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Shadowmarioking said:
putting "kill her" as an option just tells me how immaturely you're looking at the situation and how you're not thinking why she did this. you're thinking in the retrospect "why did my friend have to backstab me like that just because i tell her this doesn't mean she has to blab about it" lemme put this in a point of view anda can understand. it may not be a good view, but i feel the need to drill it in your head you're the one who told her about this crush. anda disclosed this information to her, and if anda didn't want her to say anything, why didn't anda tell that to her?" now, i'm not saying anda didn't. i don't know if anda did. i'm also not saying that this is your fault. it is something to keep in mind though. telling her crush she likes him will NOT SOLVE ANYTHING, AND WILL PROBABLY COST anda A FRIEND. REVENGE, atau PAYBACK OF ANY SORT WILL NOT HELP YOU. IT IS A CHILDISH RESORT. just, no. ignoring the problem will not make it go away. it will still be there, and it will lurk in your mind for as long as possible. ignorance may be bliss, but there are some situations where it doesn't apply. she may take your ignorance in a negative connotation. being friends is optional with the boy (if that's what you're referring to), but only if anda feel comfortable with it. i suggest anda tell your friend that anda didn't want her to tell everyone about it, and that personal information like this is meant to be kept between friends, not become some petty gossip story. as for the boy, anda could probably konfirmasi the feelings anda have for him, but in reality what anda do is up to you. anda could easily ignore everything i said, that's fine. in reality, anda control what happens next. i'm just giving anda different tampilan so that anda can choose your path carefully
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