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Do anda believe people are born gay atau do they choose it?

One of my best friends is gay but was raised to be straight all his life, till he chose to try being gay and realised that was what he was meant to be. And it got me thinking, lots of people say that anda are born gay, others say that anda choose to be gay. I was wondering what are your thoughts on this topic.
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Makeupdiva said:
anda people are wrong, they are born gay, they don't choose it. Homosexuality has nothing to do with reproducing. anda are either gay atau anda aren't, it's not a choice, just like being straight isn't a choice. It's not like straightening your hair atau buying a pair of jeans, those are choices but choosing to be gay? anda can't, not every person who is gay chooses to be gay, it's just really something they are born with. But don't realize it until they realize that they are gay.
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This.
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victoria7011 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I agree. It took me a while to realize that I was bisexual, and it wasn't a choice. It took a lot of thought on if I truly was attracted to females and males. I didn't make myself attracted to both; it was something I discovered.
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prussiaducky said:
I don't believe that anyone is born with a sexuality, I think it develops. anda know that 95% of the brain develops from birth to the age of 5, right? Sexuality, in my opinion, is developed. If anda are straight, it developed. If anda are gay, it developed.

Just my opinion on things, please no hate.
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It's nice to see someone who has a different logical opinion on all of this, and it is true that the majority of the brain develops in that critical time period, but there are lots of innate responses and abilities bayi are born with. The hormones that the woman gives the fetus also plays a huge role in how they develop sexually, so this might have something to do with it. No one can prove atau disprove homosexuality as a gene atau inherited feature, but it could deal with hormones and personality types as well as environment. But in the end no one can choose who they love, and it's okay to love. We need lebih of it in this world.
Roxas1314 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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True, I don't think that there is anything wrong with not being straight. Everyone is different, and being in cinta is a beautiful thing. Being a boy atau girl has nothing to do with it. But I still strongly believe that either a) there is no such thing as homosexuality/heterosexuality atau b) it develops. I think we all have someone we would go straight atau gay for, we just probably will never see atau meet them. Maybe we are all bisexual.
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Omg I know right?! I have a paper due selanjutnya bulan and Scholar is one of my go-to resources!
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Roxas1314 said:
'Raised straight' as was I. As was just about everyone else in the world, and yet, homosexual people still exist, still come out, still discover what they like every day. Behaviorism is rampant in the USA(I don't know if that's where anda are), so the majority of people think that hetero/homosexualities are 'molded' into the children of this country.

Well, if that were true, all kids in the US would be straight as 99% of everything we see is hetero based nowadays. But people are identifying as gay DESPITE everything straight around them. Is it innate? Is it how they were raised? Is it a developmental process?

Maybe. But someone has to provide proof of these 'choices' through extensive research. No child(except for a very few outliers) before the age of 8 can identify as anything, developmentally they are not interested in anyone, they are just exploring themselves at this stage, just learning about sexual things. During adolescence though, people are exploring lots of things about themselves and going through a storm of hormonal changes and increases, sexuality is something that might not be set in stone until after the brain has fully developed, and that is in the early to late 20's for most people.

'If their brains aren't fully developed that must mean they 'choose' to be gay during their teens!'

Not really, hormones do lots of involuntary things to teens, like menstrual cycles and acak erections. Sexual hormones can increase sexual drive, and that isn't a choice. It's a choice to have sex with someone, but not to be sexually attracted to them.

So your friend is experimenting, and he will know better than anyone else if he is gay atau not.
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We had a really cool assembly at school that the GSA (Gay/straight alligence club) made for the freshman class. It was very, VERY, depressing, since a lot of kids talked about how they self harmed, how they were bullied in Middle School, and how they were kicked out of their house for coming out. It was sad, but they seemed so happy about themselves now that it made me happy! :) It was a really big presetation, and everywhere in the school, every teacher has an "IT GETS BETTER" sticker :) there is quite a population of lgbt in my school, which is cool
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Wow! That's a really cool community anda have in your school! It does get better, but things will be worse before anything can get better, so the highs will be worth lebih when it does get better!
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ShadowFan100 said:
No, they aren't. Because gays can't reproduce -_- Everyone knows that u need a guy and a girl to have babies.
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Sexual reproduction =/= sole definition of love.
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Dynofox15 said:
They aren't born gay, they choose to be gay.
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Okay, so anda can choose to be gay and completely devote yourself to someone of the same sex, go ahead, just copmpletely cinta someone unconditionally right now if it is a choice anda should be able to do this without any problems. If anda are sexually attracted to a person of the opposite sex anda should also be able to completely be sexually attracted to someone of the same sex. Yes, yes, choose to be gay. It's just THAT easy.
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^ I agree. I'm gay and I never chose this. I'd even choose to be straight if I could, but I can't turn straight any lebih than you, Dyno, can choose to be gay.
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AlOoOosh said:
I think they choose to be gays ..
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Then yo ucan too right? Go on, choose to cinta and have sex with someoen of the same sex. If it's a choice, everyone can do it, right?
Roxas1314 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Yes anyone can do it ,but I think someone who thinks of that isn't normal.
AlOoOosh posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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No, not everyone is born normal. There are ALWAYS outliers for EVERYTHING. Got that? That is a FACT. Now, homosexuality was not proven atau disproven to be a mental illness oleh psychiatric means. It was voted on. There is no proof as to if homosexuality is normal atau not, the same way as there is no proof that ADHD exists. anda want to talk about psychology/psychiatry with a Psych major? Okay, go ahead. The DSM is crap. And that theory that 'bad things happened to make anda gay' has little to tampil for evidence, atau even research.
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Book-Freak said:
I think people either are born gay atau become gay (but that doesn't mean they choose it). Either they are born gay and from the moment they felt feelings of attraction to anyone it was to someone of the same gender, atau over a period of time their sexuality changes as they go through puberty. For example, I have a friend who thought she was straight when we were fifteen (and fancied this guy a lot), came out as bi when we were sixteen and then a couple months later berkata she was a lesbian. It definitely isn't a choice though.
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'or over a period of time their sexuality changes as they go through puberty' HORMONES! Yes! They influence lots of things concerning sexuality and sexual desire. There is no denying that, it is a fact that hormones influence sexual things. Good answer!
Roxas1314 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Thank you! I totally believe that sexuality is a fluid thing that can change in a person's life.
Book-Freak posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Fluidity, everyone changes all the time! Some thing don't change, and some things develop over an exntended period of time, and there isn't anything wrong with that! :D
Roxas1314 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Exactly!
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jessy_an said:
Some choose it.
And some are born this way.
Because not every gay is happy with life, are they?
If they're not then it means they are born this way.

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victoria7011 said:
People are BORN gay, they dont choose to be gay!

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Lovehinagurl44 said:
I'm not really sure. Some people might experiment some to see if they're gay atau not.
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frickityfrackle said:
Really, i'm unsure.

Being bisexual, i believe it's more-so something anda naturally develop.
it's not something anda can just formally decide-
anda can't just decide who anda fall in cinta with, now can you? no.
and, to everyone here talking about reproduction;
Stop.
being gay/lesbian/bisexual has nothing to do with whether atau not the person wants to have children.
Wanting to have/not have children is a choice, your sexuality has really nothing to do with that, other than the fact that anda wouldn't be able to biologically have children together. (unless of course anda went to a sperm bank, but that only applies to a lesbian couple, who could actually have that option. otherwise, anda could adopt a child.)

So, no. i don't really believe it's a choice, but a mere adaption/natural attraction.
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Monsterka said:
anda are born with it. People cannot choose their sexuality, but some might be not sure about their own sexual preferences oleh long time....

I bet to homosexual people it's hard when they realize their orientation, because they are afraid of reaction of family, friends and intolerant society. Sometimes it's hard even to themselves. It's not a choice, when anda wake up one hari and think: "Since now I will be gay, it seems to be cool"
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bless anda
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AnimeFreak24444 said:
I don't think anyone is born gay but they certainly don't choose to be gay.I mean,falling in cinta with someone isn't something anda can control,you don't choose who anda fall for.But I also don't believe anda can be born gay;I think anda realize you're gay later on in your life like in your adolescent years.
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thetankmoment said:
Is this a trick question?
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No why would anda think that? This is actually quite the serious question.
LocalArtistist posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I was joking
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LaDispute said:
Well I sure as fuck didn't choose it.
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LimblessHero said:
Sexuality isn't something anda can simply "choose". For all of anda out there who say so, can anda "choose" who you're sexually attracted to any time anda feel like it? I highly doubt it. It's something your born with, but anda don't realize it until later.
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swampfox31 said:
anda don't choose your sexuality, anda are born with it. I didn't choose to be straight, I was just born like that.
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Same thing with being gay. anda might not realize it at first, but either way, anda can't choose it.
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LiveLoveMusic said:
Born
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tammy63 said:
I think they are born gay. It's not choice, it's who they are. Some people are in denial, atau force themselves to cinta the other sex when they actually don't cinta them because society dictates it that way. I found a lovely song the other hari which carries this message and I'd like to share it with anda all if that's ok
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Liquid-Dice said:
You're born gay.
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mjlover4lifee said:
Its a little bit of both i guess cause if anda chose to be gay then its your choice anda just don't realize It until a certain age but sometimes anda can be straight and then chose to be gay instead.
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RoisinKelly01 said:
they choose to be gay, does anyone have a problem?
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I have a problem with spreading misinformation and furthing willful ignorance, so yes, that komentar is a problem.
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EgoMouse said:
Pretty sure its mostly hormonal.
I mean, its hard to actually control blood to the...erm, yeah. And exactly why would anyone want to feel crazy over another person oleh choice? I rather feel rational and logical all the time than crush on some person that isn't what my brain feels him/her to be. It just sorta happens.
If I could choose a sexuality right now, I'd go completely homosexual. I have reasons, but its kinda hard to avoid attraction with women.
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