“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” Never a truer word has been said. But before anda can begin this transformation anda have to stop doing the things that have been holding anda back. Here's a guide to how anda can do this.
1.Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants anda in their life, they’ll make room for you. anda shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand oleh your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside anda when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2.Stop running from your problems. Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every meninju, pukulan thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3.Stop lying to yourself. anda can lie to anyone else in the world, but anda can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.
4.Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that anda are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5.Stop trying to be someone you’re not. One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make anda likeeveryone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will cinta the real you.
6.Stop trying to hold onto the past. anda can’t start the selanjutnya chapter of your life if anda keep re-reading your last one.
7.Stop being scared to make a mistake. Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times lebih productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. anda end up regretting the things anda did NOT do far lebih than the things anda did.
8.Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. We may cinta the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But anda are not your mistakes, anda are not your struggles, and anda are here NOW with the power to shape your hari and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing anda for a moment that is yet to come.
9.Stop trying to buy happiness. Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
10.Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. If you’re not happy with who anda are on the inside, anda won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. anda have to create stability in your own life first before anda can share it with someone else.
11.Stop being idle. Don’t think too much atau you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. anda cannot change what anda refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! anda can’t make it to detik base with your foot on first.
12.Stop thinking you're not ready. Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
13.Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in cinta when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
14.Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone anda meet. Some will test you, some will use anda and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15.Stop trying to compete against everyone else. Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between anda and YOURSELF only.
16.Stop being jealous of others. Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”
17.Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. anda may not see atau understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at anda in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led anda to a better place, person, state of mind, atau situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today anda are a lot stronger than anda were yesterday, and anda will be.
18.Stop holding grudges. Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. anda will end up hurting yourself lebih than the people anda hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What anda did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what anda did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for anda too. If anda must, forgive yourself, pindah on and try to do better selanjutnya time.
19.Stop letting others bring anda down to their level. Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20.Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what anda know in your jantung is right.
21.Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. The time to take a deep breath is when anda don’t have time for it. If anda keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes anda need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
22.Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. Enjoy the little things, because one hari anda may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments anda spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
23.Stop trying to make things perfect. The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
24.Stop following the path of least resistance. Life is not easy, especially when anda plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
25.Stop akting like everything is fine if it isn’t. It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. anda don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. anda shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if anda need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner anda do, the sooner anda will be able to smile again.
26.Stop blaming others for your troubles. The extent to which anda can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which anda take responsibility for your life. When anda blame others for what you’re going through, anda deny responsibility – anda give others power over that part of your life.
27.Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn anda out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
28.Stop worrying so much. Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
29.Stop focusing on what anda don’t want to happen. Focus on what anda do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If anda awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and anda pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
30.Stop being ungrateful. No matter how good atau bad anda have it, wake up each hari thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what anda have that everyone else is missing.
1.Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants anda in their life, they’ll make room for you. anda shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand oleh your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside anda when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2.Stop running from your problems. Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every meninju, pukulan thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3.Stop lying to yourself. anda can lie to anyone else in the world, but anda can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.
4.Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that anda are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5.Stop trying to be someone you’re not. One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make anda likeeveryone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will cinta the real you.
6.Stop trying to hold onto the past. anda can’t start the selanjutnya chapter of your life if anda keep re-reading your last one.
7.Stop being scared to make a mistake. Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times lebih productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. anda end up regretting the things anda did NOT do far lebih than the things anda did.
8.Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. We may cinta the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But anda are not your mistakes, anda are not your struggles, and anda are here NOW with the power to shape your hari and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing anda for a moment that is yet to come.
9.Stop trying to buy happiness. Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
10.Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. If you’re not happy with who anda are on the inside, anda won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. anda have to create stability in your own life first before anda can share it with someone else.
11.Stop being idle. Don’t think too much atau you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. anda cannot change what anda refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! anda can’t make it to detik base with your foot on first.
12.Stop thinking you're not ready. Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
13.Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in cinta when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
14.Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone anda meet. Some will test you, some will use anda and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15.Stop trying to compete against everyone else. Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between anda and YOURSELF only.
16.Stop being jealous of others. Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”
17.Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. anda may not see atau understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at anda in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led anda to a better place, person, state of mind, atau situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today anda are a lot stronger than anda were yesterday, and anda will be.
18.Stop holding grudges. Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. anda will end up hurting yourself lebih than the people anda hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What anda did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what anda did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for anda too. If anda must, forgive yourself, pindah on and try to do better selanjutnya time.
19.Stop letting others bring anda down to their level. Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20.Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what anda know in your jantung is right.
21.Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. The time to take a deep breath is when anda don’t have time for it. If anda keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes anda need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
22.Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. Enjoy the little things, because one hari anda may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments anda spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
23.Stop trying to make things perfect. The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
24.Stop following the path of least resistance. Life is not easy, especially when anda plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
25.Stop akting like everything is fine if it isn’t. It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. anda don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. anda shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if anda need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner anda do, the sooner anda will be able to smile again.
26.Stop blaming others for your troubles. The extent to which anda can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which anda take responsibility for your life. When anda blame others for what you’re going through, anda deny responsibility – anda give others power over that part of your life.
27.Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn anda out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
28.Stop worrying so much. Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
29.Stop focusing on what anda don’t want to happen. Focus on what anda do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If anda awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and anda pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
30.Stop being ungrateful. No matter how good atau bad anda have it, wake up each hari thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what anda have that everyone else is missing.