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Please, please help me...

Okay. I am in eight grade right now, and in sixth grade, I fell in cinta with a guy. But I made an awful mistake. I told him, he told the whole school, and now I can't even talk to him without getting nervous out of my mind. I still like him and its been two years. Everyone calls me "obsessed". I'm so, so, so sick of it does ANYONE know what I can do to get over him? Don't give the usual "oh don't think about him" atau "like another guy" crap. I need real saran PLEASE its ruining my life.
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a lot like my situation only mines not as long
hontwilightfan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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It's also like my situation, except I never got the guts to tell the guy I like him. I'm glad I didn't, because he doesn't like me... so it's kind of a win-lose situation. Anyways. I'm not sure what to say about your situation... Good job on having the guts to say that anda like him to his face, even if that's what ruined your life. The people who are calling anda obsessed are wrong. It's hard to get over a crush. !! Idea randomness. I'll post it as an answer. =)
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roseteaxx said:
I totally understand how anda feel (I'm going through something similar, so beruang with me...)

anda may not like it, but I think you're just going to have to wait for it to pass. This guy sounds like a jerk. I think anda understand that. I know it's so easy to say that, to say "he's a jerk, and I don't need that, so I'll just like someone else." But it's not that easy in reality. In real life, anda can't always change the way anda feel. It's really annoying right now, but do not worry. anda eventually will find another guy to like, and hopefully, this one will be far lebih decent.

As for the rest of the school, don't worry about them. Middle school is the time when anda care most about what others think of you. But remember; anda don't need their approval. They're calling anda obsessed, and if they are bugging anda over it, remind yourself that they aren't the ones anda need approval from. Like Dr. Seuss's famous quote goes, "Be who anda are and say what anda feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."

Like I said, I know it's so much easier berkata than done. But have confidence. anda will get past it eventually. It's just a phase. (And if anda are really desperate at some point, it sometimes helps me to find something I really, really cinta (for me it's Harry Potter, but for anda it may be something different) and focus on that for a while.)
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allieclark123 said:
this has happened to me and i didnt get over him till my boyfriend came along and told me he loved for who i was and tht he would never brake my heart!! ik anda dont want to hear this but go for someone else tht like u for who U R not for wht anda can be!!!! srry if this didnt help!!! GOOD LUCK!!:(
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writer67 said:
geepers his loss, as now anda can see how mature he really is, but so too can the whole shcool, who else heard anda say those words, i bet there was lebih said. he had a treasure before him and he could have had more. i hope anda have woken up to him, for he isnt a real person , very immature, and anda cinta someone , jeepers, what did he do for that, he didnt save your life. and anda still havent got over him. jeepers, ok sleep tonight where your feet normally go, and if u havent changed feelings , u may need asprin and a call to the doctor, lol. but rememember the crap. if anda had been stuck somewhere he would not rescue u, hed run and save himself, atau go look for an umbrella. but do something for yourself at the end of the week . reward yourself for the hard work u have put into ur studies, change a little something of you,clothes , hair, bag, scent,hat,ribbons,mohawk, and become stronger. dont jump into the deep end again unless u check the water, and do ur homework. ud like. but u never know what is hidden. u r obssed in finding cinta for its waht we all look for in our journey of life, he will never quite get there, for he loves his own reflection, and others block his view, and if u cant still get over him, watch out as u may trip over his umbrella. u made no mistake, u had words changed, u picked the wrong guy to like. now back to work your future there will be time for that, when anda become powerful and rich from your smarts of awesome paying job of LOVE;-]
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this helped ME! lol xxx
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tdacrazy6 said:
That happened to me, too. It's not the best situation. I ignored it though. They berkata I was obsessed even though I just confessed. All I berkata was, at least I had the guts to tell him. I didn't get made of (besides my brother)
This all started because anda decided to confess. I think anda should talk with him.
I did that, too. If he says don't talk to him atau people call anda obsessed, demand to talk to him. Hope this helps ^w^
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shivers-zimmy said:
I would listen to the first 4 who answered this question. But I'm going to tell anda something that they forgot to mention.

Maybe he likes you. In 6th grade most boys care about sports and video games. Most don't give a damn for girls. Have anda ever considered that anda were the 1st girl to actually like him and he freaked out because his life wasn't ready for a relationship?

If he's still a jerk to you, he may still actually like you. Most guys don't fully mature until about 40. So he still thinks that being mean is flirting. With that berkata though, he's still not ready for a relationship with anda yet. He's still immature and maybe one hari he'll grow up. But while waiting around, I suggest getting some real relationship time with someone else. If it was meant to be, he'll come around. I know, it hurts. But trust me it's worth it.

If he's nice to anda now, forgive him for what happened two years ago. And why not remind him of your feelings without bluntly telling him? Charm him into liking you. And if anda end up getting him, to hell with the people that call anda obsessed. If anda don't, at least anda know anda tried. And in the end, you'll cinta knowing anda went after it instead of backing down.

All My Best Luck~
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purpledemigod said:
I was membaca another pertanyaan before yours: MarMar_XigLux's pertanyaan about her imagining a perfect guy. anda gave an answer saying that anda did that too. Maybe anda can use that to take your attention away from the guy that anda like.
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