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Abounding times in your life anda will meet mean atau rude people that anda dislike, but you'll still have to pretend to like them anyway. This artikel will teach anda all about how to deal with them.

1)Look right at them say their name and ask them politely to stop. Keep repeating until their attitude changes atau they stop. Example "Mike, please stop", atau anda can say, "That's not appreciated, please cut that out." Don't keep increasing aggressiveness until the balance of power is equalized, it just will make things worse.
2)Don't try to be better than them, it will make the situation worse. If they brag atau do something annoying, look at their facial expressions. Is their face blank and matter-of-fact, atau does it have a smirk? If it is the latter, proceed on. If it isn't, simply try to turn the conversation.

3)Take a detik to maintain your calm. After a while, anda will start doing this automatically.

4)Don't use any physical contact, anda will open yourself to a charge of assault.

5)Always be on the ready. Whenever anda are at leisure, think of some common crows that people make, and make your own polite reply.

6)Don't give them what they want oleh akting jealous. If they keep bragging, just smile and say "That's nice."

7)Act like you're lebih mature than they are.

8)Steer the conversation away to something they couldn't possibly be rude about, like the weather.

9)Avoid them if they keep on bothering you.

Always, always, always remember to keep your cool!
Don't take anything that this person says seriously.
Keep on the down-low when making replies; anda want to make polite ones, not ones that will get anda in trouble. This will give anda the impression that anda are much lebih mature, and therefore will help anda maintain your dignity!
Don't talk about them behind their back just in case they were sent oleh the rude person to spy on you.

The person may not like anda very much after this!
Some people genuinely don't realize they're being rude. They may not have learned certain social skills. In case anda have encountered someone like this, anda may want to politely inform that they have been rude. You'll generally get an apology straight away. If not, it may just take patience!
If a rude person takes anda saying that they are rude the wrong way, atau just brush it off, keep on reminding them that they are being rude. If they just ignore it, then don't talk to them much because anda will know they are mean.

Patience
Common sense
Snappy but polite comebacks (none of which are listed here)
An extra set of clothes just in case they do something mean like spill food on anda atau dump water on anda
First two points only, these alone will get anda through if anda can bite your tongue and not rise to the persons remarks atau actions. I myself am not quite so patient and sometimes can have a lapse of common sense when in this kind of situation, I prefer to hit them with something blunt and hard until they stop speaking, moving, any general annoyance.
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posted by misscrazel
Hi!^-^ I wanted to post the beginning of my story and please tell me what anda think!^-^

Cupid's POV

I sit in my house, slumped at my desk, staring at the flickering candle on my windowsill. Firelight dances across the walls, casting eerie shadows. Cold air blows through the open window, causing the curtains to flutter and the candle to go out. Leaving me alone in the dark, empty room.
What is my purpose in life? Making people fall in love? I don't even know what I'm here for anymore. Rain trickles through the window.
'You're alone too, aren't you?' I ask. Every time there's a storm I talk to her....
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posted by misscrazel
                One: Pike
I scrambled out my bedroom window. I slid down the gutter and scampered down the street. 
    Soon I arrived at a small brick house. Hurrying over to a bedroom window I  tapped on it lightly. Moments later a girl's face peered up. Her brown eyes sparkled in the moonlight. 
    I smiled and beckoned. After awhile she stepped outside onto the cement porch. 
"I missed you, Penelope." I said 
"I missed anda to, Pike." She said 
    Penelope-Rose walked over and kissed me. 
"I found somewhere," I said, "somewhere we could be alone."
"Take me there." berkata Penelope-Rose. ...
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7:00 AM.Today was the day!I ran outside.A small kupu-kupu rests on a tiny plant.I try to catch all of them.Then,I stood frozen.It was there.A Blue jay.I haven't seen one since I was 5.I tried to get a picture.It flew away."Dang."I said.I looked at the bunga on my shirt.Light yellow and purple flowers.I couldn't believe it.School was out.Finally!I followed the clouds to a path.A long path.I stood on the concrete.Shoes in hand.Barefoot steps.I followed the path.Then I saw them.Both of them.
Alicia and Henry.
"Guys?What are anda doing?"I asked.
"Sh!Come on."Alicia beckoned me.
I saw the door.We went...
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A long cave.I was strolling down with my sword in my sword in my hand.Then,TAP TAP!Ariana stood at the front of the cave.Then,she held up her hand,then instantly the sword flew out of my hand.
"Well,well,well.If it isn't little miss-she-can-defeat-me!Ha ha!WRONG!"Ariana's large voice echoed through out the cave.I ran to her.Little did I know.
She had her sword in her hands.
I fell to the ground holding my aching knee.
"Ha ha ha!You fail!Give up,Sarah.I have Maybelle.You're alone.And you're hopeless.Give...Up."She berkata slowly.
She walked toward the hut Maybelle was in.
I instantly dropped to the ground.I...
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"Hey,Joan.It's Sam.Call me back...when ever...Or sooner.I've been calling for...an hour.So,call me!"Said Sam as she left a voice mail for her friend,Joan.She started to get worried.Joan hasn't called her in a week!She wondered if she should go over to her house,And she did.When she knocked on the door,She heard footsteps.Running,Footsteps."Joan.Joan!Joan?"She repeated."Sh!"She heard come from the peep hole.Sam looked inside the hole.She saw a head peek up,A small head."JOAN!"Sam yelled.Nothing,No sound,Nothing."JOAN!I KNOW YOU'RE IN THERE!"Sam Yelled."Hey girls!"Joan's mom said."Who's at the...
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posted by samuraibond005
I never really had a life as a kid, I was brought up to lead and to fight, I was never allowed to play with little toy trains atau dolls. I learned to shoot with a large combat senapan rather than a bb gun, I learned swordsmanship with a live blade, not a wooden one, atau even a stick when I was really young.
As a result of my lack of childhood and my desire to get it back, I met a young boy oleh the name of Jitsa, he was 8, he loved going out in the woods and hunting with his bb gun, he loved going halaman awal afterwards and playing with his little electric trains. I would play with him, though I brought...
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