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What to do??? Need Advice..Help??

okay umm this is kinda long, but umm yea.. thers this guy who likes me right and im finally told that he likes me, but i didnt feel the same way but anda know i thought he was ovver me but he dated my best friend and finally i kinda feel the same way,(like anda know when someone likes anda and anda dont like them back but anda know that person likes anda and anda start to grow feeling for that person, thats whats happening here) but hes still going out with my best friend but i tell him i like him and he still feels the same way, so after a while my freind fights with him and me just because i hang out with him sometimes, and she gets jealous because she knew he likes me and started telling me stuff and they both get into fights sometimes over me, so she breaks up with him and he asks me out so i say yes and my friend finds out, and give me these guilty threats so i break up with him the selanjutnya hari , and i tell him becasue shes giving suidice thoughts and i dont wana hurt myself again* but know i think i wana get back together with him.... shud i????
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Jillywinkles said:
Do anda understand it from your friend's point of view though? You'd berkata anda didn't want him, and she did, and once she had him anda take him from her. She feels betrayed oleh you, and probably insecure that her boyfriend doesn't really like her.

In all honesty anda shouldn't have told him how anda felt when he was with her, it was kind of stealing.

All anda can do at this point is pick one, your friend atau your guy. What I'd do is this: go to your friend first, find a good time to talk with her and appologize, say how anda feel, and say that anda want to make up with her. It's a mess but if anda can make up with your friend, it will be better. If anda guys are on good terms, maybe with time she can forgive anda enough to let anda go out with him.
anda can do that, atau anda can pick the guy instead and go with him. It just depends on how much anda care for either person. Unless she can forgive you, anda may not be able to have both.

But basically the situation is that anda both like the same guy, so it's hard for people not to get hurt.
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scogburn said:
It's IMPORTANT that anda do not ever have suicidal thoughts over a relationship. If anda are, find someone anda can trust to talk to about this.

It's sticky when anda like the same guy as a friend. You're going to have to decide who means lebih to anda and how long have anda and this girl been friends? If a long time, anda might not want to lose her. Sometimes, your girlfriends will stick oleh anda when guys won't. If she can forgive anda and put it behind both of you, then anda can pindah meneruskan, ke depan in your friendship, but I don't think anda two need to like the same guy.
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