I can only recommend manga. Seeing as I live in a full house & risk being walked in at any time of hari atau night.
I prefer the complex long ones.
The one shots tend to have a "they will, but when & how" story with a paper thin plot & one atau both guys act like virginity is something that needs to be preserved instead of gotten rid of as quickly as possible (being a virgin is humiliating for men) & that first kisses are special....Just bad menulis & too much melodrama.
I like something with character development, cinta polygons, a meddling overprotective brother who gets in the way, an element of taboo, an actual story.
But sometimes I just want smut that's really nicely drawn & either has a good story atau is silly atau is just extremely obscene & wrong.
Sadly those two things never seem to menyeberang, salib over. The first one is usually classic BL where no one has sex until the last volume.
So do anda want smut atau do anda want plot?
Anyway, the best places to look are:
TV Tropes:
link Baka update Manga:
link *Look for a komik jepang anda like.
*Check out the CATEGORIES & expand to tampil all.
*Use categories to find tropes like "slow romance" "love triangle" "teacher student" "bdsm" "uke falls in cinta first"...Stuff like that.
*Alternately, anda can go up to GENRE & click on Yaoi. It will take anda to a refined cari engine where anda can exclude & include alternate genres, doujinshis, fully scanlated series, etc.