putri disney Article: I am thinking about leaving

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posted by disneyfan500

I am thinking about leaving. I don't know. I haven't been on here very long and I am already getting sick of this site. I cinta the disney princesses (disney in general)and it's something I cinta to devote my spare time too but I feel like people on this site are really judgemental and have a hard time accepting people. I never have felt welcome when I joined this site and that is something a lot of people talk about on here, how they had felt welcome when they first joined. I feel like anda have to have a certain personality to be accepted. Does that make sence? And if anda don't have that certain personality, people are going to be lebih harsh on you. I guess anda could say I feel left out a little bit. With my games, picks, articles, ect... I feel like I annoy people on this site lebih than I bring joy to people on this site. When I komentar and write out my reasoning for why I think that and than someone else picks the same answer and writes out a reasoning that is basically the same as mine, the third person atau whatever will write a komentar that say I agree with so and so instead of mine even though there komentar had the exact same meaning as mine. That had happened numerous times and it is starting to drive me crazy. I know I am not as creative as some people but it is always the same 5 people who participate in my stuff. And I do appreciate everyone that participates but I would like new people to participate too. I want to get to know everyone. If it wasn't for sunnyson, DreamyGal, percyandpotter, Mongoose09, and Maria7Potter, I probably wouldn't even be here anymore. They are what keeps me contributing. I don't want to waste my time contributing when my stuff is just going to get ignored. anda know what I mean? I was leary about menulis an artikel about this because I have a feeling it is just going to get ignored atau just read and no comments. And to me that is people just not caring. So why bother? Ya know? And on puncak, atas of all that fancysparkle comes along and makes everything worse and hypes everyone up and makes them even lebih leary. I don't know what else to say. If your going to komentar please just don't komentar about fancysparkle, please komentar on what anda think about how I feel too. Thanks for letting me vent.

P.S. I know the pictures don't really go with the artikel but I wanted to post pictures and actually not take the time to find pictures that actually go with the article.

PrueFever, Chatleen and 4 others like this

sumerjoy11 Awww im sorry to hear that.

disneyfan500 ^ I haven't officially decided yet. I am at least going to stay a few more days and see how things go. :)

ppv Ohhh, I don't know what to say, honestly. I think people wait too much from this spot. Look at another Fanpop spots. A lot of them are not so active, and friendly as this one. I think we're actually a good team. The less we are waiting from others, the more we will be satisfied, I think. And you know, I didn't feel welcomed for some months when I joined the spot. It's normal. I remember my first pick. About who is the most favourite out of my top 3 (Belle, Cinderella, Aurora). I felt so stupid, because not all comments were too friendly. Then I first said I didn't think Mulan and Pocahontas were beautiful. And here comments were not nice at all. Even now, when I'm far from being a newbie, I still think that people could be more nice toward me. LOL. More over, after this great amount of trolls, rigging extra-profiles we are cautious about new people, I admit. So please, don't leave. Well, I don't insist, it's up to you. But where will you share your love to Disney Princesses???

ppv Oh and you're already a dedicated fan!!! Do you know how long have some people to wait? ANd you became so soon!

Selena_Gomez18 I am sorry about that :( Maybe there is a club for Disney Princess lovers, you could try searching for one :)

ppv ^wow, I love such users... She joined Fanpop for posting THIS COMMENT! And she is sorry. About what?

disneyfan500 ^ I honestly don't know. That is why I joined this site in the first place. But I honestly didn't think it would be like this either. I want it to be enjoyable just like everyone else does. I just feel like I contribute a lot and don't get the credit like everyone else does that contributes a lot, even the other new people that contribute a lot, I feel like get more credit than I do. That is why I think you have to have a certain personality to fit in.

ppv ^If you have a medal, it means fans have fanned your stuff, and it means they enjoy it.

ppgbelle4 I'm sorry, disneyfan500. (hugs tight) I really am sorry. You do contribute a lot and are a very nice person. I just haven't been on a few days because well...you know. XD But you have done so much in a little time, and people recognize that. I know you still feel awkward because you are new, but I see you as one of the family...seriously. :)

CuteDiana well, i'm really sorry you feel that way, i think every one here felt outcast when they first came here, i still feel like that. but like ppv said, this spot is one of the most active spots in fanpop, and about people being nice, i feel it's VERY normal, some are being rude ([I]sometimes[/I]), but overall it pretty normal, at least i think it is, if someone for example said '[I] i don't like Snow White, she's too nice for my taste[/I] ' do you consider that not nice ? it's just their opinion. i say think about it and don't leave this spot ^^

disneyfan500 I don't take people say stuff like "I don't like Snow White because she is to nice" is rude at all. I disagree with everyone most of the time when it comes to opinion because I am in the minority. Opinions are opinions and I respect that.

disneyfan500 And thanks everyone who have commented so far it means a lot. I do have to say, this site is fun, but a lot of drama and harshness comes along with it. I guess some of it is me though. I am not a harsh person. It bugs me when I think I hurt someones feelings. So I feel extra bothered when it happens to me. When I see other people hurting someones elses feelings it bugs me because I feel super sorry for the person that is getting bothered. Does that make sence?

firegirl1515 @disneyfan500: It makes total sense. I'm actually a lot like that too. You just happened to come on the site at a time when I was forced to be an angry jerk. I totally understand. I don't participate in your games because I don't really participate in any games anymore, and I suppose I'll comment on your picks more if it helps (I always participate in your picks, I just don't comment often 'cause they're not on subjects that I have a super-strong opinion on most of the time). I'd hate for you to leave because of something like this, but if you decide to, I'll totally get why. EDIT: Also, take a look at some of [i]MY[/i] first picks [url=http://www.fanpop.com/fans/firegirl1515/content/picks/19?category_filter=disney-princess]here[/url]. Specifically [url=http://www.fanpop.com/spots/disney-princess/picks/results/396180/countdown-day-one-which-princess-best-personality]this one[/url]. Not super well thought out, and not really nice images. You're doing a LOT better than I did when I first came here.

disneyfan500 Thanks Blaze. You don't have to comment on my picks if you don't have anything to say though. It is not a requirement lol. Seeing what everyone has to say is definately helping. I had no idea everyone felt like this when they first joined.

x-menobsessed26 I've thought about it too, but then I realized that it was more fun to devote my attention to making and answering quiz questions about the things I love and seeing how well I really know this stuff than it is to talk to people I'll probably never meet.

princesslullaby I don't really understand your article, I guess. When you refer to people criticizing something you said, it doesn't mean they hate you or they're not welcoming. But not everyone has to be super sugary sweet about disagreeing with someone. When I commented your smartest princesses article, you immediately took it as a personal attack, when all I was trying to explain was what I didn't understand so you could tell me better what you meant. As for your games, its the same for EVERYONE. Only the same people can participate in your contests because maybe some people don't want to participate in the games and contests, they only like the picks. You can't take it as a personal offense. The same 6 or so people only participate in my icon contests too, because they're the only people who like to make icons. It's the same, people have different interests, you can't expect people to be interested in everything. I hope you don't leave, though. I think people are getting too easily offended by things on this site. Try to look at it from the other person's point of view when you feel you're being attacked. I do agree it's a hard group to break into when you're new, but I guess that's good, because we have high standards :)

disneyfan500 I am going to give it more time and see how it goes. I really don't want to leave. Reading everyone elses comments did help and I agree maybe I am taking it a little to personally. I am just not that type of person at all and that is a major part of it. Hopefully in time things will change and I won't feel like this over silly things. Opinions though have never bothered me.

percyandpotter Please don't leave! You help the mood of the site a lot, you probably have the most postive attitude. Plus, you're nice! Unlike PrueFever and others I won't mention. I understand your reasons, but just give it a little more time. And thanks for listing me. *big squishy hug*

lepetitsouris No one on here except for maybe a few users intentionally try to put someone down. Most of us are very opinionated and we like to debate; this can lead to arguments and misunderstandings. Honestly, when I first joined, no one was welcoming to me either. People really just ignored me and I felt like a nobody. New users come so often that we don't give big welcomes... especially if those users are active only one time per month. On another note, I really hope you stay; you obvious make good contributions to the spot, and it wouldn't be the same if you left. You're a regular now so don't leave :/

madisonsavanna I agree with lepetitsouris. When I first joined, I didn't feel welcomed either, I felt like nobody really liked me. Once you're on the spot for a while, those feelings begin to go away. I really hope you stay, I really like you and you make great contributions. :)

hindaa I agree with u, I kinda felt the same when I first joined ( a year ago) but I didn't care. there's a lot of people in this club and it's hard to stand up among them and show yourself, and I realized after a while that I can't welcome everyone who comes in here because they r waaaaaaay too many, so it's not about u believe me, everyone new feels the same. I would feel sad if u left, u r part of this spot, I like ur contributions. I never thought that they r annoying or boring. :)

JonnaSe Oh, Im sorry you feel like that. If I have done anything Im really sorry! But we need you here, you are very active on this site! I mean you have done more picks and articles on a month than I have done on 6! Plus we need a follow Snow White lover (there isn´t that many of us here I think, lol).

kitkat604 I'm so sorry I'm new here too if that makes you feel better