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Is it okay for your best friend to say that 'you are lebih important than my mother'?

I am utterly confused with this scenario. One of my good friend berkata this and i freaked out. I am dreading going to school and facing him.
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The best friend is a guy btw..
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hetalia_ninja said:
Well it matters.. what is the relationship between your friend and his mother? I mean if they dont get along I can see why he would say that. But if they get along fine then anda should be alittle worried. I mean no matter how much anda mean to him he should always cinta his mother...more than you..no offense! And if he did say this anda should talk to him! I mean he may like anda moree than a friend :)

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Yeah he does have certain issues at home. But i dont like anyone giving that kind of comment. I mean your mother always comes first no matter how good a friend anda are u know...
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Yah i agree! And anda should definintely tell him that!
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Yeah i did before the holiday and he does not stop bringing the same topic at every convo so it is getting kinda of annoying. Constant apologising and all
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flabaloobalah said:
Ehh....probably not. Unless he means it, and he has something going on at home.
I say stuff like that like when I'm at a friend's house, I say, "I would rather live here with anda than at my house with my family." I don't mean it. Hopefully he doesn't mean it. If he does, there's something wrong at halaman awal between him and his mother (not jumping to conclusions atau trying to offend you, just saying, that's where problems like that start).
Hope this helps. :)
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Yeah he does.. No offence taken at all:) Thanks i got creeped out oleh it.
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kaboomgirl said:
Oh my, this is quiet sticky.

Well, I can only offer anda my humble opinion, but I say yes and no.

Like Robin said, there might be something going on at home, and you're the only person her gets to talk to? Sorry if I'm getting this all wrong. Maybe he's starting to like you. Maybe it's both. Just, don't avoid him. If anda do, he'll be crushed.
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Yeah i realise and i know what anda say is absolutely true but u know like the saying once bitten twice shy... that is how i feel. Its almost scary to some extent
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wantadog said:
..................possibly.
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..................possibly.
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Thankyou, that is true:) At least i hope it is
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Omigod. That pic. XD
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prussiaducky said:
depends, if his mom wasnt there his entire life atau something. But if his mom is with him, he shouldnt be saying that. Mothers went through pain unimaginable to bring him here. Carrying him in her womb for 9 months, going through delivery, nursed him, and so much more. If anda are his friend, (no offence) but i doubt anda have gone through lebih pain. The cinta of a mother is a brightest and most radiant of love.

Sorry...but anda should probably ask him about it because if a friend berkata that to me, i would freak and tell the straight up "no" because i know im not that important. I knew my friends for 7-8 years and i know im not as important as any mother.

atau maybe he berkata in the heat of the moment and tried to confess atau something but it came out as that >////< maybe he likes anda lebih than a friend. (advice straight from a shoujo komik jepang XD jk)
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Yeah i absolutely agree with all that anda have said. I can never be inportant atau even compared to a mother for goodness sake. And i never want to be that important in his life. He does have some problems at halaman awal they dont communicate well. The thing is i told him as such that he is being incredibly mad so now he wont stop bring up this topic at every convo and keeps apologising. It is quite off putting. Thats whats sad, we were great friends.
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^ oh mai
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just put the whole thing behind and pindah on (in other words, let him say sorry) XD
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Surrreee, I'm sure jnrm feels that way about me c;


She better anyways e_e'


And I see no problem with it ._.
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Oh..
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