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I m a 24 years male and still virgin.....my problem is thinking about the sex all the time...means all the time...I masturbate daily..in morning atau evening... All big boobs attract me..color doesn't matter.. I can't concentrate now...what should I do

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sarabeara said:
Being a virgin has nothing to do with how often anda think about sex. That's entirely up to your sex drive. As for anda masturbating once a day, there's nothing unhealthy about that. And again, nothing unhealthy about being attracted to boobs.

Unless you're saying anda thinking about sex is getting in the way of your daily life...??
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Yup, I agree completely... I basically expounded upon your "What if...?" in my answer.
Cinders posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
Cinders said:
If this is affecting your daily life, then anda might want to talk to your doctor atau therapist about it and see if anda can get a referral to a support group atau specialist for sex addiction.

When I say that, I mean that every woman with a bust size anda come across has anda thinking about sex, and anda can't concentrate on anything else, atau treat her as a person and interact with her normally without getting aroused.

I do not mean the passing thought of, "She's hot," and moving on with the conversation and the rest of your day. If anda go halaman awal and think about her later, that's your business, and also normal.

If thinking about sex is interfering with your life in a big way, that's a problem.

Otherwise, anda sound like a healthy twenty-four-year-old to me. And don't worry about being a virgin. I was a virgin at twenty-four, too. No shame in that.

Remember to treat everyone anda meet with respect. Women (and men) are very sexy, but they're also human beings. Not that you're not doing that, but it's always a good thing to remember, especially in a spot like this.
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but some people say...masturbation is a bad habit..or it is unhealthy... is this true??...... is proustite good to loose virginity..or should i wait for the right one..??
loader000 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Unless prostitution is legal where anda live, I would not consider that for an option just yet. Masturbation is not a bad habit, and has no negative side-affects. In fact, it may even have some health benefits, but nothing conclusive on that. The ONLY time it would be dangerous is if it is interfering with your everyday regular life. Otherwise, do it as much as anda feel like.
Cinders posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I understand the desire to lose your virginity. Instead of a prostitute, I'd suggest pursuing an actual relationship. If you're shy around women, try online dating. Lots of girls are shy, too. I think you'll feel better about everything if anda lose your virginity to someone anda care about. But if that really doesn't matter to anda (how anda feel about the girl), then that's cool, too. While I don't judge anyone for using an escort atau a prostitute, I also can't condone illegal behavior. Whatever anda choose to do, make sure it's within the law of your area!
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thanks cinders...i m not shy around women...but how can i directly ask ??and then i think that what will she think about me?? no atau yes...and then i reject the idea of it...now i will try online dating... but how??
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