Ummm... Im kinda embarrased to ask this but... here it goes...

honey, anda are not alone. masturbation is better and safer than sex and the best part is anda can deal with it oleh yourself. wait till anda have some time alone atau a time when anda know nobody will disturb you, and take some time to explore what feels right for you. if anda don't feel comfortable talking to your parents, then don't. it's honestly none of their business if self pleasure is all your doing. i also had the same problem.(i'm 16 & a girl myself) i just decided to take care of it myself and not talk to my parents because like you, i don't want them to look at me differently. (plus it'd be awkward to sit in the same room with them after them knowing.) hope this helps. anda can talk to me if anda have any pertanyaan you'd like to ask :)

anda should take her advice. Try pleasuring yourself.

hey dear<3 I think the first thing that anda have to know, is that there's nothing embarrasing atau wrong about what anda told. I think we all go through those kinda feelings sometimes. If anda don't feel comfortable with talking about this with your parents, then don't. But i think your parents at some point have to understand that you're not a little girl anymore and maybe it would make them just happy to see that you're able to talk about these things with them. But don't do anything that doesn't feel good for you.
I think anda could try masturbating. Y'know it's totally normal, most of people do it. Just try it out, listen to your body. anda have nothing to lose, and if anda enjoy it(which i think anda will), then the problem's solved! If anda have something else to ask atau talk about, I'll be here happy to help you:) I hope this helped a little.

anda can also use serious meditation to find out (WHY) anda are having these urges and yes there is nothing weird about anda but before anda indulge in what in playing with yourself understand and mentally control your urges PEACE

It IS natural. anda do not have to dicuss it [with anyone]. I think it took me awhile before I was okay with talking about any of my private life, and I was much older. Just know that your friends probably all do it too. Some bloom a little earlier than others, some a little later- same basic urges.

so do i, but masterbration is the only way, it not gross like those peppy girls say, it human nature, we use to do it as little childern, anyway it not very gross atau wrong,