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Deans_Girl said:
I dont want to sound asuming, but if anda have had sex with him. afterwards I find my partner is always lebih open to emotional talk, so if anda have done the deed, this is a good time to bring it up. Bu do it gently, dont go all "SHARE YOUR FEELINGS!" on him that will scare the shit out of him, if there is something in particular anda want to know just ask him gently. for instance my boyfriend is a sucker for the eye flicker (you do it, believe me, anda just dont realize) so when i want to ask him somthing, like i berkata after sex, ill just snuggle up into him and when its quiet, dont pindah and dont look at him just yet, just ask "do anda ever think about our future together?" and i tend to add on a non asuming bit on the end like "if anda think we have one" then after a short pause ill lean up and look at him in the eyes and do the eye flicker, looking really quickly between both eyes. if he doesnt answer quickly, go back to snuggling and be silent. This will eventually work atau else anda have a man of steel.
HOWEVER, if anda have not had sex with him. DO NOT just so that anda can do this. Just watch a movie in tempat tidur with him atau something similar (a cute movie not a horror), then at some point pause it snuggle into him, he may even ask whats up then follow on like i suggested before.
Hope this works for anda as men are hard nutshells to crack
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