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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Not to minimize how really uncomfortable it is for you, I am sure it is awkward, as sometimes hearing others can be ESPECIALLY thinking of your own folks in that capacity but I am going to try to pose some pertanyaan for ya from another vantage to maybe consider & maybe it will help. Okay? How do anda think anda were born? anda were not a test tube baby atau a clone atau adopted? Then there is something- conception and maybe it is "love" because they ARE STILL married. Be grateful. Be grateful that your parents are not divorced like half the world’s population. Be grateful then that anda have your own room and are actually all the way down the hall and not Right selanjutnya door- many siblings share rooms atau are right selanjutnya door- and be grateful anda are not living in the Middle Ages where anda would all be in the SAME room and often SEE as well as hear unless anda tried hard not to. Buy some headphones - anda are 16, you're not a baby anymore and anda have probably started having your own feelings and happy times! If anda would like them to be considerate of anda and your privacy then respect them that they cinta each other enough to WANT to do that. I remember walking in on my parents at age 7. I did not really see anything, too young to understand -but somehow I did know. It was a lil scarring, but even then I quickly cast it off and just walked out and acted like no big deal and went back to tempat tidur (I got up because I had a bad dream)... but as I grew up I WISHED my parents showed affection. They did not even seem like a couple. anda being in the house... I suppose they either do not have a lot of private time, atau may only get time at night, atau they just feel inspired, but give them a break! It's natural-they NEED that time, and anda will have to man up and "buck up" as my dad would say- sorry, but really, don't make it a big deal. A lot of kids have had to deal with that - yes, even the moans and stuff... so, what else can anda do besides turn up music, go outside and sit, head phones, etc? atau give your folks some luar angkasa for Pete sake- just go outside and play with the dog. anda don't have to go ballistic atau cry, omg, atau go do drugs and stupid shit... just be understanding like anda might want someday... go do something productive that is a lil independent, even if just outside helping with chores, atau make a garden, build something, listen to music, really Sweetie. JEEZ!
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