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I need your advice,please:'(

I'm a 15 years old girl who's having a weight issue.I'm 170 cm,but my weight is only 38 kg.I know I'm too thin,but it's because of some genetic issues.My mum has a physical just like me when she was young,so no matter how lot I eat,I can't even gain 1 kg.I'm very grateful of that but because of that,I've been calling names like skeleton,living corpse and many more.Even my Science teacher calls me a skeleton.One of my mum's friends berkata I have no butt,which makes me cry.I may look like a tough girl on the outside,but I'm too soft on the inside.I act a little tomboyish,but I could easily cry because of that.I always think that nobody loves me and they just want me to disappear from this world.Can somebody give me an saran on how to go on with my life even if it's full of sadness?
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jessy_an said:
You're normal ._.
I am 40 and 16.....
Don't worry world makes fun of everyone!~
Even of a honest person's too. Just ignore the world~
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Monsterka said:
Come on! anda don't have to have butt like Kim Kardashian to feel attractive.... think about Yourself like about some with subtle and ethereal beauty, like model atau ballerina :)
That mom's friend was unbelieveably tactless and cheeky, she should rather ciuman ur pantat, keledai instead commenting it xDD

Don't never feel bad because anda are not like others, atau not perfect in their eyes... without diffrences world would be boring, anda have to accept own uniqueness and don't give a damn about nasty comments.

The truth is, they have problem with themselves, not with You. Who normal, criticize others for apperance? It's Your genes, anda can't change this. Probably they insult ya to feel better than anda to improve own self-esteem this way.

seriously, they all are not worth Your tears and nerves. Trust me, that You're pretty in Your way and have lots amazing features even though anda are very skinny. Besides, anda can eat a lot, without getting fat! that's very comfortable, many ppl would be jealous (;
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I absolutely agree with you!
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snsdlover4ever said:
People probably just call anda names like skeleton atau living corpse because they have issues too, and think that they'll feel better if they put other people down. Your science teacher probably just says it as a joke, but I understand why anda would get sad at that. My mom says I have no behind either, but it doesn't affect me since I already accepted that. No one wants anda to leave this world, trust me. Even if this is the first time I'm "meeting" you, I don't want anda to leave. Life is never going to be easy, so just try and get through this oleh standing up for yourself. Tell people, "I know that I'm thin. So what? Will my weight affect your life in any way? Is being me a problem? Pay lebih attention to yourself rather than me, because I couldn't care less about what anda say about me." Then walk away. I tried this before, and people stopped teasing me. Hopefully, this helped, because I'm not that good at giving advice. :)
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x-Yumi-x3 said:
Don't worry about what people say they will say anything to get anda down. Be happy of your size, don't ashamed, cause if their commenting about your weight/size they obviously wish they could be your size. Take it as a compliment my dear.
One hari people are saying I'm fat the selanjutnya I'm to skinny.
Im just like fuck it. I weight 130. Psh
((There are lots of ways for anda to gain weight, it'll just take lebih than eating alone.))
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IsidoraSmiley said:
I know everyone says this but anda can't let those things get to you...The people that call anda names probably feel like they are too fat atau skinny themselves and it is better to insult anda about it than to except the fact. Since I never tried to gain weight, maybe anda should talk to a doctor. atau ask your mom how she got through it.
Anyway, anda have to stay positive - most girls wishing to be thinner and loose weight and anda have lebih atau less what most of us all want! :)
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LSP_98_Pigs said:
Hi,
Listen I'm in tahun ... and I way 23 kilos I am 140 cm People are always picking me up atau making lame jokes like "You weigh as much as my baby sister etc." Well I would rather no I'm health and a little bit to skinny then not healthy and really skinny! So I ask anda are anda health?
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kpop4everlover said:
Well people like this will appear somewhere in life but as anda get older anda will see how things will change , anda go to different schools , get jobs etc. Life is a path full of obstacles and if they tease anda just give a smart reply back to make them have nothing to say. anda have friends and family who will cinta anda no matter what , those people are just not understanding , some are nice some are mean. But people might just be joking , I think your science teacher is just joking but after a while anda might think differently , just do what anda are doing and ignore all the bad things.
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summer2987 said:
just ignore them. It may seem extremely hard at first, because anda might think their right and anda shouldnt look like anda do. but just ignore them and think about anda and how anda feel about yourslef minus all of them.


and hey, if anda wanna gain some weight for anda , then go right ahead.


and if anda dont because anda like how anda look that is fine.


but if anda change for all of them and not for yourself , then no.
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pipiqueen said:
i have a weight issue too!but it's waaaay....better than being overweight!besides, thin people are actually much healthier and stronger than others!
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EgoMouse said:
Hmm...you're a little taller than me and almost half my weight .__.
Well, when it comes to any issues, I like to write them down and express my feelings of it (doesn't have to be public on Facebook, just in a journal is fine). Then afterwards, come up with solutions atau address the problem. Problems don't simply go away.
The body likes to maintain its weight. Within six months in total. So if anda gain weight in those six months, your body will recognize it as your "standard weight". anda can try that and patiently gain weight slowly but surely. Your genetics though seems to not want to store fat. It can be unhealthy, anda can talk to your doctor about it.
As for solutions, anda can talk to these people about how it makes anda feel. However, this is easily berkata than done. Not everyone will listen atau stop.
The best solution is to try accept yourself. No matter what people say about your weight, it won't affect you. Accept that anda were born genetically this way. Some people would be jealous of it. Then, I'll probably try to make friends with people that accept you, to get rid of the loneliness.
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