What has surprised anda the most about sex?

Besides how over-hyped it is, not much really about intercourse surprises me. I do think how many calories are burned during sex is a little interesting.

I have yet to get that far but recently I turned on my man for the first time and was so surprised when I did because all we were doing was ciuman nothing more. It also surprised me how doing that to him made me feel. For some reason its all been something I have thought about but never really needed to do myself with someone, yes on my own fine but the need to do it with someone has never really been there until well may be now and that's where I have a number of dilemma's which I have to work through. Life is so complicated sometimes.

The fact that literally anything and anyone can be a fetish.

I was astounded oleh the vast infinite amount of fetishes that are possible.