I'm kind of in a sticky situation. Advice?

This is something that no one here can really help anda with as it's a rather personal decision.

It all boils down to what anda want in life, your own goals for your own lifestyle. How important is your relationship with your boyfriend to you? How important to anda are your dreams? How important are those things in relationship to one another- which do anda value more? Is your current boyfriend the person anda plan on living your life with?
Those are things anda have to answer for yourself.
anda should also talk to your boyfriend about it as well. He's the best person to consult about this. If the two of anda care about one another, anda should be able to come to a consensus about it and find a solution.

And it sounds like all of this is a rather long time from now. anda have time to think and sort things out. What anda want in life might change between now and then, your plans may change atau something else could happen to throw off your plans- the future is never certain. So don't sweat it to much for now and just talk to him about it and see how he feels. That's all anda really can do for now.

Make sure anda talk to him.
Don't listen to some of these other guys and just up and dump him, but also know that your future is worth pursuing.

So, my saran is don't ask us, ask him.

Put your goals first. I don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, which means I'm free.

It's really what anda wanna do tho.

I pretty much agree with what 8theGreat said. ...and whatever anda do, don't let him trick anda into having sex and get pregnant. That might trap both of anda into a life anda don't want, and certainly one a child doesn't deserve.
Also, is the house his to say who will stay? I'm not saying that I'm right, but that might just be something he berkata to sweet talk you. I suspect that if the grandmother is living there, it's for a good reason, and she and his mom are probably not the ones who'd end up moving.
Whatever anda decide, I hope anda don't get hurt.