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What do I do?

I'm a freshman in high school and I've had a crush on this guy since September and since then we have become friendly with each other but not close friends, lebih like acquaintances. Anyway, I've found out recently that he kind of knows I like him. We haven't spoken since I became aware of this which was about three weeks yang lalu and now I feel really awkward and self conscious around him. Before he knew I asked one of my friends who is one of his close friends to ask him if he liked me. She told me that he berkata no. I don't want to give up on him that easily though because I feel like he just doesn't know me well enough to know whether he likes me atau not because I'm shy and not very talkative and I think he's a really good guy and could learn to like me if he got to know me better. So now I'm scared to talk to him but at the same time I want to talk to him lebih and try to get him to like me. It would mean a lot to me if anda could give me some good saran on what to do in a situation like this. like how to not be so nervous around him and what kind of things to say to him. thanks!
 Musiquelover posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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xenriquegrl said:
I am exactly like you! I am also a very shy person but I'm gonna share with anda the tricks and knacks I've learned on how to just get over it.

First of all, anda know that he knows but the worst thing anda can do is to just stop talking to him. anda say anda wanna talk to him, so, as much as anda don't want to see this, just talk to him. Not about the fact that anda like him but just about acak stuff. Be yourself, get to know what he likes and see if anda two have things in common.

The best way anda can start oleh talking to him is to casually say hi at school and if he's in any of your classes just ask an how are you? And anda don't have to say anymore than that. That way anda seem open and friendly. If your too shy to say hi, try to smile. A casual smile. Guys go for girls who seem friendly no matter what anda look like (although I bet your very beautiful duh). The fact is because your akting kinda cold, it sends a wrong vibe to him. anda shouldn't be ashamed that he knows. It might actually be flattering to him ;)

anda need confidence too. A great way to get started with that is oleh making sure anda have great friends who support anda and make anda laugh and feel good. Hold your chin up, even if he don't like anda now, doesn't mean he won't in the futur. Ask your friends to accompany anda to ask him to chill with a group, great way to get to know someone! Your with your friends so anda feel confident, and it makes things less awkward. Just as long as anda start oleh being friends and don't get your hopes too too up cuz there are a lot of ikan in the sea and your still a freshman so girl, anda got plenty of time!

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Thank anda so much! anda made my day. At first I was thinking if he ever asked me about it I would deny everything haha, but u have a good point in saying that he may actually be flattered so I will try what anda said. Thanks a lot :)
Musiquelover posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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hey your welcome ;) tell me how it went!!!
xenriquegrl posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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atau how it goes sorry haha
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