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Guys,please answer,i need help,this is serious

I need help.i really want to help my mom.a few monthes ago,she started smoking again,and told me that she would stop when my dad and her finally got divorced. Well,my parents decided that they didnt want that,and are not getting divorced. :) but,my mom still didnt stop smoking,and its worrying me.her atitude keeps changing and it seems like she's always smoking ;(

And my dad told me that she is a bit addicted....

How can inhelp,or how can i lead her to the stepping stones of quitting?

Please no mean jawaban atau comments,im seriously worried for my mom,and i really would like serious answers,thnx everyone <3
 girsmurf22 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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8theGreat said:
My mom was a smoker from the age of 16, she went through 2 packs a hari at minimum. I never saw her without a cigarette. After a long time of us asking her to stop, she quit about 3 years ago.

What really did it was us sitting down with her and telling her how concerned we were, and while it took a couple of months, we got her to cut down on cigarettes gradually oleh giving her a daily and hiding the rest from her. There are also medications that can help cut down on smoking that my mom says she wouldn't have been able to go without.
The best thing that anda can do is be an honest, calm, gentle, and good support both while anda are trying to talk your mom in to quitting, while she is trying to quit, and even after. Be kind and loving towards her, share your concerns and let your tender ways and cinta for her be her reasons for quitting, let her be one of those people that can say they quit for their children.
It may take a while, but be patient. In the end, everyone in your family will see how worth it everyone's efforts were, and are.
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omg....thank u,*cries*
girsmurf22 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Besssssssst answer.
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titanicdragon said:
I have a friends that smokes and everytime I see him I tell him to please smoke find something eles puncak, atas deal with the strees like use the website

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omg sis ;) thank u :) u made ne cry with happiness
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Marshally90 said:
It happend the opposite to me! Right after my mom divorced she started smoking like crazy! I'm also trying to stop her but she just ignores me!!

Have anda tried talking to her and telling her your situation?
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no,we havent gotten to talk about it:( and wow what a coincidence
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IKR?
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Panda-Hero said:
bro my mom smokes too. When anda tell them to stop they just yell at you.
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its getting really bad though ;(
girsmurf22 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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^I went into my mom's bathroom and found six empty packs and she's been smoking for years. B|
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im sorry :(
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smileyAqua said:
Try and get her to chew gum; Tell her that she has a serious problem that anda are afraid will hurt heralong with others, and try urging her closer to gum. My sis used this on one of her friends and she stopped, so I hope it works with your mom.
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thank u :)
girsmurf22 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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I asked her to do that but all she did is ignore me! B(
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egyptprincess7 said:
Try to tell her to stop atau explain to her that smoking is dangerous. Not just for her,but for the people around her.
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thank u :)
girsmurf22 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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If that doesn't help,steal the pack and throw them away. I should really follow my own saran though. >.<
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seffro said:
anda are quite different off-line and online. When anda talked about your real life it was like a different person

Take a pack every now and then and throw it away
My parents have those 12 packs in a box kinda thing
So I throw one out everynow and then and lately theyve been trying to quit because its getting too exspensive
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yeah i can be that way :) and thnx :)
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Jeffersonian said:
I know anda really do want to help and she doesn't seem to be listening, but sometimes due to the actual addictive substances in cigarettes, it's hard to quit even when anda want to.
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yeah,i understand
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:) thnx btw
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wantadog said:
She is most likely a tad lebih than a bit addicted.


I have no idea...tell her that seeing her smoke worries anda atau something like that...Or anda could always go the guilt trip route.
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 She is most likely a tad lebih than a bit addicted. I have no idea...tell her that seeing her smoke worries anda atau something like that...Or anda could always go the guilt trip route.
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it....wasnt a joke....
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I know that. The "Guilt trip" part was the joke. the other parts were my real answer.
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OneErection said:
Alright, let me tell anda something.
Cigarettes are really hard to quit. They are very addictive. My father's been smokin' ever since he was a teenager, he's been trying to quit for a very long time.
So I know, it is not easy. It's also not something that's going to be solved right away.
First, tell her about it. Talk to her, tell her it's worrying you.
Hopefully once anda address it, you'll work something out.
Don't be to rash about it. And don't trouble yourself too much, it's not the end of the world.
Considering I do not know much about the situation atau her attitude towards things, I can't really say anything more.
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thank u,this saran is golden yo me :)
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kristel_bb said:
I know how anda feel. My mom smoked since she was 18. She use to smoke ALL the time. 2 years ago, my mom use to buy 2-3 packs a hari and they would be gone at the end of the day. My mom had broncitis atau how ever anda spell it, & Me and my brother went crying to my mom. Ive never seem my brother cry this hard since my dad died, but anyways we went crying to her and telling her that we dont want to lose her ( because she smokes which = lung cancer) because if we lost her, we wouldnt have parents and we told her how much everyone cared about her and alot lebih which i dont wanna get into& so she starting crying and hugged us and me and my brother helped her through the process and and we did alot of things and she chewed gum alot and whenever she felt gross atau bad she would take the feeling, and after the people telling her to stop and quit, after all those hard years, she stopped smoking(: im so proud of her<3 thats my story. Make your mom chew gum, and if she yells at anda just beg her. & what helped for me, i took a pack of her cigarettes and threw it away and she would buy about one pack a week cause they were so expensive. Also me and my brother helped her oleh making her buy one pack per week and having to use how much in is one pack and it has to last her a a whole week. Get what i mean? Well i hope this helped(:
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graystone said:
The reason your mom smokes is most probably due to the increased stress levels. Everyone has their own way of blowing off steam. I suggest anda find a good altrenative oleh which your mom can divert the stress like having a hobby, music, gardening, cooking, etc. And the support from family is very important. Try spending lebih time with her and indulge in family activities. All this should help your mom forget about her worries and should reduce the smoking.
And most importantly talk to her and tell your mom how much anda care for her health.
I'm not an expert, but hope this works :)
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DecodingRomance said:
My cousins smoked all the time. Whenever we saw them, they would be smoking. It horrible. My uncle, as well smoked. He's finally stop, but has a smoke every now and then. One of my cousins has stopped. Thank god.

Honestly.
I'm sure your mum is aware of what can happen if anda smoke. Lungs fail, bad breathing, horrible teeth, feet and other parts of your body and it can even come to death.

Make your mum sit down with you. Look up some of the things that can happen if anda smoke and share then with your mum. Just tell her how much anda cinta her, be honest. Tell her how much anda care and anda want her to be around us much as possible. If its really getting out of hand, I really think anda have to find someone to talk to your mum about the problem.

Get your dad and family to talk to her. A bit of worry from everyone will make her feel loved even more.

I hope this helps and your mum stops.
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