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Okay, so I've been friends with this guy for four years. He's been bullied pretty much all of his life, and I've always stuck oleh his side. Even when people made fun of me for hanging out with him, I didn't care. We've always had this deep connection, and we loved each other like brother and sister.

Recently, these girls have been harassing him. Telling him to kill himself and saying he did things in which he didn't. I helped him through this rough patch, and it was emotional for both of us.

About two days after this happened, he slowly stopped responding to my texts. And then, he stopped responding overall. I thought he was just busy, but it turned out he was texting everyone but me. My friends would ask him about me, and when they did he just would ignore the pertanyaan and/or not respond.

A hari atau two later, I was on the bus, and he sat with another kid. The kid asked him about me, and the guy looked straight at me and berkata "we've never talked before." It honestly crushed me, and now I can't stand to hear his voice atau see him around.

Why do anda think he did this? We haven't talked ever since, and I don't feel like he wants to make it up at all I (niether do I, really). Any saran from the fanpop community?
 rapunzelsgold_ posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Riku114 said:
anda should probably confront him yourself about it and make sure he is okay with his problems first. This might be a branch off from it, so dont throw him away and hate him so quickly. People who have problems, may it be genetic, psychological, atau scars from trauma, tend to do things that might not be the wisest.

Though some reasons I could come up with is.....

1) Someone made anda seem worthless than the damage anda would cause for him
a: This may be because anda gained a bad reputation and people hated him because of anda and thats what they said
b: It was a bargain of sort
c: Someone berkata a lie to him about anda that made anda seem less than what anda should be
d: A threat was placed
e: anda became 'bad for his reputation'

2) Its the drag on from something psychological/traumatizing
a: Maybe anda remind him of something bad
b: Maybe anda bring back bad memories of the past despite being the sumber of the good

3) Something anda did bothered him atau vice versa
a: Something uncomfortable. Maybe he ended up liking you, maybe he thought anda ended up liking him.
b: Maybe anda became too close
c: Maybe trust issues

4) He is trying to start anew
a: anda are part of his past that must be dropped.
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Wish anda the best of luck though
Riku114 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
Haonako said:
anda need to pull through and if neither of anda wants to make up then leave him like anda dont need him tf
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Thats kind of harsh. Especially for a friend of 4 years that powered through so much
Riku114 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
pablopj said:
anda say there people who been mean to him, there's a chance they lied to him about anda so he would stay away from you, the best thing to do in a case like this is to talk with him, find a way to get to him and ask, if they lied something like anda hate him, then he can be feeling bad, maybe even close to ending his life, if anda want to know, anda have to be the one to talk
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Dreamtime said:
damn
probably someone berkata bad things about anda to him to make him avoid you
face him just tell him hear him out there must be a mistake here
hope things goes well for you
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