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Someone once berkata that Bonnie was responsible for grams death, is this true?
Scene 1 (Grams house) 1x14

Elena - "We need to let him have Katherine back. He's not gonna stop until he gets her, if we help him maybe that ends it."
Bonnie - "No he doesn't deserve to get what he wants."
Elena - "What other choice do we have."
Graham -" ...... I'll open the tomb, anda get your brothers girl and destroy the rest with fire. Then this will be all over."

Fact 1 Bonnie didn't want to help.
Fact 2 Grams agreed that she would open the tomb, with no influence from Bonnie.

Scene 2 (The Tomb)

After the tomb was opened,...

I’m I the only one who DOESN’T believe Stefan was in the old witch house basement because he had some intention to kill/turn Bonnie?

I mean I get we didn’t exactly see a visible trail of breadcrumbs between the Salvatore bro car scene to the point Stefan materialized in front of Bonnie to let us know exactly what went down; and I know “It’s STEFAN!” won’t suffice as explanation for my feeling differently. That said…I personally caught some pretty clear indication that his plan did NOT comprise of killing/turning Bonnie.

I valued the fact that Stefan (when they were in the boarding...