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musiclikelove said:
I will answer because I'm sick of people only loving Edward's hair atau Jacob's abs. It's ridiculous and shallow. So, that being said... I am team Edward in that I believe Bella should be with Edward. (I personally cinta Jasper). Jacob does not respect Bella the way that Edward does. Jacob is a good friend for Bella, but nothing else. Jacob is changeable and immature. His temper is out of control, and he does things (such as threatening Bella if she doesn't ciuman him) that are immature and wrong. The end does not always justify the means. Yes, he made Bella realize her feelings, but not in a way that was fair to her at all. People call Edward abusive, but Jacob is the abusive one. Jacob is forcing himself on her. He is forceful and demanding, and no six-pack can make up for that. Now for Edward. Edward is not perfect, but he's perfect for Bella. And that's what true cinta is. He makes mistakes, and he has a lot to learn. But what a lot of people don't consider when they call Edward controlling atau obsessive, is that this is Edward's first relationship as well. He's still learning what is right and wrong, good and bad, too much atau too little. He doesn't know everything. The thing is, as soon as he realizes that what he's doing is wrong, atau that it hurts Bella, he stops. When he tries to keep her from Jacob, as soon as he realizes that he's not protecting her like he thinks he is, and that it's not what's best for her, he lets her go. He wants for her what she wants. He is willing to be anything to Bella that she wants him to be. He will be her lover, her friend, he will leave if she asks. With Jacob, it's all atau nothing. An ultimatum. Edward isn't exactly the traditional boyfriend, but he fights his most natural urges for her, puts himself and his family in constant danger for her, and loves her with all of his undead self. And lastly, Bella is no good for Jacob. She could choose Jacob, but her loyalty would always lie with Edward. oleh choosing Edward, she is doing the best thing for Jacob because she is not entering a false relationship with him. She is not choosing to be with him even though she loves someone else more. She knows who she loves the most, and it would be lebih wrong of her to be with Jacob knowing this than to not be with Jacob at all. Edward knows that she loves Jacob too, and he understands. He knows that he is partially responsible for it, and does not give her an ultimatum of 'be with me atau we can't be anything' like Jacob does. Jacob would not understand, and he would be immature and hurtful about it with Bella, constantly calling her out for it. And then there's the whole 'Jacob and Bella only cinta each other because his imprint is in her ovaries' issue. Bella should be with Edward because Jacob is no good for her, she is no good for Jacob, and she and Edward are truly meant for each other.
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