anda are having lunch with three people anda respect and admire. They all start criticizing a close friend of yours, not knowing she is your friend. The criticism is distasteful and unjustified. What do anda do?
Listen, nod, listen more, and defend. Make a just counter point to point out why anda believe the statements they berkata to be flawed atau only one side, and explain the other side. If that was not what I chose, then I might have to soak all this in and not say anything and then excuse myself and leave. anda do not even have to mention that anda know the other person in order to get your point across. It depends on whether anda think anda should keep their anonymity -if it's better, atau to include the justification for why anda have your opinion is because anda know them and are their friend.
" Guy's Stop saying shit about the girl even though anda know nothing about her! anda don't have the right to say that about anyone!"
And they don't. Even though they may say reason's why they do keep saying that it's wrong. And that it's not an excuse to say such crude thing's.
I mean, they shouldn't say crude thing's about anyone even though it's not your friend. In my opinion they should keep their hatred to themselves and also find a new way of humor. For making fun of people isn't funny. Doesn't matter who it is.