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How do anda deal with this situation?

I was talking to my ex-boyfriend (and my love) today and he was getting pissy. He has been for a while to me and I've been going threw depression for months. During and after my relationship with him, I talked to him about committing suicide. Now, he berkata "He's done dealing with it anymore". He's called me a menggerutu, jalang the other day, too. He berkata we could be friends after he broke up with me, but I don't know anymore. It's seems almost as if he hates me.

Also, this is serious, so no smart-ass comments.
 brittanyloves posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Shadowmarioking said:
Hmm...
Well, suicide is actually a very serious topic to bring up in a conversation. I mean, think about it. Suicide is practically a person taking their life out of their choice. It's their choice that they want to die. Now, sometimes people will associate suicide as a plea for attention; to be noticed oleh someone. There was a pertanyaan about suicide on here a couple days yang lalu that a select few people thought was completely made up, so it's not a shock to see how your ex is reacting to this. Perhaps he thinks you're joking atau that you're too gloomy to speak to if you've talked about committing suicide. He's probably overreacting to the whole "Suicide and depression" thing. With the feelings he's tampilkan to you, there is a possibility that anda will feel worse instead of better. Anger and hate can really disrupt a peaceful environment, and in your case with your depression, anger is not something anda want to receive, especially from someone anda love.

I encourage anda get better and perhaps speak with your ex about his attitude and how he needs to change it if he really cares about anda and wants anda to get better. If he continues to tampil his anger, there is no point in keeping him as a friend. And, even though I realize it might be hard, perhaps anda should pindah on from him. If he wants to help you, he should then try to encourage some sort of happiness and joy into anda instead of tampilkan anda anger.

All beings on this planet want happiness and not suffering. I hope that anda get through this alright and stronger than anda were before.
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Thank you, that helped a lot
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^You're welcome.
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cassie-1-2-3 said:
It's very possible that he thought anda were trying to make him feel guilty for breaking up with you. Like anda were trying to trick him into getting back together just to stop anda from killing yourself.

It's a very tricky topic to talk about with someone. Especially if that someone is a large contributer to how you're feeling.

What anda can do to fix it is to take the time pull yourself together every time before anda try to talk to him so anda don't come accross as desperate atau out of control. Tell him you're sorry, not for being depressed but for saying things that may frighten him, and ask him if he's willing to talk to anda about it every once in a while. anda can understand why it would make him uncomfortable, right? Depression has a depressing effect on anda and your loved ones, unfortunately. As long as anda tampil him that you're willing to try to feel good around him, he probably won't be so upset about it.
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Thanks for the saran
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cutie611 said:
forget abt it! k maybe u cant do it then try to turn positive!! k dont do what i just berkata maybe try im already trying to deal a little prob like that abt my cuzin....
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