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What is sex and how do u know when ur ready for it

OK I know this is weird but I really don't know wat sex is I mean how do u know ur really ready 4 sex please no bad answer
 geekygirl1999 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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jester616 said:
No worries; this isn't a weird question. I just need to caution anda that my answer is based only on my experience and is hetero.

Sex is sharing your body with someone else, allowing them to enter anda and give anda pleasure. It involves passionate ciuman and touching with a mutual goal of finding ways to heighten each others pleasure. Usually orgasm is the result, but not always.

Deciding when you're ready is the trickier part. I was crazy horny when I was about 15, but I didn't have sex until I was 18, and that was mainly because no one was interested in me! That is true, but lebih seriously, I was with someone I trusted (I ended up marrying him) and we had dated for nearly a tahun before we had sex. Well, we had plenty of oral sex up to that point, but I was afraid of the pain of vaginal sex. It hurt, but it wasn't as bad as I had feared.

The take away? I wouldn't be in a rush to have sex at your age; there is lebih to learn about, and I think anda should be comfortable with yourself first. Please remember that anda can get pregnant your first time, so researching birth control methods is essential. Hope this helped.
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anda are an encyclopedia of useful knowledge *bows* why cant my teachers be like you? ;w;
seffro posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Thanks sooo much it did help a lot:)
geekygirl1999 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Smart girl...I have gf named Tiffany and she is just the same...
latios360 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
adultswimperson said:
If anda don't know what sex is then your not old enough to be on here and people would think your an idiot.
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In all fairness to geekygirl, either she's in one of those "abstinence-only" school disctricts, atau the adults in her life are not being receptive to her questions. anda gotta ask somewhere; why not here. My kids' school district is pretty much a "don't do it" kind of place, so if I didn't answer them honestly and direct them to lebih accurate info, they'd end up relying on classmates, and we all know how helpful that is.
jester616 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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^ e3e low blow there. is how I learned most of it
seffro posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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thanks i do know what sex is i just wanted to learn lebih about it before i have it
geekygirl1999 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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@jester616, I guess your right.
adultswimperson posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Ummm anda can have sex at any age, consensual atau legal atau not... and sex includes masurbation (self pleasure but without a partner so it is just sex with yourself, lol, and many of us do not count that...) and there is oral sex as well as other orifices...love atau not, marriage atau not, but CONDOM yes... and other aman, brankas SEX... I think a person should really be old enough to accept the consequences and mature enough to handle things, (idk-I guess that differs for all of us)... and that could be anything from a baby, to a STD to marriage to a break up. So many times one person is used just for sex. I think a person should be old enough to be able to understand that concept, and old enough to accept responsibility for their behavior. Your body will be ready and let anda know probably before anda are "emotionally" capable.

Good Luck.
It can be scary and an adventure... hope anda are aman, brankas and make good choices.
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Thank u so much
geekygirl1999 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
sarabeara said:
jester covered the "what is sex" part, but as to the how to know when you're ready...you'll know you're ready when anda don't have to ask someone else's opinion on the matter. If anda have to ask someone else if they think it's time that you have sex, you're clearly not ready and not confident in your decision.
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