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Um I have a situation

Now I've been liking this boy. and my friend told him in front of EVERYONE! I have these options:

Kill her
Tell her crush she likes him in front of everyone
Ignore her
Ignore the problem
Be friends
Kill her

I meant to put kill her 2 times
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if anda do kill her i'm not giving saran on how to get rid of the body
kittykazami posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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lol
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Shadowmarioking said:
putting "kill her" as an option just tells me how immaturely you're looking at the situation and how you're not thinking why she did this. you're thinking in the retrospect "why did my friend have to backstab me like that just because i tell her this doesn't mean she has to blab about it"

lemme put this in a point of view anda can understand. it may not be a good view, but i feel the need to drill it in your head
you're the one who told her about this crush. anda disclosed this information to her, and if anda didn't want her to say anything, why didn't anda tell that to her?"
now, i'm not saying anda didn't. i don't know if anda did. i'm also not saying that this is your fault. it is something to keep in mind though.

telling her crush she likes him will NOT SOLVE ANYTHING, AND WILL PROBABLY COST anda A FRIEND. REVENGE, atau PAYBACK OF ANY SORT WILL NOT HELP YOU. IT IS A CHILDISH RESORT. just, no.

ignoring the problem will not make it go away. it will still be there, and it will lurk in your mind for as long as possible. ignorance may be bliss, but there are some situations where it doesn't apply. she may take your ignorance in a negative connotation.

being friends is optional with the boy (if that's what you're referring to), but only if anda feel comfortable with it.

i suggest anda tell your friend that anda didn't want her to tell everyone about it, and that personal information like this is meant to be kept between friends, not become some petty gossip story. as for the boy, anda could probably konfirmasi the feelings anda have for him, but in reality what anda do is up to you.

anda could easily ignore everything i said, that's fine. in reality, anda control what happens next. i'm just giving anda different tampilan so that anda can choose your path carefully
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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anda have no idea how much my wrists hurt after typing this just ow.
Shadowmarioking posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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How is it my fault for trusting my friend enough to tell her a secret
FanFun1010 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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" i'm also not saying that this is your fault" did anda not read that atau
Shadowmarioking posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
kittykazami said:
ignore the problem and pretend it's not awkward. it only makes it worse if anda make a big deal out of it.
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Its hard. I feel betrayed
FanFun1010 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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well if anda really wanna do something anda can completely over react and enjoy the drama
kittykazami posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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but that tends to not end so well
kittykazami posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
legend_of_roxas said:
Well maybe your friend didn't mean to make anda feel embarrassed oleh her telling your crush that anda like him, she might have wanted to let him know so anda wouldn't have to tell him. I think anda should ignore the problem atau try to tell her that anda didn't like what she did....but I'm guessing that anda two aren't very good friends anyway if anda want to kill her so badly....
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Are anda saying I should kill her atau not?
FanFun1010 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I just told you, ignore the problem atau tell her that anda don't like what she did and solve the problem
legend_of_roxas posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Don't need to kill her, jeez -.-
legend_of_roxas posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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just asking
FanFun1010 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Why is this such a big deal?

I mean, he now knows anda like him right?

I'd just forget the problem, because it doesn't really seem like one.

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I wish anda were a girl
FanFun1010 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I am a girl e_e
XxKeithHarkinxX posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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kitty I wasn't talking to anda
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AmyRosefan4eva said:
anda choose what anda think is right/needs to be done. Just know you'll go to jail if anda kill her. ^-^
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egyptprincess7 said:
anda can choose whichever anda think is right. I personally would just ignore the problem and not make a big deal out of it and I would not kill her. She's your friend,sure she told him anda liked him in front of everybody but anda can simply ignore her for a bit until she realizes she shouldn't have done that. Deciding to kill her is taking things way too far and will just make lebih problems.
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adultswimperson said:
Why do anda care so much about the problem if it's already been berkata in front of people?
Having fear of something anda think is not okay isn't a bad thing, if anda want to set things right then do it.
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Because telling someone not to do something and they do it anyway IN FRONT OF PEOPLE!
FanFun1010 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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@FanFun: Ignore the problem and don't let it get anda down.
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springely said:
All of the above.
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cyrus498 said:
Well did this boy accept you?
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He didn't say anything
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