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I keep hearing my parents having sex and it's freaking me out

I'm 16, and my parents have this really bad habit of doing it while I'm in the house. My bedroom is just down the hall from theirs and sometimes they do it while I'm trying to get to sleep and I can hear them making noises and it keeps me up. It doesn't help to be downstairs either because I can still hear the floor creak above me. I just can't get those disgusting gambar out of my head whenever it happens, which is at least twice a week. One time I accidentally walked in on them and I was so freaked out I started crying. I've tried to tell my mom that it makes me really uncomfortable but she just tells me that they need to do it while I'm in the house because I never leave. What should I do?
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"Bad Habit"? I guess anda do not realise how "natural" sex is yet and between a married couple -that is GREAT. I agree it on YOUr end it's hard for anda maybe to understand, and they should be decent about, but I think anda are making way too much of a normal thing people have dealt with for centuries and perhaps anda need to be understanding, atau just put headphones on to sleep on those ocassions? NOT make it a big deal. It's not some nasty criminal behavior. No one is shagging the family dog in drunken orgies infront of anda and making lewd remarks and passes at you. They are married and just once atau twice a week, I think they need and deserve AT least that.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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& sorry Twilight Girl ~ I thought anda were a "guy" until I noticed the username... but still, uncomfortable as it is, I am sure anda can do something & can accept that it is natural. Hopefully the'll be a lil lebih quiet too... atau anda turn your musik up louder.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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For the people wondering why I wasn't answering the comments: I did not "leave". I asked a question, anda all answered, I considered all your jawaban inside my head. None of anda offended me, I just didn't know some of anda wanted to be responded to. oleh the way, thank anda all for the advice.
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Not to minimize how really uncomfortable it is for you, I am sure it is awkward, as sometimes hearing others can be ESPECIALLY thinking of your own folks in that capacity but I am going to try to pose some pertanyaan for ya from another vantage to maybe consider & maybe it will help. Okay?

How do anda think anda were born? anda were not a test tube baby atau a clone atau adopted? Then there is something- conception and maybe it is "love" because they ARE STILL married. Be grateful. Be grateful that your parents are not divorced like half the world’s population. Be grateful then that anda have your own room and are actually all the way down the hall and not Right selanjutnya door- many siblings share rooms atau are right selanjutnya door- and be grateful anda are not living in the Middle Ages where anda would all be in the SAME room and often SEE as well as hear unless anda tried hard not to. Buy some headphones - anda are 16, you're not a baby anymore and anda have probably started having your own feelings and happy times! If anda would like them to be considerate of anda and your privacy then respect them that they cinta each other enough to WANT to do that. I remember walking in on my parents at age 7. I did not really see anything, too young to understand -but somehow I did know. It was a lil scarring, but even then I quickly cast it off and just walked out and acted like no big deal and went back to tempat tidur (I got up because I had a bad dream)... but as I grew up I WISHED my parents showed affection. They did not even seem like a couple. anda being in the house... I suppose they either do not have a lot of private time, atau may only get time at night, atau they just feel inspired, but give them a break! It's natural-they NEED that time, and anda will have to man up and "buck up" as my dad would say- sorry, but really, don't make it a big deal. A lot of kids have had to deal with that - yes, even the moans and stuff... so, what else can anda do besides turn up music, go outside and sit, head phones, etc?

atau give your folks some luar angkasa for Pete sake- just go outside and play with the dog. anda don't have to go ballistic atau cry, omg, atau go do drugs and stupid shit... just be understanding like anda might want someday... go do something productive that is a lil independent, even if just outside helping with chores, atau make a garden, build something, listen to music, really Sweetie. JEEZ!
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 Not to minimize how really uncomfortable it is for you, I am sure it is awkward, as sometimes hearing others can be ESPECIALLY thinking of your own folks in that capacity but I am going to try to pose some pertanyaan for ya from another vantage to maybe consider & maybe it will help. Okay? How do anda think anda were born? anda were not a test tube baby atau a clone atau adopted? Then there is something- conception and maybe it is "love" because they ARE STILL married. Be grateful. Be grateful that your parents are not divorced like half the world’s population. Be grateful then that anda have your own room and are actually all the way down the hall and not Right selanjutnya door- many siblings share rooms atau are right selanjutnya door- and be grateful anda are not living in the Middle Ages where anda would all be in the SAME room and often SEE as well as hear unless anda tried hard not to. Buy some headphones - anda are 16, you're not a baby anymore and anda have probably started having your own feelings and happy times! If anda would like them to be considerate of anda and your privacy then respect them that they cinta each other enough to WANT to do that. I remember walking in on my parents at age 7. I did not really see anything, too young to understand -but somehow I did know. It was a lil scarring, but even then I quickly cast it off and just walked out and acted like no big deal and went back to tempat tidur (I got up because I had a bad dream)... but as I grew up I WISHED my parents showed affection. They did not even seem like a couple. anda being in the house... I suppose they either do not have a lot of private time, atau may only get time at night, atau they just feel inspired, but give them a break! It's natural-they NEED that time, and anda will have to man up and "buck up" as my dad would say- sorry, but really, don't make it a big deal. A lot of kids have had to deal with that - yes, even the moans and stuff... so, what else can anda do besides turn up music, go outside and sit, head phones, etc? atau give your folks some luar angkasa for Pete sake- just go outside and play with the dog. anda don't have to go ballistic atau cry, omg, atau go do drugs and stupid shit... just be understanding like anda might want someday... go do something productive that is a lil independent, even if just outside helping with chores, atau make a garden, build something, listen to music, really Sweetie. JEEZ!
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Best answer EVER! And yes it is true parents do need their private time and yes, if your bothered oleh that then as Sinna berkata go out and play with the dog lol
DarkCruz360 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Excellent answer, and this picture totally cracks me up. I have neighbors with a large family, and I'm always wondering, how do they get the time to shag? So I'm pretty much envious of anyone who is doing the deed.
jester616 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
jester616 said:
I'm shocked your parents are still even having sex! However, while that's great for them, they should be lebih sensitive to the fact that you're around too, and are always overhearing them. Do try talking with whichever parent anda are most comfortable with, and if they have any courtesy, they should tone it down.
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Would be decent of them, and shuld, to be aware & tone it down, yes...
Sinna_Hime_chan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
Makeupdiva said:
I totally understand where your coming from. But to get away from it either talk to your parents face to face and tell them it is making anda very uncomfortable to have to listen to them at night all the time. I don't think it's right just to let anda listen to them. Call up one of your friends and go to their house for the night. atau oleh an ipod and listen to musik while falling asleep. I can understand why you're so uncomfortable, no teenager atau child should have to hear what their parents get up to at night. I hope this works out for you.
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Really? I don't think they should HAVE to leave -and if it is only once atau twice a week :/
Sinna_Hime_chan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
sesshyswind said:
Talk to them and tell them that it's a problem for you, and if they are good parents they will at least be lebih self-conscious about it and make an effort to be lebih subtle and quiet.
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I agree but at the same time at least they are married, this is not a divorced mom atau dad bringing someone halaman awal etc. ~ they are the "parents" & this is an older child.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I don't see where I suggested anything about the parents being married atau not, I just stated that they should (and I hope would) pipe it down if it's buggin the kiddies no matter how young atau old they may be. Not to do so would be indecent of them. .
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vampire2000 said:
if anda own a pc, ipod, ipad, mp3 player, just put in your ear buds and turn it up to 100. And if u own silencing head phones, put those on over your ear bud wile ur listening to the music..
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*ear buds
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sarahsnow said:
I just turned 14 and Last night my parents were having sex and I could here then almost all night. I could here moaning and I was like ewes!!!! I tired to not here the sound but it is so disturbing while trying to sleep. Also it gets me so mad when the have sex because they have no respect to the other ones in the house😤😤
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