Lately on Fanpop, I've been noticing a lot of people wondering if they are gay atau bisexual, in particular. They ask if certain behaviors atau feelings they have make them gay atau bi.
But really, asking other people to tell anda whether atau not anda are gay atau straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what anda do every day. It's up to anda to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves anda feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered oleh you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who anda are. Don't let anyone convince anda that anda should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on anda and tell anda who anda are! Only anda know how anda feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, atau anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay atau straight. Many struggle with it for years atau even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled atau are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, oleh no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this artikel has helped anda discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who anda are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, atau anything else!
But really, asking other people to tell anda whether atau not anda are gay atau straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what anda do every day. It's up to anda to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves anda feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered oleh you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who anda are. Don't let anyone convince anda that anda should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on anda and tell anda who anda are! Only anda know how anda feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, atau anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay atau straight. Many struggle with it for years atau even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled atau are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, oleh no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this artikel has helped anda discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who anda are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, atau anything else!