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Is my boyfriend right? Am I judgemental and shallow?

My boyfriend's friends are into drugs. Not real hard stuff atau anything, but I totally disagree with it. I berkata it to him the other hari that I didn't want to be hanging around with them and he berkata I was judgemental and shallow because of it. Is he right? They're pretty nice guys, but I disagree completely with drugs....should I just ignore it? But I don't want these guys hanging around my house? And because my bf got so defensive, I'm afraid he's started into them. If this is true, and he insists on continuing to use them, do anda think I should end it with him?? :/
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NoahFanNumber1 said:
My advice: dump the guy for someone better. Don't worry about yourself being "shallow", because you're smart for wanting to not be around them, just don't have a boyfriend who calls anda names and doesn't say "yes" to you.


I don't know anda that well, but anda are definitely NOT shallow atau judgmental. anda are very smart for trying to avoid those idiot pot-heads.

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Couldn't of berkata it better.^
Chewfjkd posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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^why thank anda 0u0
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m0shercisee said:
not shallow but a little judgemental yea. i do weed sometimes and i know a lot of people who do. doing drugs doesn't make someone a bad person so don't break up with him for that. jus let him and his friends do their own thing and stop trying to control what anda boyfriend does. anda can tell them anda don't want them at your house but who your bf is friends with isn't up to anda :/

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drugs can KILL you...does your life mean anything to you!?
purpleslurp12 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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things like weed don't kill 99.9% of people and that's all most people do. anyway that had nothing to do with the pertanyaan aha.
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BeastBoyCahill said:
No, he's wrong.
They're wrong to do drugs and anda should try to reason with him... (Of course, anda ARE trying to reason with him... that's just something I think anda should keep going with.)
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
anda are not the shallow one. anda are the smart one and he is just defensive. It is sad. anda don't want to get busted if he gets into trouble because anda are with them atau something. If he's into drugs I'd just blow him off now while anda can before it really hurts you.
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couldn't have berkata it better myself! *votes best answer*
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ixAthena said:
It's your boyfriend who's wrong, not you.
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Ssmiley_143 said:
I think if anda don't like hanging around with him why not just dump him?
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BlindBandit92 said:
Some people would disagree with me. I do know that people have been trying to get certain drugs legal but honestly if he is not doing it for medicinal purposes and is doing illegally, I say dump him because dating who is addicted to drugs can hurt anda even if anda don't do it yourself. Your boyfriend is just defensive.

Just my take on the matter.
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greengirl8 said:
Yes! If anda feel uncomfortable with what they're doing, anda should stop hanging with them. And your boyfiend is totally wrong, anda are not judgemental and shallow! Don't ever let anybody push anda around, especially when it comes to matters like this! :)
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