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Dan's reluctance to publish his book was not just about Blair. It was about all his family and friends that he'd written about. He knew it would alienate everyone.
But really, I don't think this is a fair question since there is no way to measure how much someone loves someone.
But the way I see it is this: if a guy has to watch the love of his life be engaged and pregnant by another guy and still manages to man up and accept that because he thinks it will give her happiness, then that's a guy who loves this girl a whole hell of a lot. Whatever happens now is Blair's choice and decision. She has to decide what will make her happy.
Chuck's made some bad mistakes but he's proven himself.
Dan loves her the most, by far. He loves her enough to be her friend, genuinly, even though he loves her. He loves her enough to help her chose another guy. He wants her to be happy. Chuck knows she can't be happy with him but is selfish enough to still pursue her. Chuck does not love her the way Dan does, selflessly.
Dan loves her the most, by far. He loves her enough to be her friend, genuinly, even though he loves her. He loves her enough to help her chose another guy. He wants her to be happy.
i can't say it better ♥
Blair and Chuck forever bitches!
do you read the question?
and season 4 finale and season 5 both prove that chuck is the one who loves her selflessly, continually trying to let her go..both dan and chuck are selfless with blair but the difference is that blair loves and wants chuck not dan,so her happiness is with him not anyone else, if dan felt that blair has any feelings for him i am sure he would have fought for her !! so actually he is being selfless so he can keep her as a friend !
Chuck regretted his mistakes and apologized about them, he is now the better person and the fact that blair loves him is another point in his favor..LMAO
and the word "selfless" doesn't go with dan at all this season :D
Chuck made a lot of mistakes, yes. But since when did loving someone mean that you're not capable of mistakes?
And he feel in love with Blair in season 4! Dan has always been there for Blair, even when they didn't "like" each other at the beginning of GG (If he didn't like her, he wouldn't have given her so much advice/help!)
Chuck has treated her more badly than Dan has ever done! Dan cares about the people around him!
Love is about caring for that person and will always wants the best for them. I know that Chuck loves her, but Chuck has shown plenty of times that he doesn't love Blair enough! Because if he loved her the most, he would not do the things he done towards her!
(hope you all understand what I'm trying to say here, I'm Swedish, and English is my second language :P )
even if you ship chair you have to admit that dan loves her (he is not crushing omg seriously are you blind or sth?!) and he loves her best, because he INDEED is selfless.
people sometimes ... i just cant with them, seriously.
Hahahahahaha what show are u watching? Dan is in love with Blair? Dan falls for every girl on the show and his feelings never last. Dan is not in love with blair and what are u talking about? chuck want to be happy with blair but lets her go so she can have a chance at being happy with some else so how is that him being selfish? Oh and about Dan having feelings for Blair how long is it gonna last this time? Let's say about episode 13 or up to 17 Dan will be over Blair? And I guess u your still gonna be saying he's in love with Blair? Right?
I agree dair fans seem to ignored what Dan did in 5x01. He is so selfish
And people that says it's Dan most must've skipped season 1, 2, 3 and most of 4. Dan has 'loved' her for what to weeks?
And honestly Blair has most to do with them cheating. And that's a fact.
We are allowed to have our opinion and so are you.
I don't think Dan really loves Blair tbh. I think he has a crush/infatuation and is confusing it with love. She was there for him when he was depressed about Serena, it makes sense.
He was in love with Serena not long ago, and I don't believe that went away so easily.
I totally agree.
I'm sorry, when exactly did abuse have a limit on how long it's a valid reason to dislike someone/a couple??
Whether it's physical, emotional/mental or even sexual abuse - ABUSE IS ABUSE AND THE LASTING TOLL IT TAKES ON SOMEONE DOESN'T JUST FADE AWAY.
I'm so sick of some Chair fans thinking they can just say "get over it. Get a new reasoning for disliking them." NO. NO I FUCKING WON'T.
Just because CB are a fictional couple, that doesn't mean that the situation between them is healthy or in any way right. AND it doesn't take away from the fact that scenes like Chuck almost punching Blair in the face... that can be a serious trigger for some people.
Okay so he was selfish in 5x01 because he wanted to take Blair and almost let her end things with Louis.
What about Chuck and all the times he was selfish with Blair when she tried to move on from that relationship!?
I hate it when some people say Dan is selfish and Chuck is not.
Even when they were enemies back in season one, Dan sat with and comforted Blair when she was upset. Many times over the first few seasons, no matter how awful she was to him, Dan was constantly giving Blair pep talks that not only cheered her up when she was down, but also gave her the confidence she needed to push through her problems. Every time she asked him for help, he never turned her away or demanded anything in return, unlike Chuck, who not only made her work for it but often demanded she repay him for any kindness he showed to her. Even when they were enemies, Dan cared more about her happiness than Chuck did while he claimed to love her.
Though Dan has definitely had his selfish moments and betrayed Blair a few times (what he pulled with Louis definitely disappointed me), he has always come clean to her face and admitted what he did and apologized, unlike Chuck, who over and over again has done his level best to hide the truth from Blair because he knew he'd done something selfish and wasn't man enough to own up to it until he'd been caught and there was no way out of it.
Beyond how the two of them treat her, it's also important to look at the influence they each have on her.
Dan calms her down, brings out the decency in her and encourages her to use her organizational gifts for good. He sees all the wonderful aspects of her personality and helps her see them in herself as well. He makes her feel good about who she is. Even though he's madly in love with her, he's content to simply stand by her side and be there for her without asking anything in return. She knows she can trust him and is comfortable with him. He brings out her human side - the side of her that's perfectly happy simply cuddling on the couch watching movies and eating pizza.
Chuck however, is the exact opposite with her. He can be truly cruel and abusive to her. He is jealous, controlling, manipulative and has continuously sabotaged her relationships with others because he considered her "his" and if he couldn't have her, no one could. He has lied to her, cheated on her, torn her confidence to shreds, abandoned her when she needed him most, and let's not forget that he actually SOLD her in order to retain ownership of a building. He himself has admitted that he can't make her happy and that he brings out her darkest side. I honestly can't see how all of those selfish actions are supposed to add up to loving someone.
In the beginning, Chair had some great moments, but at the end of the day their relationship sucks the life out of both of them. Yes, Chuck has made progress recently in regards to his behavior, but that doesn't change the fact that every time he and Blair are together one of them ends up hurt. They destroy each other, it's as simple as that. They both deserve better than what they have to offer each other.
you know, there is no "love her/him more, love her/him less"!!
if you love someone...you can't say this!
we can't measure love!
plus, we can't love and love again and love again and love again...
we can love ONLY ONE PERSON in our life!!
so, if you think about it right you will agree that anyone else loved Blair, except from Chuck.
Nate liked her.
Louis like her for her apperance and her money.
Dan just like her company.
we can love ONLY ONE PERSON in our life!!
That's simply untrue. Not even getting in to the matter of couples who divorce, or when one spouse dies etc... PEOPLE ARE CAPABLE OF LOVING MANY PEOPLE.
Look at how we love friends. Are you trying to say that i can only TRULY love one single friend?? That's just about the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard & it's insulting.
It's insulting on so many levels.
My grandma was married to my moms father for a few years, they divorced by the time my mom was 3 1/2, and my grandma has now been married to my grandpa {the man i consider my grandpa, because love is stronger than blood} for EIGHTEEN YEARS. They love each other unconditionally. So are you trying to tell me that because my grandma was once in love with another man, her love for my grandpa isn't really real??
Bullshit. Just more pathetic excuses from desperate Chair fans trying to take away from what Dan & Blair have.
Lol, this is a valid and legit enough "excuse" not to ship them, actually.
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