First of all, I cinta you. For this pertanyaan and for being you. haha
When someone calls someone "sexy" it doesn't necessarily mean that they have had sex. "Sexy" is just a term used to describe someone in this hari and age. The definition? Well, there's many. But I don't think calling someone "sexy" means they had sex.
But I do agree with what anda berkata about sex. Young kids should
not be thinking about having sex. Sex is called "making love". I don't think younger kids have experienced enough in the world to actually cinta someone. Granted, some teenagers can cinta each other, but sex was originally meant for man and wife. And my beliefs agree with that. Though, society manipulates and that original meaning has been buried oleh the media.
And, I touched on this a little in my artikel that I wrote yesterday. The "hot/sexy/omgosh abs!" lol I hate promoting, but if anda want to read it, it's here (
link)
And... it's annoying, heck yes. Disturbing... I can understand what anda are saying. Kids verging on becoming a teen atau young teenagers shouldn't be so caught up on people's bodies. It's fine that kids find people attractive. I've had crushes too. When I was younger and right now. But just... the thought of pre-teens having that mindset, the image of guys with their shirts off, it's inappropriate. I can understand how that would be disturbing.
However, we can't put the blame on them. Society is also to blame. The image society is promoting as "beautiful" oleh having a toned body and flawless skin is also weighing on younger kids today. Teenagers, even adults. It doesn't matter what size anda are, atau what color anda are. The inside is what counts. We're all beautifully and wonderfully made. And anda should be liked for
who anda are. Not what anda look like. Because that fades.