Today, why not made a personal commitment to be happy, in spite of what life hands over to you. anda have to admit that there are too many things over which anda have no control. The only thing anda can do is to stop allowing them to make dents in your spirit.
Happiness is not something that others can take from you. It's something that anda would have to throw away on your own.
There will be times when things don't turn out the way anda want them to. Your best friend at work may turn out to be a power-hungry corporate animal that backstabs anda at every opportunity. The promotion anda worked so hard for may go to someone else. Your partner might decide to leave me, a hari before we are due to go for a vacation together. anda may lose most of your savings in a market crash.
These are things that can happen to the most loving, compassionate, careful and reasonable person. But after the initial pain and shock, the decision whether atau not to let yourself languish in despair is entirely up to you. anda can allow misfortune to form the bulk of your life, atau anda can choose to leave what's past in the past, and pindah on.
One's friendly and caring behavior towards others should not be motivated oleh the thought of equally kind and affectionate responses. anda understand yourself best, and regardless of how reasonably and responsibly anda live your life, there will be people who won't see your point of view atau share your motivations.
People have the right to act in any way they see fit. I don't have the right to judge whether their behavior is acceptable atau not. They have to beruang the responsibility for their own actions, and so do you. oleh feeling sorry for yourself, anda are simply continuing the work for them, long after they have dealt their blow. anda have to decide that, as far as possible, anda will not allow these people to disturb your mind.
There are many things for which anda can be grateful. There are yet unexplored experiences in which anda can find enrichment and meaning. There are yet others who will like anda for who anda are, and in spite of who anda are. If anda spend my time being resentful and miserable, anda are denying yourself the satisfaction of enjoying what this life has to offer.
There are enough unhappy people in this world who punish themselves and others constantly in a bid to find redress and compensation. But there is no satisfaction in retaliation and revenge. It's a waste of time and spirit.
"To be happy we must not be too concerned with others."
Happiness is not something that others can take from you. It's something that anda would have to throw away on your own.
There will be times when things don't turn out the way anda want them to. Your best friend at work may turn out to be a power-hungry corporate animal that backstabs anda at every opportunity. The promotion anda worked so hard for may go to someone else. Your partner might decide to leave me, a hari before we are due to go for a vacation together. anda may lose most of your savings in a market crash.
These are things that can happen to the most loving, compassionate, careful and reasonable person. But after the initial pain and shock, the decision whether atau not to let yourself languish in despair is entirely up to you. anda can allow misfortune to form the bulk of your life, atau anda can choose to leave what's past in the past, and pindah on.
One's friendly and caring behavior towards others should not be motivated oleh the thought of equally kind and affectionate responses. anda understand yourself best, and regardless of how reasonably and responsibly anda live your life, there will be people who won't see your point of view atau share your motivations.
People have the right to act in any way they see fit. I don't have the right to judge whether their behavior is acceptable atau not. They have to beruang the responsibility for their own actions, and so do you. oleh feeling sorry for yourself, anda are simply continuing the work for them, long after they have dealt their blow. anda have to decide that, as far as possible, anda will not allow these people to disturb your mind.
There are many things for which anda can be grateful. There are yet unexplored experiences in which anda can find enrichment and meaning. There are yet others who will like anda for who anda are, and in spite of who anda are. If anda spend my time being resentful and miserable, anda are denying yourself the satisfaction of enjoying what this life has to offer.
There are enough unhappy people in this world who punish themselves and others constantly in a bid to find redress and compensation. But there is no satisfaction in retaliation and revenge. It's a waste of time and spirit.
"To be happy we must not be too concerned with others."