Is Debbie really as bad as she seems

I know she left the kids and took the money but Michael was the one who told her he didn't want her in their lives. anda may be saying SO she still left them she could of stayed. DO u really think Michael wouldn't fight 4 custody over them and 75% of the time the mother always gets custody and becuz of the 1992 incident Michael could be seen as a unfit father b4 the judge so think about it if Debbie hadn't left Prince and Paris wuldn't have turned out as good as they did so should we really be puttin all of the blame on Debbie though I'd never want her to get hold of the kids it sumthin ta think about