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If being gay isn't a choice. Is having sex with binatang not a choice as well?

I know it's not a choice to be gay. But I got asked this pertanyaan oleh one of my friends. We were talking about the movie "Deliverance" and he asked me "if having sex with an animal really exist in the real world (which it does), can anda still honestly say that being gay isn't a choice?" I told him I don't see it as the same at all. It's like the ones that tried to put homosexuals in the same category as molesters, which isn't the same thing and totally ridiculous. I quickly changed the subject because I didn't want to argue about it anymore. It kind of made me mad though.

I just want to see what anda think about it.


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Cinders said:
Zoophilia, also known as bestiality (although the latter has lebih negative connotations) is not a sexual orientation, it is a philia.

Somewhere else on this site I explained the difference between a philia and a sexuality, but I forget where it was... I'll keep an eye out for anda and link you.

But long story short, humans can have all sorts of philias, from the utterly benign, even sweet (such as agathophilia - cinta of kindness), to the downright disturbing (coprophilia - cinta of feces). While philia's often stimulate a cinta so great it's sexual, they are not considered sexual orientations, like heterosexuality atau homosexuality.

(link). From that post:

"A philia is quite narrowly defined, and generally revolves around a specific aspect of an object atau individual (the aforementioned 'anthophilia' is an obsessive cinta of flowers). It's not the same as simply liking the hair color of an individual, it's being exclusively attracted to something.

This, I would say, is the beginning and end of everything that philias have in common with sexual orientations. While still having some parameters (straights exclusively like the opposite sex, gays exclusively like the same sex), the variation within the definition is broad. And within that definition, a straight men might prefer brunette women, but he would never be attracted to a brunette man. This is one reason that there are both straight and gay age-philes."

That komentar was in discussion of a philia based on age (pedo-, hebe-, and ephebo-), but I feel the comparison still stands, as sexuality is often (unjustly, IMO) compared to pedophilia, which, like zoophilia, is a -philia, not sexuality.

Back to the pertanyaan at hand - are -philias a choice? All in all, I'd say not. I don't believe a pedophile, for instance, atau a zoophile chooses to be a pedophile/zoophile anymore than a gay man chooses to be gay. The difference between the two lies in victimization. With zoophiles, consent can never be given, and binatang are not sentient, ergo any sexual act with an animal is considered rape. Similarly, a child cannot give consent as they are not considered to have adequate intellectual understanding of the act of sex, and so any sexual act with a minor is also considered rape. With sexualities, the acts occur between two consenting adults, generally in a reciprocal, equal-status, loving relationship. There is no such thing as a reciprocal, equal-status romantic relationship between a minor and an adult, because the adult holds all the power. There is no such thing as a reciprocal, equal-status romantic relationship between a person and an animal, because the animal is not sentient.

Hopefully, this will give anda something lebih solid with which to retort the selanjutnya time this topic comes up.
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HAHA! I was hopeing anda would find this. Thank anda so...so much. It will definitely help.
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r-pattz said:
Actions are choices. Genes and/or external factors in your life, in addition to emotions, are not choices.

I wish you'd have stayed and talked it out with your friend. He's really ignorant. -_-
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VBA.
GaGaBoi posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Sometimes it really doesn't matter what anda say.
Vixie79 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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We've had these arguments before and he just opens them up just to argue and make me flustered. He has no thoughts of changing his tampilan about it. About the WHOLE subject as a whole mind you. *sighs*
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londonsrock said:
I think this is actually a very good pertanyaan because it challenge our thinking of where do we draw the line for what is conventional and what is socially accepted. I think for our generation specially being gay is increasingly lebih accepted but still carries a lot of stigma. Sodomy in the other hand is not accepted. Both are not convectional but are seem to some degree as sexual deviation. To me being gay anda can't help how anda feel but it is kind of beautiful when two people cinta each other regardless of orientation. Sodomy is disgusting and kind of violates animal rights.
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"To me being gay anda can't help how anda feel but it is kind of beautiful when two people cinta each other regardless of orientation. Sodomy is disgusting and kind of violates animal rights." - Sodomy is the act of anal sex, with a human (male/female atau male/male) atau otherwise. But generally refers to humans. I feel that your statement is somewhat contradictory.
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