Hello,
If a shy guy does the following he definitely have a crush on you:
1. Looks at anda when anda are not looking (looks away when anda look at him)
2. Doesn't talk to anda when with your friends
3. When trying to initiate converstaion, asks dead end pertanyaan -
e.g "Did anda do your homework?" instead of "How did anda get on with your homework?"
4. Ignores anda -
This is the most misinterpereted. If he completely ignores anda in a public setting he likes you.
If he converses with anda and politly excuses himself in a hurry with no real reason he doesn't like you.
5. If he puts anda on the spot when conversing with his friends he likes you.
6. If anda flirt with each other via text/ msn etc frequently and anda agree to go on a tanggal and he suddenly stops texting/msn'ing he is too shy/scared atau broke. He still likes anda but will be embaressed from then on.
7. If he flirts with anda via eye contact, anda approach him and he says very little but has no intention of ending the converstation, he likes you.
8. If he has known anda for a long period of time and is now randomly initiating conversation with anda when it is not required (ie. group work in school etc), he likes you.
9. If anda casually mention your boyfriend and he takes longer than usual to reply atau add on to the conversation, he likes you.
10. If anda think anda are polar opposites and he keeps initiating conversation with you, he likes you.
11. If he acts different towards anda than anybody else, even guys lol, he likes you.
How do anda let him know to make a move:
1. Give a subtle/cheeky smile and a quick/little wave - if he doesn't act on it he is definitely not interested
2. Ask of his future plans (ie. for the weekend etc) and when he is free. If he responds using the word "nothing", he is interested. All anda have to say is "me too" with an awkward silence after, he should ask anda out.
3. Initiate conversation when no other friends are around. With no pressure he should talk freely. A simple "Hey. It's freezing/roasting today isn't it?" should do the trick.
anda should also know:
1. Shy guys don't reject girls harshly, we would rather make up a polite excuse as to why we would not go out with her.
So to conclude, I hople this helps girls that are unsure about us. The best saran I can give is approach us when there are no peers around.
C ya.