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May someone help me to feel better? I'm really upset. :(

So my mother and I went to the graveyard a while yang lalu today. We took the dead bunga off of my grandfather's grave. He died just several days ago. July 20th. And tears started pouring down my face. I couldn't stop them! And I berkata some things to God that I shouldn't have said. And I feel SO bad! That made me feel worse!

May someone help me feel better? I feel so terrible right now! :(

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 AllynessaClaire posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Shadowmarioking said:
Death is a natural occurrence in life that cannot be prevented. It is the natural cycle for humans to die. One should not sulk over the death of a loved one, but instead try to remember times of joy and happiness that the deceased brought to them and to others. As for the God thing, I can't help anda there since I'm atheist, but I'm sure he'll forgive you...I guess.
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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I know it's natural, but it still hurts.
AllynessaClaire posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Death is going to hurt, that's why it's important to look at all the things the deceased did; all of their achievements, be it small atau little, and to be thankful they were a part of your life.
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Animeanimal said:
Just remember that god knows that anda were upset at the time....he will forgive if anda ask. And about your grandfather.....everything is going to be alright and I am sorry for your loss, but the Lord wanted him halaman awal and he is not suffering any more......you should be happy for him and its okay to feel sad for him too. Instead of dwelling on the past live your life knowing that one hari anda will gabung him in anda eternal halaman awal and that will pindah anda forward. Also anda could ask God to let him know how anda are feeling and whats been going on in your life.....hope that helped ^^ cinta anda and i am always here...
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That's sweet! Thank anda so much! anda seem like a very understanding person.(: ♥
AllynessaClaire posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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well, thank anda X3
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KittyKatTitan said:
Aww, Don't feel sad! Your grandfather's in a better place now, and God will forgive anda for whatever anda said. Just pray for forgiveness and anda will be forgiven. I understand how anda feel though, my grandmother just recently died, and I've been pretty upset about it. But, I'm okay now though, because my friends and family helped me get through it. I pray that God blesses anda and your family through this tough time, and I hope anda get to feeling better.
Your friend,
~Kat~
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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anda are so sweet.(: ♥
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Cherry9090 said:
This may help it may not I'm sorry if dosent

My mom died giving birth to me I have been blamed all my life I do not believe in god and I have cursed him alot I do not feel bad because my mom was innocent and he took her my fault atau not

But u believe in him so I'll say this Hun don't worry he forgives u Hun ok no worries

And I joined the club
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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I'm so sorry. It's not your fault. And thanks much for joining.
AllynessaClaire posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Yes it is I never should have been born and most welcome
Cherry9090 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I'm so sorry Cherry. It's not your fault, and nobody has the right to say that it is! anda couldn't help atau prevent that. I know anda don't believe in God, but I'm saying this anyway. I know it may seem like God took her for no reason, but he did have one. We may not know his reason, but he did have one. It was her time to go in his eyes. I know this probably isn't helping you, but I just wanted to let anda know, that it's not your fault and anda can't be blamed for that! I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. I know sorry doesn't help, but I felt I needed to say it. I hope anda have a great life and I pray that everything goes well for you! Love, ~Kat~
KittyKatTitan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Kat is right. I totally agree with her. I couldn't have berkata it better.
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danfan1 said:
I don't know if this will help anda atau not but my grandmother died a few years yang lalu so when i am upset atau depressed about something and i am crying all i do is remember the good times and funny things she used to say. Which helps. Sorry for your loss.
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When I remember those, it makes me sadder. :/
AllynessaClaire posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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aww
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