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hey guys,I need advice.

I have a friend who's 17 and has a boyfriend who's 28.In your opinion is this ok?And there's more.I suspect,I mean I'm almost sure that he's taking advantage of her.His age itself makes me think that,but it's not just that.Some time yang lalu we were sitting together in the morning and she was talking on her cell with someone and berkata that that morning she woke up oleh cigarette smell because her boyfriend was smoking.I was really shocked when I heard that,but I didn't say anything and I tried to come up with an other logical explanation.Also lebih recently we were talking with an other friend of ours about girls' hygiene stuff and she told me that selanjutnya tahun when I get 17 "you will become a woman" so I'll have to be lebih careful with my hygiene.Well,I'm 16 so she couldn't be talking about period.If she meant sex when I get 17 I'd rather kill myself (her tone of voice also suggested quite much certainty).And since she's 17 and "becoming a woman" means what I think she "has become a woman" oleh that pervert?!Again I didn't ask her if that was what she meant and tried to come up with an other logical explanation,but I've yet to find one.She must have been with him at least for a couple of years because she told me once that one summer she'd gone with him and her friends close to the place where I spend my summer holidays.I didn't komentar neither about spending her holidays with her boyfriend(especially this one) nor the thoughtlessness of her parents for letting her. Yesterday in the morning we were at school with the other girl we hang out with and she told us happily that it was her boyfriend's 28th birthday and for 1 sec I was like "OMG!" before I utter a stupid birthday wish.I already knew he's older because she'd told me that he owned a shop,but I hoped not that older.I haven't expressed my opinion and suspicions to her neither for his age nor for the things I mentioned above.I never berkata anything because I didn't want her to be mad at me,but do anda think I should?But,guys b
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Annitaki posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Well,now that I opened again the pertanyaan to see the jawaban I noticed that I wrote too much and couldn't be shown all.So anda should know that as a person she's not like that at all.I mean she's very mature for her age,has deep religious faith,tries hard at school,we often discuss about important things,doesn't care to be populer so I don't think she was influenced oleh friends to that.She has told us about stupid things she did in the past such as smoking and not trying at school,but she's a totally different person now.If someone else had told me these things about her I wouldn't have believed a word.She's a great person and she's not worth it.The most plausible explanation I can think of if she really has sex with him is that that jerk pessurizes her psycologically.I haven't known her for very long,I met her 5-6 months ago,but still I 'm sure she's not the girl who would get screwd to stay in a relationship.This doesn't make sense at all!Can anda explain it somehow?
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
*looks at how long it is*


anda really expect me to read all that?
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*looks at how long it is* anda really expect me to read all that?
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AnimeFan66 said:
It's nice knowing that anda don't want to ruin anything between your friend and this guy. But I have to agree- anda must, must try to say something. If anda don't, think of the consquences that your friend will go through. And if this guy smokes, there is a possbility your friend might be hooked on it too and we all know we don't want that to happen. So yes, anda must try to get in the way and try to talk things over. Even if trouble errupts anda will know anda are doing the right thing. Hope all of this helps you.
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i don't agree with anda my boyfriend smokes and almost all of my exs to and i still don't smoke...
LittleYaoiGirl posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Um okay? Thank anda for your comment.
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Well now, your parents are correct on that matter. I beleive anda should try at lease waiting for a whilw until anda and this girl have a friendship connection. Then after anda and her get along, try to reveal the situation to her and see what happens selanjutnya alright? I wish anda the very best of luck in this situation. I know that solving things like this is hard, but anda will be doing a favor for not just her, but to all people of the world who go through things like this- especially trust and compaionship.
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LittleYaoiGirl said:
if they've been together for years then there's a reason and it's none of your buisness to get in their reletionship... believe me it's both anoying and anda could get in a fight and it IS stupid to worry just about his age he might me a nice guy and if she's had sex with him so what? i have friends that have lost their virginity even younger and they're happy with it and are in a healty reletionship... just leave them alone it's for them to deal with...
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