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Honestly, I need some suggestions/adive. I have questions!

Okay well literally 15 minuets yang lalu i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 4 months, i cinta him and i was ready, and i dont' regret it WHAT so ever. But....

When he placed his anda know in mine, i felt nothing, is that weird?

I had NO orgasm.

I didn't feel like anything, it felt like nothing was inside of me. (and he was.)


Any suggestions on why i had that?

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15 menit ago...and youre online fanpopping?
germany123 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
 Chlarkfan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Hellohoudini said:
Well it usually never happens like it does on tv...you know...fireworks...the first time...it usually painfully and usually the guy gets lebih out of it the first time than the girl...sad but true...but if anda guys truly cinta each other (and are using protection and being safe)...you'll learn to 'know' each other and it will get better. :)
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Okay, good. Cause i was kinda nervous. I mean like i felt absoloutly NOTHING, not even bad.
Chlarkfan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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if u felt nothing 4 him as in emotion then u mite have a problem. then it could have just been sex and tht cold 4 ur first time!
BlackAngel369 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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i mean like i cinta him, and i loved being with him. but when it comes to pleasure in my vagina, i felt nothing.
Chlarkfan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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But anda berkata it was the first time...you were just probably lebih nervous and scared than anda thought....now if its like youre 5th atau 6th...then its he's not any good atau he's not the one atau anda need to see a doctor....just suggestions.
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BlackAngel369 said:
ok first not evertime a girl will have an orgasm during sex. and 2nd did he cum inside of u,cuz he could b 2 small? (not 2 b mean) if this was ur first time and ur ceri, cherry didnt pop then do it again and mayb u will. but some girl's cherrys pop and they feel nothing and dont bleed eirthr, so... r u sure he was hard enough and u were wet enough cuz tht helps a lot? sex is diff 4 everyone tht dosent knw wht will happen atau wht 2 do.
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He's a good size, i know that. (don't worry not mean.) I don't know he was hard and i was wet, it was just SO weird like i felt nothing. no pain no pleasure. I'm just kinda nervous.
Chlarkfan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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wht were u so nervous about? geting caught atau not knwing wht 2 do?
BlackAngel369 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Both, i guess. But i mean i was relaxed and stuff NOW i'm nervous cause i just thought anda were supposed to feel something physically like bad/good, i felt neither.
Chlarkfan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
sesshyswind said:
Perhaps your physical build didn't match up, eather his penis was to small atau your cannel (vagina)is natually wide. Don't worry I'm not the type to poke fun at a sensitive subject like this, its just that anda may not match up physicaly.

But....XD, WAIT A menit are anda saying anda just had SEX 15 menit ago, for the first time, yet anda lept out of tempat tidur and logged on to FANPOP!!!! Where was your boy frind when anda were doing this???? WOW now that's.... I don't know what to sayO_O'
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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I had to go halaman awal for dinner, so i went onto fanpop during the prepration of my chicken salad. lol.
Chlarkfan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
LadyLilith said:
Wow, erm...get er done? XD

Well it could be a couple things. I'm surprised that anda didn't even feel anything bad (lucky...). Well...did he wear a condom? Because that could have gotten rid of some of the pleasure (I hate condoms). And usually...Idk, the first time is usually very different compared to sex anda have afterward. anda may have to have sex again atau a couple lebih times to start 'feeling it.' And as sesshyswind said, anda may not match up physically (not saying he's small atau anything).
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Yeah he wore a condom, (though i'm on the pill, just for extra protection.) yeah we're gonna try it couple lebih times, hopefully it'll get better. and yeah i mean he's REALLY tall. like 6'3 and i'm 5'3 but i mean he's a gooood size..thank anda for the advice.
Chlarkfan posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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well "hating" condoms....it might feel different withoot one but PURLEASE give yourself a pat on the back for being safe. since anda say youre on the pill: if this continues anda might want to speak to your doctor aboot this issue and try a different pill. hormones can have an impact on your sex drive and the ability to feel arousal.
germany123 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I just personally hate condoms. I'm glad that anda are being very careful though, Chlarkfan. :) It's probably just because it was your first time. I'm sure things will get pleasureable the selanjutnya couple times.
LadyLilith posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I dunno the truth behind the hormone stuff, but if anda decide to switch up birth control methods and don't want to take a pill I highly suggest a ring. :D They're awesome; I think they have actually increased my sex drive. Just saying.
LadyLilith posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
lililove15 said:
well, umm,. i dont think his "thinggy" wazz bigg... hahaha & hunny he wasnt good enough ether, anda should look for someone better ;]
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Jillywinkles said:
It's NOT because his penis wasn't big enough---far lebih likely that your clitoris didn't get stimulated enough. Also, do anda masturbate? anda need to mimic a bit what anda do when you're alone, so if anda haven't masturbated much, start practicing. Once anda are turned on and all ready to go, his penis inside anda will be the added pleasure that pushes anda over the edge. But the clit is the key to everything.
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