurt me.)The resilience of cinta to still be able to Forgive (even if maybe they do not deserve at all) and to cinta no matter what is the miracle of LOVE. :)

and Thank God!

no idea..never dated before!!!

Hard times.. Hard struggles.. Broken trust.. Broken hopes..
Is what happens in relationship.
And sometimes, it's just too much to continue..
Breaking down.. Giving in.. Giving up..
But we still want them in our life, so we tried to not cut, to not leave.. To conquering "Misunderstanding" and To cinta them still..
Because anda both know... anda never gonna be strong without each other!
Tommorow wouldn't be worth to wait!
and anda neither living nor dead without them!
anda will give them power to destroy you, but..
anda trust them once again... not to tampil u How painful cinta can be!

Yeah one can be hurt and cinta again coz lost cinta must be forgotten no matter how hard it may appear

Y dose living zones one hurts so bad

true cinta doesn't hurt, it breaks down barriers, and it can change many things, if we are willing to listen to your heart. im glad u r able to forgive, as u try to mend ur jantung , but it obviously wasn't ment to b , n u r very wise to have made the positive step, the mature step * so try not to think too much, have some time for u, go out with friends, buy urself something, give ur self a new hairdo. true cinta is being strong enough to b able to let it , atau them go, it may hurt like no tomo, but if it was true cinta it will b back, but u will b wiser. a holiday may b on the cards. for cinta takes a lot of work, but from two, that are equal, cinta is a language all of its own, true cinta no words r req, it clicks, so stand proud, your jantung does know love. with luck u will find ur soul mate, but let the past go.u r strong enough to let it go, so blooming well done, proud of anda * peace be with you)