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I found something on my friend's facebook

My friend left her facebook logged on on my laptop so I decided to have a quick snout through her messages with her and my friend who I recently fell out with (just to see if they berkata anything about me) And I found a heck of alot of messages slagging me off! From both of them!!! I couldn't help but cry! They were talking about how I'm such a bad friend and so annoying, they were menulis MASSIVE paragraphs full of hate, I couldn't help but cry. I've saved her from suicide and this is how she repays me! I've had sleepless night due to texting her all night when she had suicidal thoughts. I've never had a true friend and I thought she was, I give up on everyone! I've spent so much time on her! She's always come 1st. I just can't believe she would do this to me!:( I want to tell her about it to sort it out but it's kinda my fault for hacking her facebook.... what do I do?
HELP! :'(
 EmLuvsSprinkles posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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neonClouds said:
Find some new friends, no good can come from remaining friends with someone who secretly hates you. Don't say anything to her either, no insults atau backlash, just settle things peacefully.
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Okay, thankyou :)
EmLuvsSprinkles posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Sounds like a good idea.
Simmeh posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
EgoMouse said:
Ouch, that sucks. I would make new friends immediately. Ditch her. People don't really change easily. I don't feel really comfortable talking about people behind their backs, but most of my female friends and gay male friends do that. Even joking wise, its kinda hard. It takes a huge lack of respect to do something like that. Feel happy that you're a good friend that would help a friend through suicide, but don't ever feel bad about yourself because your friend is an asshole. Please don't give up on people because of her, not everyone's an arse, but a lot are.
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Thankyou so much! I went on her account again this morning and found lebih messages slagging me off, I think I will ditch her tbh thank you:)
EmLuvsSprinkles posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
Bridget_J said:
First off, anda did a good thing to save her life and anda should always remember that. anda are an amazing friend and that is most important.
Second, anda could try and talk to her, not even mention Facebook. Just start with something like "hey i feel like anda are not being a true friend, that anda have not been as nice to me, that we are not as close." Then see what she says and if anda still really want to talk to her just try and steer the conversation to her not being a good friend.
anda are an amazing friend, and try to find a new friend maybe. I can tell anda are the kind of person everyone wants as a friend.
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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That's a brilliant idea! I will do that right now thank anda so much and she doesn't think I'm a great friend but thankyou that really made me smile
EmLuvsSprinkles posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
SeeUV3 said:
I know the feeling I thought I finally found a good friend but once they got a boyfriend they showed their true colors.... She started ignoring me and moving away from me saying how her boyfriend is the only thing that counts and that I am nothing to her . She even rubbed the fact I had a crush on her in my face oleh saying "ya know I have a bf so anda are JUST a friend " Meanwhile she berkata she liked me back ! I even kissed her once (she didn't pindah away and she blushed and smiled and hugged me so I am assuming it was ok) And we got into two big fights calling each other name after nam screaming at each other I just wanted her to talk to me for once and to realize that I care I STAYED UP ALL NIGHT TALKING HER OUT OF SLITING HER WRIST and she says that I am a snobby know it all and that I never did anything to help her!!! Now we don't talk at all....
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Wow, that's horrible! anda seem like a lovely person, don't let her get anda down she obviously doesn't know what she's lost, message me if anda ever wanna talk? Looks like we have a lot in common....
EmLuvsSprinkles posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
sarabeara said:
I've saved her from suicide and this is how she repays me!

Erm, that's definitely not something to be mad about. anda saved a person's life and you're a great person for it, no need to be upset over her not repaying anda for it.

Anyways, like another person suggested, definitely find some new friends. anda sound like a great, dedicated person so I'm sure you'll find better friends someday. Don't lose hope atau be hurt. Some people are just immature and don't understand what a great thing they have until it's gone. I'm sure they'll realize their mistake after anda find better friends.
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Okay thankyou
EmLuvsSprinkles posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
summermia_ said:
First of all, do not get her back, i know anda probably werent in the first place but still do not. Two wrongs don't make a right and it wont help anyone. detik of all, its very honorable of anda to help her with her internal struggles(: Lastly just come up to her and talk to her about it, get her side of the story and then take action, anda never know what was going on, anda always have to be careful with these kind of things. I mean for example what if, like anda did, some one just hacked her account atau something. Good luck and I hope anda get amazing friends(:
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Good idea thanks
EmLuvsSprinkles posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
Zeppie said:
I relate to this so much (except for the facebook snooping).

I had a so called best friend who I cared for so much, was the only one there for her, stayed up with her for hours talking to her when she was suicidal for 5 years when her own parents didn't even do shit, I had to be like a mother to her. Then she repays me oleh slagging me off too, calling me a bad friend and always putting me down to make herself feel better.

All I can say is confront her, see where it goes, but ultimately pindah on, hold your head up high, anda are an awesome person and they are not worth your time if they berkata such things. Don't let them walk over anda again because it will kill your self esteem. NEVER try to people-please. Learned that the hard way.
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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I'm so sorry anda went through that, anda didn't deserve that! And thankyou very much, I'm gonna listen to your saran (as you've had experience) and confront her and find new friends thanks again :)
EmLuvsSprinkles posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
kpop4everlover said:
You're an amazing friend , we should have lebih people on earth like anda , your friend is not a true friend , if they talk behind your back atau hate anda secretly. anda saved her from suicide , wow what a friend she is to be doing that to you. She is just...wow , just leave her because she doesn't deserve anda helping her then talking behind your back , if she doesn't tell the truth just leave her. Find a new friend , since everyday is a new hari and anda can have a fresh start! Don't let one person make anda really upset and sad. anda have lots of time to find a true friend , there are so many people in the world , not just her so be strong and anda will surely find a true friend like yourself!
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Awh that really made me smile thankyou so much :3 And okay good adivice, thanks! :D
EmLuvsSprinkles posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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