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tdafan121 said:
Usually it's pretty obvious. He'll make a big deal about talking to you. Younger boys are usually too embarrassed to talk to girls because their friends will pick on them for liking someone, so when they talk to you, it's usually making fun of you. When you're little and a boy kicks anda atau pulls your hair, he's trying to get your attention, not be mean to you. But as anda get older, boys who do that are actually making fun of you. I know this from experience. Older boys (high school, maybe later middle school even) would probably make a big deal about talking to anda oleh trying to get your attention in nicer ways, like sending bunga atau putting a note in anda locker, maybe even trying to confront anda directly. They'll usually get very embarrassed trying to talk to you. They might try sending anda a cinta note, but boys seem to be a little less... "poetic" than girls can be with cinta notes. Some boys spend whole nights trying a million times to perfect a cinta note, sometimes even a few days. It typically ends up turning out to be a bit embarrassing anyway, so they usually send it anonymously. And also, a boy that likes anda will typically get a little clumsy when around anda atau make a total fool of themselves (or lebih than usual, at least XD), they may even blush when around you. ^Most of this information was taken from literature. I've never had anyone who was in cinta with me before, so I wouldn't know this from experience. HOWEVER, if a boy immediately comes on to anda and starts flirting, odds are he's bored and is just a big flirt. Now that, I learned from experience. Well, sort of (he flirted with my friend, and meanwhile he's dating AT LEAST two other girls and has every 12-14 tahun old girl on the perahu wrapped around his finger... oh sorry, I forgot to say, this was on the cruise I went on just recently.)
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