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TheLefteris24 said:
These are my Scores:
9 for Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your cinta language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I cinta you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that cinta sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave anda shattered and are not easily forgotten. anda thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build anda up.
6 both for Quality Time and Receiving Gifts
a) In Quality Time, nothing says “I cinta you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and pisau down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes anda feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, atau the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else atau doing activities together, anda deepen your connection with others through sharing time.
b) Don’t mistake this cinta language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If anda speak this language, the perfect gift atau gesture shows that anda are known, anda are cared for, and anda are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday atau a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to anda of someone else's cinta and affection for you.
5 for Acts of Service / Kindness
Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything anda do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he atau she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making lebih work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve anda out of cinta (and not obligation), anda feel truly valued and loved.
4 for Physical Touch
A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to tampil excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect atau abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and cinta to you.
That's it, pretty much.
What I want to say is that it was an expected result but at the same time, I got myself surprised concerning the order of some since there are those that I personally feel myself placing on a higher value than the way these Scores indicate...
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